I have this colleague who is also a close friend. He's being dating a white girl for about a year now and intends to get official with her. I've met the girl and hung out with the couple a few times and I must say the girl is quite sound and they look happy.

However, I visited naija for the Christmas holls and paid a visit to my friend's family. His mum called me aside and pleaded with me to help save her son "from the hands of the white girl" lol. I tried talking to her but she would have none of it, she looked depressed and really sad. I explained to her that there is nothing I can do but she keeps insisting that I can do something because her son holds me in high regard and would listen to me. Honestly, I am like a brother to her son but I know my boundaries and I respect individual choices. She's been calling me since I left Nigeria and sending me SOS messages. I don't know what to do and I don't intend to dabble into my friend's personal life. What do you guys think?

Points to note
My friend is not into the said girl for any ill gains, he is a citizen and have been living here since his childhood for about 26years now, Thank you.

respect the wish of the old woman.


its left for the son to take or leave ur advice.

He's a grown man, the mom will just have to deal with it.
I don't think you should interfere in anyway.

Op

Stay out of their business... If the guy's mother feels too strongly about an oyinbo daughter-in-law, let her deal with it herself...

Btw

I thought it's friends who ask mums to help them talk to their sons, not the other way round ..... That family must be a real big mess

She fears she would divorce d guy and take half of his property in d near future.

Eleyi gidi gan o
since you are like a brother to him..den you are like a son to ur friend's mum..you should try and talk to her ..i know you ave tried..bt you ave to try harder
And since you said they look happy togeda,der is no need to try and talk him out of the relationship with the white lady

LoL.

chidekings:
respect the wish of the old woman.


its left for the son to take or leave ur advice.

He already knows about his mother's concern, I don't think there's anything I can do.

demelza:
He's a grown man, the mom will just have to deal with it.
I don't think you should interfere in anyway.

My exact thought, I don't want to get entangled in this and I wish his mom would leave me out of it.

Cutehector4u:
She fears she would divorce d guy and take half of his property in d near future.

you think so? cos I can't tell lol.

lonngmann:
Eleyi gidi gan o
since you are like a brother to him..den you are like a son to ur friend's mum..you should try and talk to her ..i know you ave tried..bt you ave to try harder
And since you said they look happy togeda,der is no need to try and talk him out of the relationship with the white lady

Solid point. I'll keep trying. Thanks man

DeBlunt:
I have this colleague who is also a close friend. He's being dating a white girl for about a year now and intends to get official with her. I've met the girl and hung out with the couple a few times and I must say the girl is quite sound and they look happy.

However, I visited naija for the Christmas holls and paid a visit to my friend's family. His mum called me aside and pleaded with me to help save her son "from the hands of the white girl" lol. I tried talking to her but she would have none of it, she looked depressed and really sad. I explained to her that there is nothing I can do but she keeps insisting that I can do something because her son holds me in high regard and would listen to me. Honestly, I am like a brother to her son but I know my boundaries and I respect individual choices. She's been calling me since I left Nigeria and sending me SOS messages. I don't know what to do and I don't intend to dabble into my friend's personal life. What do you guys think?

Points to note
My friend is not into the said girl for any ill gains, he is a citizen and have been living here since his childhood for about 26years now, Thank you.

DeBlunt:
I have this colleague who is also a close friend. He's being dating a white girl for about a year now and intends to get official with her. I've met the girl and hung out with the couple a few times and I must say the girl is quite sound and they look happy.

However, I visited naija for the Christmas holls and paid a visit to my friend's family. His mum called me aside and pleaded with me to help save her son "from the hands of the white girl" lol. I tried talking to her but she would have none of it, she looked depressed and really sad. I explained to her that there is nothing I can do but she keeps insisting that I can do something because her son holds me in high regard and would listen to me. Honestly, I am like a brother to her son but I know my boundaries and I respect individual choices. She's been calling me since I left Nigeria and sending me SOS messages. I don't know what to do and I don't intend to dabble into my friend's personal life. What do you guys think?

Points to note
My friend is not into the said girl for any ill gains, he is a citizen and have been living here since his childhood for about 26years now, Thank you.

...ok...so u want the gentleman to leave a beauriful white light skin stress free woman for a Nigerian girl that likes Money & Brzilian wig?......and u don't think ther is somtin wrong wit that pickture...abi?...which do u think we wud choose?

MrCork:

why the frown corky son? take a drive to soton and let's talk about it over a few drinks, it warmer here

...although its snowin outside..this is exactly why we Londoners refuse to go come bak home and settle....How can u choose Naija girl ovr white babe?...serrrriously!

MrCork:



...ok...so u want the gentleman to leave a beauriful white light skin stress free woman for a Nigerian girl that likes Money & Brzilian wig?......and u don't think ther is somtin wrong wit that pickture...abi?...which do u think we wud choose?

I don't want anything for him corky, I only want my boy to be happy

DeBlunt:


I don't want anything for him corky, I only want my boy to be happy

...he be happy wita white woman...truss me...and as long as she light skin, he will be fine!

MrCork:
...although its snowin outside..this is exactly why we Londoners refuse to go come bak home and settle....How can u choose Naija girl ovr white babe?...serrrriously!

whatever makes a man happy. I don't really care.

I don't know why people don't like their son to marry white lady

When I told my uncle I would love to marry a white lady,he told me that I should pity my mother.since then d thought flew away like a bed because my mum comes first.
Please try help your freind mum

MrCork:


...he be happy wita white woman...truss me...and as long as she light skin, he will be fine!

I didn't know there are white women with dark skin ; #dead!

...

Ipledge:
I don't know why people don't like their son to marry white lady

When I told my uncle I would love to marry a white lady,he told me that I should pity my mother.since then d thought flew away like a bed because my mum comes first.
Please try help your freind mum

wish I could help her but aside from mere sentiments, I honestly have no reason to advice my friend to leave the girl.

DeBlunt:


wish I could help her but aside from mere sentiments, I honestly have no reason to advice my friend to leave the girl.

its popular believe that a white gal or someone born in western countries won't give damn about your family

Ipledge:
its popular believe that a white gal or someone born in western countries won't give damn about your family

I can't agree or disagree with this popular believe but its still not concrete enough for me to interfere in his private life.

DeBlunt:


I can't agree or disagree with this popular believe but its still not concrete enough for me to interfere in his private life.

just think of best thing to do

moms at it again...is it d black girl dat will not divorce him abi chop his money she myt av hers sef. if she's d woman 4 him not even his granny can stop em. d mom should stop giving herself unnecessary headaches.



give em ur blessings shikena!!

I think u should interfere, start by telling him how his mother feels, and her intentions.

mirexxx:
moms at it again...is it d black girl dat will not divorce him abi chop his money she myt av hers sef. if she's d woman 4 him not even his granny can stop em. d mom should stop giving herself unnecessary headaches.



give em ur blessings shikena!!

as long as he's happy, they have my blessing.

missberrypop5:
I think u should interfere, start by telling him how his mother feels, and her intentions.

He is aware of his mom's concerns but chose to continue with the girl.