Some couples believe their is absolutely nothing wrong in going to clubs after marriage be it together or alone while others believe that as Marriage demands a higher level of Responsibility , Going to Club so be a thing of the past ..
What is your own view of this ??

hmm i dont see anytin wrng dere, as far dey re married couples bt it should b togeda, at least once in a while.Couples nid to engage in new stuff to kip dier marriage alive nt always d same old routine dat wil start making dem get bored of themselves..anyway dats jst my two kobo.

Present

No

noin wrongy if they go 2geda buh erytin wrongy if th femme goz alone

op same thinking too

it depends on the type of club and it also depends if you guys will be chilling at the VIP section which requires membership and it also depends on reasons for going there. Above all, marriage shouldn't be a cage. It's good for both husband & wife to go together and have fun, dance away the stress but not always, maybe once in a month

As long as you both go clubbing together, No Biggie!!

There is nothing wrong in it...it wuld be once in a while thing&serve as bonding activity for them....

spartoo:
noin wrongy if they go 2geda buh erytin wrongy if th femme goz alone

and nothing wrong if d man go alone?

Nothing wrong, as long as they go together! it still build up their social lives. Marriage no be prison , have fun

Absolutly nothing wrong with them going together.
They don`t stop being human just because they are married.
They can also go alone with friends.
The key word here is trust.
Apart from family outings we go out alone too. Someone has to be there with the kids. So either he goes out or I go out.
However we don`t do this often maybe once in a few months.
I sometimes go clubbing with my sister and some other friends. However with time you loose interest in clubing.
The enviroment you are in also plays a role.
Also the couple.. My husband trust me and let`s me go out because he believes that I need time off to unwind with all my responsibilities.
If you are the kind of person that might fall into temptation, better stay away from such things.

There is nothing wrong when they go together.

Going alone, well it depends on the frequency, I guess. If a married man or a married woman is clubbing alone every weekend, then there is something wrong with the marriage, in my opinion, because they should actually want to spend their free time together.

Iamsynord:
Some couples believe their is absolutely nothing wrong in going to clubs after marriage be it together or alone while others believe that as Marriage demands a higher level of Responsibility , Going to Club so be a thing of the past ..
What is your own view of this ??

Nothing wrong with it..
Being married does not mean you can't have fun..

mods front page pls

rosebase:

and nothing wrong if d man go alone?

not really

I guess I always try to see the logic in things. I sadly do not see how it is necessary for married folks to go "clubbing"

soulglo:
I guess I always try to see the logic in things. I sadly do not see how it is necessary for married folks to go "clubbing"

Necessary? Clubbing is never necessary.

But people do it for different reasons, for example to meet up with friends, listen to some good music and dance.

Iamsynord:
Some couples believe their is absolutely nothing wrong in going to clubs after marriage be it together or alone while others believe that as Marriage demands a higher level of Responsibility , Going to Club so be a thing of the past ..
What is your own view of this ??

What connotes High level of Respinsibility in Marriage??

Erm.. By the way, I went clubbing with my female friends last night till 2am. I must be very irresponsible

Depends on the couple

maybe ....but wait a minute did Jesus parents do it?

Iamsynord:
Some couples believe their is absolutely nothing wrong in going to clubs after marriage be it together or alone while others believe that as Marriage demands a higher level of Responsibility , Going to Club so be a thing of the past ..
What is your own view of this ??

What has the bolded got to do with clubbing?

Does a man who decides to go clubbing with his wife or vice versa mean they aren't a responsible couple? Is clubbing a yardstick for measuring levels of responsibility? Do irresponsible couples who neglect their kids and spouses display more responsibility than a couple who choose to "rock" with themselves and enjoy life with each other as they see fit?

carefreewannabe:


Necessary? Clubbing is never necessary.

But people do it for different reasons, for example to meet up with friends, listen to some good music and dance.

All those I could do in a million other settings

They should take their kids along too. That way it would be a perfect family gathering!

I'd rather chill out at other social gathering or bar with my. Beloved wife than clubbing with her.

sad ..Cc Mods ,lalasticlala

In marriage, one shoe doesn't fit all. To each his own.
Go clubbing, don't go clubbing. You will live to understand life backwards.

Nothing wrong

But then again....it's easy to get distracted seeing all those big booties whyne in front of you

emperorchedda:
Nothing wrong

But then again....it's easy to get distracted seeing all those big booties whyne in front of you

lmapp big booties

YES!!!!!
I dey go club o!!!!
Married or not, my biddnezzz!

Nothing like seeing people having a damn good time!
Unlike "fellowshipping" with all those dry-assssed, depressed, religious-hypocrites!