One of my friend called me yesterday that he will be taking one his new babe to my house. I asked him if it was just an ordinary visit, he said no that it was not an ordinary visit, that he intend sleeping with her. he said he needs some privacy in my house for at least 5hours, that he will come to collect my house key.

I asked him why he wants to use my house since he has a well furnished house? He told me that he doesn't want his real babe to walk into them accidentally in his house, that he needs a place like my house where his real babe don't easily visits. He said he was afraid that he may gets caught by his real babe cheating. I then told him that my house is not available that he should go and book a hotel instead, that i don't allow such thing in my house. I told him that i'm very sorry that it can't be possible. He then cut the call. I guess he was angry for my refusal to grant his request. i have been trying to reach him on phone since but to no avail. I would try to go and see him later.

Please is what i did wrong? Should i have left my house for him and his babe to do such thing?

My dear u did nothing wrong,in fact you acted like a responsible fellow

since you have taken your action.

What do you want us to do

rinora:
My dear u did nothing wrong,in fact you acted like a responsible fellow

i thank God. Honestly, i dnt do such thing and i would not allow anyone particularly my friend to do that.

You did well. Abeg let him carry his ogbanje and move on jare. Who knows what that babe would have done swf. Maybe steal you stuff too.
Abegi, let him park make you drive ya hummer go front.
He should go rent a small LovePeddler joint and be taking his women there.

Hazardd:
since you have taken your action.

What do you want us to do

how would i make my friend to understand the reason behind my action.

summary, chicks go say u do well and guys go say u f up.
Next topic.

you did the right thing....

AYODEJI4LOVE:
you did the right thing....

ok. I was thinking i did the wrong thing.

delishpot:
You did well. Abeg let him carry his ogbanje and move on jare. Who knows what that babe would have done swf. Maybe steal you stuff too.
Abegi, let him park make you drive ya hummer go front.
He should go rent a small LovePeddler joint and be taking his women there.

If na you be the babe, shey you go follow am go the 'small ashaawo joint'?

Don't encourage what you might find hard doing

Op, you didn't do well at all

We dudes are supposed to cover up for each other..... I understand your house isn't a pornn theatre, but these are little things that friends do for friends.... He just wan use your house 'settle' one babe codedly, na im you fall him hand kpatakpata....

clevvermind:
One of my friend called me yesterday that he will be taking one his new babe to my house. I asked him if it was just an ordinary visit, he said no that it was not an ordinary visit, that he intend sleeping with her. he said he needs some privacy in my house for at least 5hours, that he will come to collect my house key. I asked him why he wants to use my house since he has a well funished house? He told me that he doesn't want his real babe to walk into them accidentally in his house, that he needs a place like my my house where his real babe don't easily visits. He said he was afraid that he may gets caught by his real babe cheating. I then told him that my house is not available that he should go and book a hotel instead, that i don't allow such thing in my house. I told him that i'm very sorry that it can't be possible. He then cut the call. I guess he was angry for my refusal to grant his request. i have been trying to reach him on phone since but to no avail. I would try to go and see him later. Please is what i did wrong? Should i have left my house for him and his babe to do such thing?

Not only cut the phone but he can cut his D
Your house is not a hotel

Tinubu:
Op, you didn't do well at all

We dudes are supposed to cover up for each other..... I understand your house isn't a pornn theatre, but these are little things that friends do for friends.... He just wan use your house 'settle' one babe codedly, na im you fall him hand kpatakpata....

so he can turn the dude house to hotel
tomorrow other girl
Please
If you want to play
You must have money to play

i dnt do such too....main girl or not...once i jst wan Bleep d babe...it is my house or hers or nowhere

Me go say y Bleep up and my wife will u do well

You didn't even do it well enough.



If it were to be my friend(I'm not hyping myself, but quite frankly I don't have any friend as useless as that), I would have given him my house key....after doing that, I would pick up my phone, send an anonymous text to his girlfriend - "Hi, your guy is in another house along so so street, I'm not sure but I think he is pounding another girl as I send you this text... I'm not trying to break up your relationship by sending you this text, I actually hope your relationship ceases to be. I don't know you and I don't know or care if you deserve to be cheated upon but sending you this text is just my way of ridding the romantic stratosphere of useless elements"


After that, I put my phone in my pocket and continue doing my thing.

Some guys are just very useless to say the least, double dating or double straffing does not reflect masculinity, it doesn't make you a "very good badt guy" (whatever that means by the way) it doesn't make you cool, it doesn't make you funky or hippy or contemporary, instead it means you're grossly irresponsible with no ounce of direction and purpose of life, it means you lack any trace of resolved commitment to a cause or purpose.


