xpac01:

Dude, give her no nores. Am bookmarking this post. Very informative. Welldone.

Thank You, Sir.

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am a good girl

lilmax:
i was waiting for your post, I know you must say something about submission

lol

emusmith:


I agree with both of you...It's earned!

yeah! your points are valid too when it comes to marriage.

Mrsfaithhh:

Ahn ahn so u don go wear nika for me?
What do u know about me too?
So u ar tryin to pursue me commott for dis thread? So if it dosnt concern me who willit consyn

You have a wrong image of me which doesn't really matter... I must say what I believe... It may not suit you but at least, one person is informed and cautioned.

Whynotthetruth:




But sure, we wont need his services after all...We can pretty be mature in our deals...or don't you think so?

Lol

Oya...wake up!!!

anumide:

inferior?
hahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah
so even if a man is dumb/irresponsible, by the virtue of his gender, he is superior to smart/responsible women?

Whether dumb/irresponsible, owning to the appellative 'man' already makes him head, which is synonymous with superior.

2SWT:
Not@all



but must you spoil market for other girls?


Don't u know with this list some guys will want to break up with their girlfriends??

On pe lol.. No pity in choosing partner Since they (ladies) dont marry out of pity They broke hearts and go for their best bidding And again any fault or mistake notice Drive ha away! U can't buy scrap with ur hard-earned money #noMercy

emusmith:




You have a wrong image of me which doesn't really matter... I must say what I believe... It may not suit you but at least, one person is informed and cautioned.

I don't hav any wrong image of u.
Infact I like u,which doesn't realy matter and which dosnt realy mean dat all ur points up are just it.
Like sayin a lady dat argues is a sign dat she's gon b a pin in d neck is a no no.
And I wish dat u write about men as much as u write abt women.

mahyowah:
Hey bro. thnks!

You're most welcome, bro.

lovelyadeola:

On pe lol.. No pity in choosing partner Since they (ladies) dont marry out of pity They broke hearts and go for their best bidding And again any fault or mistake notice Drive ha away! U can't buy scrap with ur hard-earned money #noMercy

okay

4. She is not enthusiastic about seeing your siblings or parents.



Ask her what she thinks about in-laws living with you guys...- To see her reaction in her eyes...

Are you married yet? If not, do you intend letting your ppl live with you and your wife? ur mom? ur sisters? ur brothers? Would you like for her own ppl to LIVE in your home? I am not against them visiting for the holidays or something but them living with you guys is a different ball games all together.

Apparently, u haven't seen enough Nollywood movies



And for that submission part, abeg easy o. We know u guys are the OGAS. we can be submissive. That doesn't mean we should be trampled upon because u r the Öga at the Top". The key word is "balance".

My own 2kobo

Gemc3:

4. She is not enthusiastic about seeing your siblings or parents.



Ask her what she thinks about in-laws living with you guys...- To see her reaction in her eyes...

Are you married yet? If not, do you intend letting your ppl live with you and your wife? ur mom? ur sisters? ur brothers? Would you like for her own ppl to LIVE in your home? I am not against them visiting for the holidays or something but them living with you guys is a different ball games all together.

Apparently, u haven't seen enough Nollywood movies



And for that submission part, abeg easy o. We know u guys are the OGAS. we can be submissive. That doesn't mean we should be trampled upon because u r the Öga at the Top". The key word is "balance".

My own 2kobo

Thanks.

You omitted the "see the reaction in her eyes" part...it's more like to prepare her and yourself too in case it comes up. Nobody want in laws but we were all in laws some how... It's not easy for us all but if it comes up nko?

for the Oga part, we must balance it na...

emusmith:


Thanks.

You omitted the "see the reaction in her eyes" part...it's more like to prepare her and yourself too in case it comes up. Nobody want in laws but we were all in laws some how... It's not easy for us all but if it comes up nko?

for the Oga part, we must balance it na...

Aii. .. No p.

Gemc3:



Aii. .. No p.

Thanks.

@op.....I am really impressed by ur write up..I see a lot of sense in it,meanwhile don't genralize its not alwys so,however some people will not change ,instead of critically analysiing a post and making approprite imputs all they do is to lampoon and and find faults in what people post....just because some people are married does not make dem matured...maturity is a thing of the mind not by age or marriage..thumbs up!

Another stereotype.

