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Help Me Save My Son by DeBlunt: 11:28am On Jan 17, 2015 |
I have this colleague who is also a close friend. He's being dating a white girl for about a year now and intends to get official with her. I've met the girl and hung out with the couple a few times and I must say the girl is quite sound and they look happy. However, I visited naija for the Christmas holls and paid a visit to my friend's family. His mum called me aside and pleaded with me to help save her son "from the hands of the white girl" lol. I tried talking to her but she would have none of it, she looked depressed and really sad. I explained to her that there is nothing I can do but she keeps insisting that I can do something because her son holds me in high regard and would listen to me. Honestly, I am like a brother to her son but I know my boundaries and I respect individual choices. She's been calling me since I left Nigeria and sending me SOS messages. I don't know what to do and I don't intend to dabble into my friend's personal life. What do you guys think? Points to note My friend is not into the said girl for any ill gains, he is a citizen and have been living here since his childhood for about 26years now, Thank you. |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by chidekings(m): 11:33am On Jan 17, 2015 |
respect the wish of the old woman. its left for the son to take or leave ur advice. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by demelza: 11:33am On Jan 17, 2015 |
He's a grown man, the mom will just have to deal with it. I don't think you should interfere in anyway. |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by thiefnubu(m): 11:34am On Jan 17, 2015 |
Op Stay out of their business... If the guy's mother feels too strongly about an oyinbo daughter-in-law, let her deal with it herself... ![]() Btw I thought it's friends who ask mums to help them talk to their sons, not the other way round ![]() ![]() |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by Nobody: 11:36am On Jan 17, 2015 |
She fears she would divorce d guy and take half of his property in d near future. |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by lonngmann(m): 11:37am On Jan 17, 2015 |
Eleyi gidi gan o since you are like a brother to him..den you are like a son to ur friend's mum..you should try and talk to her ..i know you ave tried..bt you ave to try harder And since you said they look happy togeda,der is no need to try and talk him out of the relationship with the white lady |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by Nobody: 11:47am On Jan 17, 2015 |
LoL. |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by DeBlunt: 11:48am On Jan 17, 2015 |
chidekings: He already knows about his mother's concern, I don't think there's anything I can do. demelza: My exact thought, I don't want to get entangled in this and I wish his mom would leave me out of it. Cutehector4u: you think so? cos I can't tell lol. lonngmann: Solid point. I'll keep trying. Thanks man |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by MrCork: 11:48am On Jan 17, 2015 |
DeBlunt: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by MrCork: 11:51am On Jan 17, 2015 |
DeBlunt: ...ok...so u want the gentleman to leave a beauriful white light skin stress free woman for a Nigerian girl that likes Money & Brzilian wig?......and u don't think ther is somtin wrong wit that pickture...abi?...which do u think we wud choose? ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by DeBlunt: 11:51am On Jan 17, 2015 |
MrCork: why the frown corky son? take a drive to soton and let's talk about it over a few drinks, it warmer here ![]() |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by MrCork: 11:54am On Jan 17, 2015 |
...although its snowin outside..this is exactly why we Londoners refuse to go come bak home and settle....How can u choose Naija girl ovr white babe?...serrrriously! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by DeBlunt: 11:54am On Jan 17, 2015 |
MrCork: I don't want anything for him corky, I only want my boy to be happy ![]() |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by MrCork: 11:58am On Jan 17, 2015 |
DeBlunt: ...he be happy wita white woman...truss me...and as long as she light skin, he will be fine! ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by DeBlunt: 11:58am On Jan 17, 2015 |
MrCork: ![]() ![]() ![]() whatever makes a man happy. I don't really care. ![]() |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by Nobody: 11:59am On Jan 17, 2015 |
I don't know why people don't like their son to marry white lady When I told my uncle I would love to marry a white lady,he told me that I should pity my mother.since then d thought flew away like a bed because my mum comes first. Please try help your freind mum |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by DeBlunt: 12:01pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
MrCork: I didn't know there are white women with dark skin ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by Nobody: 12:05pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
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Re: Help Me Save My Son by DeBlunt: 12:08pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Ipledge: wish I could help her but aside from mere sentiments, I honestly have no reason to advice my friend to leave the girl. |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by Nobody: 12:11pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
DeBlunt:its popular believe that a white gal or someone born in western countries won't give damn about your family |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by DeBlunt: 12:17pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Ipledge: I can't agree or disagree with this popular believe but its still not concrete enough for me to interfere in his private life. |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
DeBlunt:just think of best thing to do |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by mirexxx(f): 1:30pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
moms at it again...is it d black girl dat will not divorce him abi chop his money ![]() give em ur blessings shikena!! |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
I think u should interfere, start by telling him how his mother feels, and her intentions. |
Re: Help Me Save My Son by DeBlunt: 2:53pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
mirexxx: as long as he's happy, they have my blessing. missberrypop5: He is aware of his mom's concerns but chose to continue with the girl. |
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