This thing dey vex me like say na me be the babe sef

Rubbish!!!

Tinubu:
Op, you didn't do well at all

We dudes are supposed to cover up for each other..... I understand your house isn't a pornn theatre, but these are little things that friends do for friends.... He just wan use your house 'settle' one babe codedly, na im you fall him hand kpatakpata....

i have my principle and my friend must understand that. My house is not a motel. If i allow him now, next time he would want to do it again. So, no way.

sseunth:
i dnt do such too....main girl or not...once i jst wan Bleep d babe...it is my house or hers or nowhere

simple.

GoodFaith:

Not only cut the phone but he can cut his D
Your house is not a hotel

dnt mind him. i would go and explain to him why i refused his request.

clevvermind:
i have my principle and my friend must understand that. My house is not a motel. If i allow him now, next time he would want to do it again. So, no way.

Since you have your principles and it's obvious ur principles and his aren't the same, why you come dey worry? You broke the bro code bro! You just lost a friend.

Tinubu:



If na you be the babe, shey you go follow am go the 'small ashaawo joint'?

Don't encourage what you might find hard doing

Oh well, he is a man LovePeddler so he should make it clear to the girl.
Why lie to a woman and then expect the best from women?
I dont care where he takes her. If he likes, he should take her to public toilet for all I care. The other guy had a right to not allow friend(s) turn his house to a small ashy joint.
Will you say the same thing if your babe was looking for a nice spot to cheat on you? Will you care where she takes him? If they were comfortable or not?
Abegi. Let him carry his HIV somewhere else jare.

OP abegi forget the man jare. A pal of mine did it, he gave his house keys to his pal for doing runs. The mumu girl stole his gold necklace and some bracelets. Even the jewelry of his daughter and wife(they travelled) The guy that brought her just said sorry and promised to pay back but how can he buy exactly the same designs?
God forbid that babe is fetish and she put rubish love portion for your water or food thinking that house belonged to your pal so that he can love her more?
Abeg ignore all the enemies of progress asking you to make your life difficult. Na so devil dey take tempt people. Satan is using them against you.
Look well, abeg, make your house clean biko so that when you kneel down to pray beside your bed, all the demons that follow runs will not block your prayers
Those that do it, look well, they are not moving forward in life. They hop from one padi's house to another like sex junkies looking for a fix.

Der is nting to pretend abt we guys do it
ma friend go be like: he wil place a call
hello chimee or somtimes he wont call ma name
Idiot where u keep ur key?
Then me: fool wetin happen
him: na one side chick way de disturb me
me: ok me no dey, key de under footmat no scatter ma huz oh fool
him: idiot pikin *cuts de call*

Nutase:
summary, chicks go say u do well and guys go say u f up.
Next topic.

Guy you are over on point. One bottle of Monkey tail for you

30secs:
Since you have your principles and it's obvious ur principles and his aren't the same, why you come dey worry? You broke the bro code bro! You just lost a friend.

he will understand if i explain why i did that.

chimerase2:
Der is nting to pretend abt we guys do it
ma friend go be like: he wil place a call
hello chimee or somtimes he wont call ma name
Idiot where u keep ur key?
Then me: fool wetin happen
him: na one side chick way de disturb me
me: ok me no dey, key de under footmat no scatter ma huz oh fool
him: idiot pikin *cuts de call*

u try o. i nor fit do that thing o. wetin do hotel?

A friend in need is a friend in deed.

Op...you broke the BRO CODE
you let a nigga down


At least we all can understand that our friends can break our heart. Just like dis OP has done.

clevvermind:
u try o. i nor fit do that thing o. wetin do hotel?

I hv dis strong feeling dat you re tryn to mk front page..

anywayz!!

u could hv asked 4 a 3some or no deal..
abi na only p0rn u go dey watch?

Fribery:


I hv dis strong feeling dat you re tryn to mk front page..

anywayz!!

u could hv asked 4 a 3some or no deal..
abi na only p0rn u go dey watch?

far from that. This is what happened live. I dnt hunt for front page like others.
I dnt do 3some.

Op, you did great. Do not even call him. Allow him to deal with his immaturity.

Op good!! No allow them carry badluck come put for your house o

OP, you did absolutely nothing wrong. DO NOT GO AND APOLOGIZE TO HIM.

Friendship is not all about getting a yes to all your request. It is being able to refuse to support when your friend is wrong but rather point it to them.


Your house is not a brothel so let him go if he no longer wants to associate with you.


such guys will rather go and drink beer worth N20,000 with the "boys" rather than giving you same amount to complete your rent if you ever find yourself needing assistance from him.