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Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by fashionengineer(f): 2:31pm On Jan 16, 2015
lmaooo!!
I dont agree with some points,i still care about how I look,why would I get scolded if im in a realtionship?? i dont get
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by veevean1(f): 2:32pm On Jan 16, 2015
Funny thread... Loverless life pays ab!! Yet u will send pm to gals... What are u looking for! Op some valid points but man is a social being, that's why God created Eve for Adam , there will come a time you will crave for that one person who truly understands you. And maybe you would have destroyed the opportunity in ur quest for FWB embarassed

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Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by Hanibal(m): 2:39pm On Jan 16, 2015
izaray:
You no in dating, u can easily work away, when u are too

pissed up in a r/ship, some girls and guys even see double dating as part of fun in a relationship...

If you catch ur guy cheating, u can easily pack ur pulse and live witout turning back

But in marriages, if u try anything as cheating, and you are been caught, u go see ur bag 4 ur father house direct!
I am sure queen Elizabeth will be so angry with you, for murdering her beloved language like this.
Next time stick with pidgin abeg to be on the safer side.. na naija we dey.

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Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by izaray(f): 2:46pm On Jan 16, 2015
Hanibal:
I am sure queen Elizabeth will be so angry with you, for murdering her beloved language like this.
Next time stick with pidgin abeg to be on the safer side.. na naija we dey.
A friend once told me dat, as you ignore useless comments, you save urself some energy to chat wit others!
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by Juicysam(m): 4:07pm On Jan 16, 2015
We all need that special person. I prefer all the ish of having a big baby*gf* to being a loner.Been down that road b4.
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by macuwon(m): 4:07pm On Jan 16, 2015
nice thread.. but I'm neither single nor in a relationship..

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Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by Clinton594(m): 4:16pm On Jan 16, 2015
pieluvy:
Absolutely true•saves you from more worries•

Hian!!
what has a girl got to worry about when she is in a relationship.....
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by Clinton594(m): 4:17pm On Jan 16, 2015
macuwon:
nice thread.. but I'm neither single nor in a relationship..

lols
status: complicated
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by Horluwahighdee(m): 4:22pm On Jan 16, 2015
dating i tink z only 4 doz ready 4 marriage...
2.it causes a lot of distraction...
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by macuwon(m): 4:24pm On Jan 16, 2015
Clinton594:


lols
status: complicated

so any advantages?
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by FOREXMARTS: 4:30pm On Jan 16, 2015
I have been single for for how long nowt? 3 years plus and damnnnnn I am enjoying it. Better focus, business doing good no drama and having the time of my Life meeting people.

Overall if you ain't ready don't fake it, too much telemundo guided chicks everywhere now.

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Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by Chimamaa(f): 4:42pm On Jan 16, 2015
mirexxx:
kiss u'l b free from jamb,neco n waec questions kiss
gbam. That's the most annoying part, like me, am enjoying all of the above cool
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by mirexxx(f): 4:44pm On Jan 16, 2015
Chimamaa:
gbam. That's the most annoying part, like me, am enjoying all of the above cool
OK sweet dats cool smiley
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by lekropasky(m): 4:47pm On Jan 16, 2015
lgboks:
Hmmmm op this one is strong
Ok let me add this to make you rethink some of the above- cheesy
1-good sleep depends on lots of stuffs,in most cases having a lover or a partner even make you sleep sound and well grin(gosh I love cuddling
2-that depends also-some times you being single is so lonely and boring(ask around) man is a social being some partners in your life add value to it others don't....you do have a valid point here though wink
3-lie...doesn't count...
4-another false point,even mtn or glo go still call you(all this short code ppl too) and send you lots of text...friends and family inkor? fraudsters? Emergency situations? Coursemates? Etc
5-hmmmm so not true
6- cheesy so married peeps don't talk to other members of the opposite sex? Look around
7- shocked don't even know how to start going about this notion!!! So singles eat well than couples or those in a relationship!!! Not applicable (only in minor situations like 2 percent especially in bad relationships
8-when you fail exam,fight outside,theif or commit any other crime what next?
9-hmmmm I begin to wonder? Abi na couples and lovers dey like sample different eatries and restaurants...thats why majority of folks you see in fastfoods are couples and lovers kiss
10-mehn this is strong.....so not true
11-true and false (if your friends and parents are around they can still ask whose calling(question)
12-hmmmm are we safe.....youve got to be kidding me shocked
13-hahahahaha (na only couples dey die,accident,robberies hmmmm.....even loneliness they kill singles(man is a social being-hence God created eve)
14-you get to be focused(depends)
nice post(me love it wink I agree o

he call it ''advantages'', and u ar tryna pick disadvantages outta advantages....he didnt say being single doesnt have disavtanges too...BUT, he listed out the Advantages. Shey you understand?
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jan 16, 2015
You can have sex with anybody no one to question you!
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by FOREXMARTS: 5:49pm On Jan 16, 2015
malonephills:
You can have sex with anybody no one to question you!

Kawai
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by BrightEye(m): 5:59pm On Jan 16, 2015
TheRainmaker1:


'Jealousity'

You got my point anyway(i find it sweet that way).
Bleep the grammar!
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by Jamean(f): 6:01pm On Jan 16, 2015
Seconded wink

15) No reporting of your every move.
16) No feeling of obligation.
17) No over-emphasis on your looks (like aaww, I'm growing too fat embarassed ).

