OP correct guy oya chop kiss

@op i will say one good turn deserve anoda.

InZA:
You didn't even do it well enough.



If it were to be my friend(I'm not hyping myself, but quite frankly I don't have any friend as useless as that), I would have given him my house key....after doing that, I would pick up my phone, send an anonymous text to his girlfriend - "Hi, your guy is in another house along so so street, I'm not sure but I think he is pounding another girl as I send you this text... I'm not trying to break up your relationship by sending you this text, I actually hope your relationship ceases to be. I don't know you and I don't know or care if you deserve to be cheated upon but sending you this text is just my way of ridding the romantic stratosphere of useless elements"


After that, I put my phone in my pocket and continue doing my thing.

Some guys are just very useless to say the least, double dating or double straffing does not reflect masculinity, it doesn't make you a "very good badt guy" (whatever that means by the way) it doesn't make you cool, it doesn't make you funky or hippy or contemporary, instead it means you're grossly irresponsible with no ounce of direction and purpose of life, it means you lack any trace of resolved commitment to a cause or purpose.


This thing dey vex me like say na me be the babe sef

Rubbish!!!

MzQueen:

sexyseun:
@ OP.. what was your rationale behind refusing him access to your apartment? is it because he wanted to bring in a side chick to sleep with or you dont want to encourage him to double date?, i still dont get it.. i thought guys use their friend's house a lot for fun. I am not supporting your friend's action, neither am i supporting you too... But if one reads clearly, its either 1.You are jealous about the guy. 2. You dont have a current girlfriend while he has 2 or more and 3. You are not as successful as he is.

Bite me if you can but the truth is your conscience is killing you now because you had no reason to deny him your key, abi shey na yur prick im wan use ni?

From a woman? Lobatan. Some Women sef nor mind their bobos doing side chicks.

@clevermind, your fuckup ehn, full drum.. So because say ur friend wan use your room naim u deny am and tell am say make e go use hotel? You not try at all. Shebi ur mind dey prick you now abi?
Remember say everybody dey ask for favour at some point in life o . Nor vex if he denies you of something very important..

Very true

sexyseun:
@ OP.. what was your rationale behind refusing him access to your apartment? is it because he wanted to bring in a side chick to sleep with or you dont want to encourage him to double date?, i still dont get it.. i thought guys use their friend's house a lot for fun. I am not supporting your friend's action, neither am i supporting you too... But if one reads clearly, its either 1.You are jealous about the guy. 2. You dont have a current girlfriend while he has 2 or more and 3. You are not as successful as he is.

Bite me if you can but the truth is your conscience is killing you now because you had no reason to deny him your key, abi shey na yur prick im wan use ni?

Tinubu:
Op, you didn't do well at all

We dudes are supposed to cover up for each other..... I understand your house isn't a pornn theatre, but these are little things that friends do for friends.... He just wan use your house 'settle' one babe codedly, na im you fall him hand kpatakpata....

nor mind am dey 4m pope 4 here!!!you just acted like a girl,dey dere dey dciv yaslf...yhu dne 4ckup!!!

clevvermind:
i thank God. Honestly, i dnt do such thing and i would not allow anyone particularly my friend to do that.

u don't f.cuk? the world is coming to an end oh... Start doing that ASAP

Get lost

Tinubu:
Op, you didn't do well at all

We dudes are supposed to cover up for each other..... I understand your house isn't a pornn theatre, but these are little things that friends do for friends.... He just wan use your house 'settle' one babe codedly, na im you fall him hand kpatakpata....

nefertiitii:
OP correct guy oya chop kiss

kiss from a guy?

hilaomo:
na guys like u I dey call bitch ass nigga..
You dey fear to loose him friend ship but u no fit sacrifice for am.bitch ass fool!

stop talking like a child. Why should i allow my friend to cheat on the girlfriend he has been with for over two years now in my house? Does it make sense?
And do you know what will happen if i leave my house for them? What if the babe is a thief? Please, i dnt take such risk.

I can always get him back.

coolest01:
u don't f.cuk? the world is coming to an end oh... Start doing that ASAP

what i mean is that, i dnt take babe to a friend's house to bleep cos i dnt keep more than one babe.
U hv 2 break up with one before u a take another. I dnt change babes like wrapper.

sexyseun:
@ OP.. what was your rationale behind refusing him access to your apartment? is it because he wanted to bring in a side chick to sleep with or you dont want to encourage him to double date?, i still dont get it.. i thought guys use their friend's house a lot for fun. I am not supporting your friend's action, neither am i supporting you too... But if one reads clearly, its either 1.You are jealous about the guy. 2. You dont have a current girlfriend while he has 2 or more and 3. You are not as successful as he is.

Bite me if you can but the truth is your conscience is killing you now because you had no reason to deny him your key, abi shey na yur prick im wan use ni?

i dnt want him to double date and cheat on his girlfriend in my house. I dnt encourage such thing. I still have a conscience.
All the other assumptions u made are rubbish.