The environment does influence our future actions and the past does sip in sometimes but there are a thousand things that influences someone’s action or inactions.

If you want to base this on choosing a girl. Then you may as well not get married at all except you are looking to marry Female version of Angel Gabriel without a single taint because not a single girl out there who does not have one or two of those listed influences hanging over her head. Go drink to that.

tosyne2much:
pls relax young lady.. Don't take it too personal

She may not be as young as you think. The lass is pained.

Good post.

2SWT:
Not@all



but must you spoil market for other girls?


Don't u know with this list some guys will want to break up with their girlfriends??

Do you represent one of the seven signs? #guiltyconscience

[quote author=skelefish post=29774533]Is there any good woman on this planet earth? God made it so, the best u guys can do is to proudly acknowledge your position as second. I don't see how this affect self esteem.[/quote
Dunno about you but after everything my mum has suffered and endured from my dad, yes there're still some left. Quit generalising!

OP nice points..... In every living environments in life there is always a leader and its usually the male. It is Nature. Yall feminist shouldn't fight it. That's not to mean you won't be respected. The feminists don't want equality trust me, they just want preferential treatments which is impossible. Jona is superior to sambo, buhari superior is to osibade, a gen mgr is superior to an asst mgr. That's how it is.

Oops ladies


The truth is hard to swallow

Ladies let there be wind of change in your life

Upon how woman wrappers plenty for romance section some guys still dey keep the section valid. these points are sooo true. I have a friend who's gf got most of these attributes and even more(very stupid girl sha). I don tell am tire but hin say hin love her . We don even fight because of the matter b4 sef. Now I don leave them alone. Not my business tho

Is like most ladies are touched with 5,6,& 7... instead of being defensive; it is advisable to start working on how to correct those negative values. You girls should appreciate the guy that did a go research on the topic.

You may not agree with all the points, but pls search yourself, search soul and take to correction

Tiffarah:
Dunno about you but after everything my mum has suffered and endured from my dad, yes there're still some left. Quit generalising!

My dear I don't believe this, it's the other way round, men often suffer in the hands of their wife, or do u have a shred of evidence to buttress & authenticate your point? If no,then your comment is baseless. One more mention devoid of proof might result in a fine of 150MB for me.

zigger:
Wats olosho?

Ask Flavor.

Awusha, Ashawo. Ukwu nwa baby..

I totaly agree with this list. My ex was almost doing very tin on that list

Sacluxpaint:

Do you represent one of the seven signs? #guiltyconscience

Not@all





am a good girl

Poster, I agree with you.

If a lady tells her guy stories of how bad her friends are. And she is acting good girl for him. She is definitely a green snake hiding in a green grass.

One girl was telling me how her gf can runz 3 boys living in the same area in one city. I was just digesting the stories. Later my mind went to this saying, " Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are ".. She was acting holy girl covering up with a lot of lies but many things were just not adding up.

Till one day she came to visit me and I wasn't home. She has this bad suspicious habit that when she is coming to visit me, she will switch off her phone and I cannot reach her till she.knocks.on my gate. Claiming low battery.

So I wasnt home and she was now leaving my house, like 4 poles away, she started chatting with one notorious married guy in my area. I came by and passed her because she positioned herself that no one will see her.

Now I remembered her friends script which she told me about. When I confronted her, she was so ashamed and that relationship crashed..

Mrsfaithhh:
@op u ar so interested in who's above and who's below.I don't know how that makes u feel.But has it eva ocured to u how it makes d person "below" feel wen u kip lettin dem know they ar below?
D people who won't agree do not do so out of wateva u mite call it...
U tink it is exciting hearing or knowing that "u ar above and she's below".Esp wen u just don't know wat u did wrong to b put in dat position..
I'm sure guys feel fly sayin dey ar above but hear dis from me,wen a woman keeps hearing dat it kinda has a not too good effect on her self esteem.
Women battle wit self esteem a lot.not because they were born wit but because of tins they kip hearing and reading about their gender.u don't hav to kip ringing in a womans head that u ar above her bfor she even respects U.
A good woman honors and respects people normaly.not because u ar above her or wateva.my humble advise

You summarized it with this last sentence. Which means you agree with the poster.

A bad woman believes she is the boss, she spends your money and still controls you. Her only power is her bosom and backside..

100% correct