Proudly a part of that 1% (though there are times you feel lovey dovey). But not friends with benefits.

Cheers!
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by Kingso23: 6:55pm On Jan 16, 2015
I see being in relationship this
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by Benson24: 6:57pm On Jan 16, 2015
Na true talk be that oh
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by Kingso23: 7:22pm On Jan 16, 2015
I see being in relationship this Days as living in bondage because the current breed of Girls of this day has nothing to öffer you but will only slow down your financial progress with their exessive demands , so in my own opinion being single is more i ideal , that's usually y when you are not in a relationship you'll wish you were. But when you are finally in one and the demmands like codedly * I just use up my cream and I dont have the money toreplace it and I'm hungry buy me some new cloths. So I can look good for you, I want to make my hair and so on ,* you'll be like " how d hell did I get myself into this? "
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by kalufelix(m): 7:42pm On Jan 16, 2015
Atleast i dont hav to get involved in b!tchy discussions...
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by kalufelix(m): 7:47pm On Jan 16, 2015
Kingso23:
I see being in relationship this Days as living in bondage because the current breed of Girls of this day has nothing to öffer you but will only slow down your financial progress with their exessive demands , so in my own opinion being single is more i ideal , that's usually y when you are not in a relationship you'll wish you were. But when you are finally in one and the demmands like codedly * I just use up my cream and I dont have the money toreplace it and I'm hungry buy me some new cloths. So I can look good for you, I want to make my hair and so on ,* you'll be like " how d hell did I get myself into this? "
lol
if you STRAFFIN u surely gon be PAYIN
classiffied p r o s t i t u t i o n ....
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by jotax(m): 9:43pm On Jan 16, 2015
izaray:
You no in dating, u can easily work away, when u are too

pissed up in a r/ship, some girls and guys even see double dating as part of fun in a relationship...

If you catch ur guy cheating, u can easily pack ur pulse and live witout turning back

But in marriages, if u try anything as cheating, and you are been caught, u go see ur bag 4 ur father house direct!
Off Point!

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Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by jotax(m): 9:48pm On Jan 16, 2015
Clinton594:


Hian!!
what has a girl got to worry about when she is in a relationship.....
Are u a learner?
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by maryhaam(f): 10:11pm On Jan 16, 2015
True and cool,just that one get emotional attimes and need morethan a friend.
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by Sarmmie(m): 10:13pm On Jan 16, 2015
Yes, thanks
TheRainmaker1:


I'm sure you mean 'Career'
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by Hanibal(m): 10:41pm On Jan 16, 2015
izaray:
A friend once told me dat, as you ignore useless comments, you save urself some energy to chat wit others!
Chai... na wa o.
people like you find it difficult to learn.
Anyway concerning the original comment, you need to pick up an English text book and read about "synonyms"... live and leave... being and been.... work and walk... know and no . they may sound the same but their meanings differ.
#my charity lecture no insults intended.
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by SOLARPOWER1(f): 11:02pm On Jan 16, 2015
Singlensearchin:
1» you can sleep well.
2» you can save time and money.
3» No worries about how you look.
4» No missed calls at midnight.
5» No need to recharge more than twice a day.
6» you can talk to all boys/girls.
7» you can eat well
8» No scolding from parents/ guardians.
9» Can eat in any restaurant.
10» you can visit any body.
11» can pick any call, any time without being questioned.
12» Don't worry about missed calls.
13» you will live a long life.
14» Add yours?
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But only 1% of adults can live without lovers sha, Personally I'm more drawn to Friends with benefit status than the deceit called "dating" which to me sim

ply means 'exclusive friendship for benefits'. Only its more defined...anything before marriage no follow na just fun abi you no agree?


You should have added: you will be freely irresponsible. Most of the points you listed are signpost to irresponsibility.
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by iaatmguy(m): 11:40pm On Jan 16, 2015
Singlensearchin:
1» you can sleep well.
2» you can save time and money.
3» No worries about how you look.
4» No missed calls at midnight.
5» No need to recharge more than twice a day.
6» you can talk to all boys/girls.
7» you can eat well
8» No scolding from parents/ guardians.
9» Can eat in any restaurant.
10» you can visit any body.
11» can pick any call, any time without being questioned.
12» Don't worry about missed calls.
13» you will live a long life.
14» Add yours?
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But only 1% of adults can live without lovers sha, Personally I'm more drawn to Friends with benefit status than the deceit called "dating" which to me simply means 'exclusive friendship for benefits'. Only its more defined...anything before marriage no follow na just fun abi you no agree?
When you are in your twenties
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by Bamz(m): 12:07am On Jan 17, 2015
Number 6 is true freedom in my opinion, not getting stuck and all.

Relationships are great, but I won't be going all out searching for my next ex. I wonder whether our parents actually had random dates like we do now.

Personally, if you're ready for marriage, go into a real and serious relationship.

Ofcourse there will be exceptions, childhood lovers who ended up getting married et al.
Re: Advantages Of Not Having A Lover by magabounce(m): 5:49am On Jan 17, 2015
izaray:
Is not true, they are so many fun 1's enjoy in dating, but in marriage, u can never try such!

As me why
tah!!!! .. Stop sayin shii u don't undrstnd

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