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Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
divalindiway: I don't quite agree with you on this . I would rather say it is " inferiority complex " that do make informal educated people to feel intimidated by their formally educated counterparts . Knowledge-wise , in a particular area of study , I will take a thoroughly informally educated person any-day-any-time over a formally educated counterpart that only knows how to use his/her mastery of the lingua franca to gloss his/her ignorance . Show me a half baked formally educated person and I will show you an empty vessel - pride is the order of the day among our so called formally educated lots , knowledge-wise in their chosen areas of specialization , they have nothing to offer . I am writing this , in my position as an employer of labor , based on the experiences I have had from both entities under discussion here . 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by sneak3(m): 6:28pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
I definitely can't!! Reason bein that we aint compatible... I can't even marry a prity, educated but dull lady. |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
sneak3: The last time I checked , it is spelled " pretty " not " prity " . Maybe you can thank me later . Now , you see what I mean , education ( formal or informal ) is different from illiterate . I believe you can marry an illiterate that is formally/informally educated in your local dialect , but obviously you cannot marry someone who's not educated in either way - a DUMB ( dull-witted ) person . Someone who's unable to read/write/speak a particular language is automatically an illiterate to such language and by extension to the naive speakers of such language . But does that make the person " DUMB " , no . I could remember vividly many times I traveled to non English speaking countries , because of my inability to speak the native languages of my hosts , some naive natives of those countries assumed that I must be an illiterate despite my bespoke and impeccable mannerism . People tend to misunderstand the true meaning of who an illiterate is , same as the also do misunderstand who a true educated person is . Talking about education , John Major former UK prime mister had no formal education same as Jacob Zuma the current president of the republic of South Africa , yet they and others like them has been able to reach the zenith of their life aspirations . But if some of you are asked whether you can marry someone who is not formally educated , they answer will be capital NO ... Too bad . 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by sneak3(m): 8:57pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Empero1: I don't just know why am trying to convince myself on ur level of sanity.. If u judge my spellings on chat forum like dis den u might as well be an Illiterate.. Note I don't appreciate corrections on ' delibrate typings' |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by divalindiway(f): 11:05pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Empero1: I get ur point but thank God u said u talking 'as an employer'. We are talking about life partner not business partner.I am not saying that there are no well groomed illiterates out dere.All I am saying is dat in terms of reasoning...dere is a clear cut diff between d two. Lets look beyond English language. For instance, I am an igbo girl and i know fully well wat i wud go thru if i eventually marry one of my ogbuefi brothers dat hv 'shade' in onitsha.no offence oh. Most of d guys dere wud either want a house wife or one who wud handle their branch 'shade'. Now again,dis ogbuefi guy wud not want me to keep associating wit my classmates infact he doesn't hv to put effort to do dat cos living wit him alone will automatically cut me off. I might say 'honey,there is this share i want to buy..i need to find a stock broker bla bla' and he wud start to think otherwise. I said it in my first comment dat a guy asked me this same 'marry illiterate question' i told him i can. den i asked him if this 'illiterate'( who happens to b a sec sch drop out) would allow me if per adventure my classmate bcoms a president and wants me in his cabinet.The guy cud not answer. The problem is d attitude of both the learned and unlearned not the English language. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by DeKasablanca(f): 12:47am On Jan 15, 2015 |
Ko jooo! E no resemble am. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by olafunny(m): 8:12pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
2SWT:wait, lemme get d most expensive ring |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by 2SWT(f): 8:16pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by olafunny(m): 8:35pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
2SWT:dat got me crying though ![]() |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by 2SWT(f): 10:07pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
olafunny:take it easy dearie |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by olafunny(m): 10:51pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
2SWT: ![]() |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by Nobody: 3:17am On Jan 16, 2015 |
It depends on the guy ![]() |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by callMeOlaar: 6:29am On Jan 16, 2015 |
Joshrob:ur english isnt dat gud either . 6 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by olafunny(m): 9:26am On Jan 16, 2015 |
callMeOlaar: ![]() |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by tuffgongjo(m): 1:43pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
That ain't happening even in the next life. |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by JustCare: 1:43pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
but I'm sad today |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by ireneony(f): 1:44pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
dumbest post ever |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
can I? ibeere nla!!! |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by bosun11(m): 1:47pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
NO |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by ceejay80s(m): 1:47pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Joshrob:why break up with her? Our great grand mother sabi speak good english? But our great grandfathers married dem still |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by toyoutoyou: 1:48pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Having an illiterate as wife might result to national disgrace and distabilization of one's presidential administration.So no be only me waka come,and theris God ooooo.Thank u. |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by lekikosky(m): 1:48pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Let illitrates marry each other,there is always the gap and difference in approach everything. Though some make up for the difference but not in all cases. |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by iliyande(m): 1:49pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
olafunny: So you mean someone that speaks French fluently is an illiterate? Cos she/he doesn't speak English |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by bosun11(m): 1:49pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
2SWT: GOD FORBID |
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Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by ceejay80s(m): 1:50pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
sneak3:i not fit use "who" for u, "what" are u ITIBORIBO |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by bosun11(m): 1:50pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by obowunmi(m): 1:50pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
No. Can't even date a dull person. What will we talk about? |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by bajosky: 1:52pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
This question could be best answered by GMB wife and their family. but no ask Buhari for school cert ooooo |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Am married to a wife nw who den dznt knw hw to speak good english..mistaking past tense n present...she grew up in d village away frm her parents.she is damn smart,clever,caring,undastanding,cooks good and all u cud imagine a perfect wife is...I tot her almost evrytin of morden lifestyle n hw to use dem including being pafect on bed..nw she is good..speaks n uses grammatical words mor dan me who even tot her n way beta dan i am on bed...it appears dat wateva I teach her she knws far mor dan I do 4 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by contactmorak: 1:53pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Aprime:I tire o. |
Re: Can You Marry An Illiterate? by eleko1: 1:53pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Is English your MT/FL?If U really care for her,U either help her/enrol her in adult class.No sacrifice is much than dat Joshrob: |
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