@Op, When your guy come see say u even post the matter for Nairaland. I swear, the guy no go talk to u again for life.

Carry face jor..no need calling him..he would call when he needs ur house again..

standd:


What are you even talking about?

Ignore him let us talk beta tin o jare.

I believe cleverrmind did the very best thing. Let's call a spade a spade. I don't know which useless bro code they're talking about. People are defending sexual laxity and giving it fancy names like 'bro code'. Stand for what is right, even if you stand alone.

Bro code ko, grandpa code ni. Smh.

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standd:


Yes, I know she is shagging him.
I also know she already has two children for him.
I know one more thing that you don't know, I know that Nairaland is full of weirdos, who assume like crazy and pull out baseless rumours from their black-a$$es.

*Yawning* Valar Marghulis. Am outta here.

InZA:
You didn't even do it well enough.



If it were to be my friend(I'm not hyping myself, but quite frankly I don't have any friend as useless as that), I would have given him my house key....after doing that, I would pick up my phone, send an anonymous text to his girlfriend - "Hi, your guy is in another house along so so street, I'm not sure but I think he is pounding another girl as I send you this text... I'm not trying to break up your relationship by sending you this text, I actually hope your relationship ceases to be. I don't know you and I don't know or care if you deserve to be cheated upon but sending you this text is just my way of ridding the romantic stratosphere of useless elements"


After that, I put my phone in my pocket and continue doing my thing.

Some guys are just very useless to say the least, double dating or double straffing does not reflect masculinity, it doesn't make you a "very good badt guy" (whatever that means by the way) it doesn't make you cool, it doesn't make you funky or hippy or contemporary, instead it means you're grossly irresponsible with no ounce of direction and purpose of life, it means you lack any trace of resolved commitment to a cause or purpose.


This thing dey vex me like say na me be the babe sef

Rubbish!!!

ur English is Just getting too much. is d op a born again? him no dey bleep

Ishilove:

Ignore him let us talk beta tin o jare.

I believe cleverrmind did the very best thing. Let's call a spade a spade. I don't know which useless bro code they're talking about. People are defending sexual laxity and giving it fancy names like 'bro code'. Stand for what is right, even if you stand alone.

Bro code ko, grandpa code ni. Smh.

Don't mind the Oyinbo- wannabes Who give black man guy code? Awolowo or Ojukwu? They watch stuffs on cable and start harping about it.
And of course, guy code ensures that they support evil with women at the receiving end of it all.
I laugh in Swengalish

standd:


Yes, I know she is shagging him.
I also know she already has two children for him.
I know one more thing that you don't know, I know that Nairaland is full of weirdos, who assume like crazy and pull out baseless rumours from their black-a$$es.

Standd! Four, not two children, thank you very much

Hilarious post by the way... Lmao!!!

joseph1832:
*Yawning* Valar Marghulis. Am outta here.

Don't let the door hit you on your way out.

is d op a saint? shebi him no dey bleep ni. abegii

tirex:

Big ups to you you jare..i have a friend who doesnt talk to me for the same reason,abeg free am jor..if i have to drop a friend so as to obey God..then so be it

they dnt understand.

Tinubu:
Op, you didn't do well at all

We dudes are supposed to cover up for each other..... I understand your house isn't a pornn theatre, but these are little things that friends do for friends.... He just wan use your house 'settle' one babe codedly, na im you fall him hand kpatakpata....

Dats why u pple'll continue 2 b selfish, THERE IS GOD OOOO. What do u think will happen if ds same guy should catch dat his main babe trying 2 do dsame tin he wanted 2 do in his friends house. Haba!! Yet all of u are here blaming ds guy, dont mind them bro. May God almight reward u accordingly, bravo!!!

mikporch:




Ar you sure

Just curious

what do u want to hear again?

Ishilove:

Standd! Four, not two children, thank you very much

Hilarious post by the way... Lmao!!!

Heh! You guys made two more already! Between September and January... I salute oh

rinora:
My dear u did nothing wrong,in fact you acted like a responsible fellow

. Since u did d write thing God will give u everything u desire amen

Bridgetown:



He was never your friend because he is not your type, why will you refuse him shelter to shine Congo! U r not a guyman and I see no reason why you should have him as your friend. Pls give him my contact so that I can watch small adult raw video. All my friends stopped bringing babe to my house because they know that there is pin-hole on my door where I watch raw adult film. Wetin concern me. We call that payan!

my guy, we are not the same. taking babes to a friend's house to bleep looks odd and childish to me. i dnt do that at all. what about a hotel? my house is not a hotel. those playing such games should be able to afford a hotel. i dnt encourage cheating either. i have some little bits of decency.

InZA:
You didn't even do it well enough.