Now I know that you are baby.. Grow up. Stop giving flimsy excuses.

clevvermind:
stop talking like a child. Why should i allow my friend to cheat on the girlfriend he has been with for over two years now in my house? Does it make sense?
And do you know what will happen if i leave my house for them? What if the babe is a thief? Please, i dnt take such risk.

I can always get him back.

clevvermind:
what i mean is that, i dnt take babe to a friend's house to bleep cos i dnt keep more than one babe.
U hv 2 break up with one before u a take another. I dnt change babes like wrapper.

Now, i see the motive behind your declining your friend's request...conflicting lifestyles... How did u guys become friends in the first place?

lymelyte:
Now I know that you are baby.. Grow up. Stop giving flimsy excuses.

you amazed me. Look at what a sensible person like you is typing. Smh.

coolest01:
Now, i see the motive behind your declining your friend's request...conflicting lifestyles... How did u guys become friends in the first place?

we became friends in SS1. We ran shows then but he didn't wants to change.

Op,guys and girls will always cheat,the cheating is mutual.its nt a crime for your friend to bring a chick to your house for banging,but you denying him is a crime.
If you feel you don't like that,don't apologise cos something similar will still repeat itself in the future.

clevvermind:
i have my principle and my friend must understand that. My house is not a motel. If i allow him now, next time he would want to do it again. So, no way.

Thank God you realized that. More grace to continue steadfastly

Do you know if the so called "faithful Girlfriend" is cheating on your friend? If you can stand by your principles, why come to NL to seek for people's opinion? Like I said earlier, if na good thing you do, lock up and stand for what you believe in but Just know that one hand cannot wash itself. It requires the other hand to make both hands good and clean..

clever mind:
you amazed me. Look at what a sensible person like you is typing. Smh.

I don't get y the op is guilt ridden after taking a principled stance. Y do u feel the need/urgency to settle this little rift between u guys? I don't see why any friend of mine should feel such sense of entitlement @my expense,abi friendship na by force. Not asking u to forgo the relationship u'v built with the said fellow but u should weigh the pros n cons of ya r/ship if issues as mundane as this can cause friction between friends.

I dnt no y wen som guys get hous or see fine house of dere tite frds ,d next tin wy go enta dere mind na to carry woman ,may god fogiv us

clevvermind:
we became friends in SS1. We ran shows then but he didn't wants to change.

Ok nah...shey to change na by force ni?
Op...u b wicked boy jaré
make jealousy no kill you oh!

U dey try safe person relationship..clap for yourself nah

op...lemme tell u my mind.....u don Bleep up.....and d worst part is dat u came to nairaland to announce it, now all dese babes dey look u like better person...
your friend called u...cos he thinks u'd understand... so as a fellow guy-man...why did u turn him down?

You did the right thing. Allowing such negative unholy sexual energy to incubate and discharge in your crib spells doom. It will take a great deal of spiritual cleansing to banish such unholy energies into abyss. This is your scared space and you have every responsibility to only allow things you want into that space. You own nobody an explanation for you declining such offer. That you have a friend that thrives on deception drops some clues bout things you stand for. If that your friend had known from day one the things you stood for he would have not bothered to call you on such matters. If on the other hand that's how you guys have been granting requests back In the days he will feel disappointed and its natural he returns such favours in equal measure when the time is ripe.

clevvermind:
stop talking like a child. Why should i allow my friend to cheat on the girlfriend he has been with for over two years now in my house? Does it make sense?
And do you know what will happen if i leave my house for them? What if the babe is a thief? Please, i dnt take such risk.

I can always get him back.

u sound more like a child to me,considering d confidence you have abt getting him back!1 bitchh asss nigga like u try am with me...guess what?I first block d fool 4rm all area,then walk d fool off my ppt when him come visit!Bitcchh asss nigga with their holier than thou bullshit.

hilaomo:
u sound more like a child to me,considering d confidence you have abt getting him back!1 bitchh asss nigga like u try am with me...guess what?I first block d fool 4rm all area,then walk d fool off my ppt when him come visit!Bitcchh asss nigga with their holier than thou bullshit.

sorry, u sound like a mad dog to me. anyway, thanks for your contribution.

Chubhie:
You did the right thing. Allowing such negative unholy sexual energy to incubate and discharge in your crib spells doom. It will take a great deal of spiritual cleansing to banish such unholy energies into abyss. This is your scared space and you have every responsibility to only allow things you want into that space. You own nobody an explanation for you declining such offer. That you have a friend that thrives on deception drops some clues bout things you stand for. If that your friend had known from day one the things you stood for he would have not bothered to call you on such matters. If on the other hand that's how you guys have been granting requests back In the days he will feel disappointed and its natural he returns such favours in equal measure when the time is ripe.

and what if his real girlfriend discovers that the cheating took place in my house? nothing can be hidden for long u know.

clevvermind:
sorry, u sound like a mad dog to me. anyway, thanks for your contribution.

bbitchh assss niggggaaaa...piss d fuckoff!