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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 8:48am On Jan 17, 2015 |
I am so sad. From day 1 Babymama/ Babyosisi was screaming here we shut her down, called her i too know, insulted her with others cheering. 2 months and almost a million gone down the drain we come back to what she was saying. I lost family to cancer but then cancer was not so common even then it took 3 days to diagnose in all the cases.luckily we learned from that, I and another family member caught ours early. I also treated my own luckily it was caught early, so I fully understood why Babyosisi was shouting and screaming but the mob would have none of it and off cause those saying the facts were " faithless". I feel depressed, I remember babyosisi saying if he was her brother she would have found money borrowed even to send him abroad but no it was an ego contest still is as they are already here breathing fire on those who say the truth, no problem, it is well. Dj, God is still in the business of doing miracles, your life is in Gods hands and I will pray for you every time. It will be well with you. Babymama God protect you, you have done well. Meanwhile, please let us take our health seriously, go for check ups and also develop healthy lifestyles. 8 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Idowuogbo(f): 8:59am On Jan 17, 2015 |
Hmmmm..... |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by colossus2: 9:00am On Jan 17, 2015 |
aisha2:You've spoken well ma. So many people here are scared to hear the truth and face fact. When we see what's obvious, we prefer to call on God to come and help take action without us taking the 2nd step after praying to him. 4 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Idowuogbo(f): 9:05am On Jan 17, 2015 |
lovinam:Exactly!!!! Lord knows what stage he was when he got to LUTH.It is well....hmmmm |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Originalsly: 9:06am On Jan 17, 2015 |
Mynd44:No I don't. ....and who is everyone? What was wrong in telling us they are still doing tests...studying the results or whatever? That's all we were asking for. Did you plan on giving us an update after the feedback from NY? To date the picture is still fuzzy and initial problem undiagnosed and we are still chasing shadows while DJ is suffering. After wasting time... first place said liver/kidney.....the second place focused on that and after some time said it wasn't....referred him to this the third place to focus on cancer...which after some time...is shouting stage four cancer of what they can't say...but now we are again waiting for word from a fourth place. How long should this take? 3 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by rayo2002: 9:31am On Jan 17, 2015 |
So sorry about the update on his case. But people it is so easy to sit behind your computer's and criticize. If I remember correctly, when this whole thing started TeHN didn't want to get involved but people asked them to help organise things. Even if he was to fly out could he have gone as he was in October? Wouldn't he have needed to be stabilized first and won't that stabilization be done in a hospital. Also, u are all forgetting that getting labs done in Nigeria isn't that easy. Asides that all the people shouting for India, was enough money raised to make taking him to India feasible. We raised about 2m, the cost of flights, ticket, hospital bill and recovery would have come to at least 7m who would have paid for the balance. From the little I know about fundraising, the bulk of the money you will make comes during the earliest awareness campaign. And as for the person saying he has two weeks to live and calling TeHN members wolves in sheep clothing, may God help u. As a concerned neighbour that u are is it in ur place to state how long u expect Hamed to live? How much did u contribute from ur pocket to his treatment? Did u ever go and see him in the hospital or talk to the TeHN member always with him there? Yet u come now to raise alarm. TeHN u have tried. May God bless you all. My advice please don't take up any more medical cases. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Busybody2(f): 9:59am On Jan 17, 2015 |
Life as we know it......fleeting, transient, ephemeral...it is well |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by zemaye: 10:59am On Jan 17, 2015 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() enough with the insults and name calling it has gotten to this already we all should learn and assist in the best way we can. |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 11:08am On Jan 17, 2015 |
rayo2002:. l agree with all your wrote, TeHN did there best,they are humans, these is not the time for the blame game but l am really disappointed with the medical facilities we have in Nigeria, and the useless politicians are busy campaigning for vote for another selection ![]() ![]() 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 11:20am On Jan 17, 2015 |
MadCow1: It is ok to now rationalize How do you know going to India wouldn't help when he didn't go? Was there even a frantic effort to go? There were opportunities to get him that passport but it was not the immediate pre occupation of Tehns so it fell by the way side truth be told If we found time to ferry him for several tests we would have found time to take him to a passport office if it was a priority but it wasn't Here on this site were arguments back and forth at the dying minutes about chemotherapy in India being a bad option when the patient didn't even have a passport let alone a visa to India I hope we all learn from this. 5 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by ayinba1(f): 11:30am On Jan 17, 2015 |