Rubbish!!!

Do u really mean ds, long life brother. I dont no ds kind of men/guy still exist.

ghetto101:




man this na guys thing,if na ur main man u Bleep up

i dnt think so.

Op u did the right thing..do u know how the real girl would feel when she knows that the cheating took place in ur house,u won't even be able to face her..and someone was saying guys code
Guys code ko animal code ni

If ur guy refuses to come back to his senses, free him jare. is he feeding u?,clothing u?,paying ur house rent? No he is not, so what's d problem

If I were in ur shoes our friendship would av ended tete,who get time 4 rubbish

sule5727:
my guy u acted very very very wela forget about him dnt even go and see him, he should be the one to come ur place chai, dnt try it

i have to explain to him first.

shokky24:
Op u did the right thing..do u know how the real girl would feel when she knows that the cheating took place in ur house,u won't even be able to face her..and someone was saying guys code
Guys code ko animal code ni

If ur guy refuses to come back to his senses, free him jare. is he feeding u?,clothing u?,paying ur house rent? No he is not, so what's d problem

If I were in ur shoes our friendship would av ended tete,who get time 4 rubbish

that was what i was thinking. what if his girlfriend finds out?

Classicalmusic:
You did absolutely well. He should go to hotel. Last year, one of my friends wanted to do this shitt too in my apartment but I refused. Guys should be good and responsible because it's immoral.

true.

okiezman:


You did d wrong tin jare....dont be deceived by psycophants

i dnt think i did the wrong thing. guys should not be taking babes to their friend's house. their friend's house is not a hotel or a motel.

joseph1832:

Sir, I'll blame you for one thing: you didn't define your friendship with your friend! That's the simple truth. If you had defined it and let your friend know earlier on about your stance on such issues, he won't even think to call you. I believe in some way or another you might have shown or even given him an inkling that you don't mind about those type of things that's why he did such.

Anyway, "friendship no be by force", if he's avoiding you that's his own problem so far you know in your heart that he's not feeding you, paying your rent or responsible in anyway for your upkeep, let him jump inside Lagos Lagoon!.

i'm sure he knows my stands now. he would not ask such from me again.

correctguy0900:


ur English is Just getting too much. is d op a born again? him no dey bleep

Bleeping or not bleeping z not d issue but being faithful 2 one person as u would want her be for u.

correctguy0900:


ur English is Just getting too much. is d op a born again? him no dey bleep

[quote author=correctguy0900 post=29857916]
Its not matter of Bleeping or not bleeping z not d issue but being faithful 2 one person as u would want her be for u.

lepasharon:


lol did he eventually admit ?

For where? When I asked Whc of his friends not knowing what I had in mind he mentioned a close one. Told him I was going to call him to let him know what happened he started fidgeting. Obviously he hasn't tidied that end, a week after when he realised I was really really pissed he now asked me to call that his friend is sorry too. I just ignored him

clevvermind:
i'm sure he knows my stands now. he would not ask such from me again.

but you should have made it clear from the beginning, though you did the right thing that is why i love principle based pple. No matter the condition they wont disobey that principle. Soulglo and sambarry i duff my cap for you guys. Naijaboi you don enta 1 chance sambar.ry crib. Lmao.

Modelling:

Do u really mean ds, long life brother. I dont no ds kind of men/guy still exist.

Yeah I do.


Thanks man.

clevvermind:
i'm sure he knows my stands now. he would not ask such from me again.

Next time don't just give an outright 'no' to a padi in need when you're in a position to help, and he knows you can help.....just find an excuse. Not all guys would grant a request like that (I never do), but its obvious ur padi of many years never really knew you. If u guys had a clique, them go gather u treat ni.

If you're so concerned about his cheating habits, there re ways of letting him know. You've seen guys greet padis with insults right? Well thats one of the ways guys advice friends too. You should know that.

To the ladies, things like this happen everyday. Doesn't mean all men do it, and don't make it seem like there are no cheating babes too.

Lmao!

Funny thread and I really laughed hard. Which one is guy code again? I'm learning something.

At OP, putting myself in your shoe, I'll never let any freaking dolt do trash with his girlfriend in my room/bed. Even the act is so disgusting that they'd surely live dirty stains. So, I don't see why you should be worried.
You did the right thing- even if the girl was to be his girlfriend.

Lubbish!!

[quote
author=Tinubu post=29822866]Op, you didn't do well at all

We dudes are supposed to cover up for each other..... I understand your
house isn't a pornn theatre, but these are little things that friends do
for friends.... He just wan use your house 'settle' one babe codedly,
na im you fall him hand kpatakpata.... [/quote] I can imagine how many houses u've gone to settle cordedly#someguysshaa.