Mynd44: Wow! Are we sure this new diagnosis is correct, then? 4 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 11:30am On Jan 17, 2015 |
Mynd44: The last thing I want to read here is anyone calling me a liar or accusing me of making things up,we are way beyond that now. As far back as before Christmas, DJ had an abdominal scan done , we read that here and the email I received from an individual here about that result told me the radiologist report said cholangiocarcinoma with possible secondary metastasis Am I making this up? I was told to keep that confidential and I did That email was sent me December 20 and I discussed it with another insider here in a frantic effort for us to stop any further tests and gear efforts towards moving him out. That was one full month ago so Tehns telling me they got a scan report jan 9 saying cancer is not completely true There was an earlier one that had already said cancer. Remember also that before this scan,a cytology testing of his exudate had indicated cancer cells weeks before that scan so we had a full month and half that we knew this was possibly cancer just by test results. I was saddened to hear people still saying there was no diagnosis when you all knew fully well there was a working diagnosis nobody wanted to believe. This is a time to sit back in retrospect and ask ourselves if we could have done things a little differently and if we are sincere with ourselves,we will say yes. 8 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by ayinba1(f): 11:35am On Jan 17, 2015 |
shinejackie: Lessons from this; - Be very wary of Nigerian diagnostics, (most) - Do not delay in letting a patient know his or her diagnosis - TeHn; no blames here, but take note of #2 when you handle any other cases; and #1 too God bless us all 6 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 11:38am On Jan 17, 2015 |
ayinba1:. Amen.. ![]() |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by colossus2: 11:39am On Jan 17, 2015 |
There would have been no update on this thread if emmysexxy didn't come here to talk ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by rayo2002: 11:40am On Jan 17, 2015 |
Babymama1: Just thinking aloud o, so as at Dec 20 there was a diagnosis of suspected cancer. This is January 17th, considering the Christmas holidays and public holiday in between how many days between then and now was there to fly him out? This is remembering that Hamed was bedridden before Tehn took over and was in no condition to travel. Also, since when you got the result did you get in touch with an Indian hospital to find out if they would take him and how much his treatment would be or shouldn't these be finalized before flying him anywhere. Would the Indian hospital have taken him on as a patient without all the tests that were carried out between October and December? Let's assume TeHN were being slow about that, i'm pretty sure if you gave them firm information they would have had no choice but to listen to your opinion. All these carry him to india talk without any action didn't help either imho. Or was it TeHN's responsibility to go and get the Indian hospital and treatment quote too? 8 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 11:43am On Jan 17, 2015 |
aisha2: I had hoped to be very wrong and I said it clearly,this is one argument I so wanted to lose I had wished to be the hyperactive fear mongering,faithless nut I was labeled and no matter how much I wanted to just keep way from this case I couldn't. even when I didn't write publicly I tried to reach out privately. I shared with them privately that this case was somewhat personal to me in many ways I have a family member that was given a death sentence in 2011 but is alive today.God gave us 4 years and counting and he used the doctors in India to do it. My own classmate and friend was diagnosed with a stage 4 cancer in Nigeria and written off ,she is alive today,thanks to God and the doctors in India.this is over two years and she is still cancer free. There is nothing impossible with God still. Stage 4 is bad but there are still people who beat it 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 11:45am On Jan 17, 2015 |
rayo2002: That should be a question/ questions for Tehns not me 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by rayo2002: 11:48am On Jan 17, 2015 |
Babymama1: Nope, i disagree. You say TeHN have no interest in the India option so since you are one of those pushing for it these questions are for you. Anyways, since you say something can still be done, i would suggest you get the required information i.e. will the hospital take him on and how much it will cost and let the forum take it from there. 6 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by colossus2: 11:48am On Jan 17, 2015 |
rayo2002:You obviously didn't follow this from inception ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 11:53am On Jan 17, 2015 |
rayo2002: Please go back and read all of babyosisi and babymama's posts,it's not possible for me to summarize all my points and opinion to you in one post. We have passed that stage now. I don't have the decision making capability in this and all I could do was appeal to those who did and I did just that. 4 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by emmysexxy(f): 11:58am On Jan 17, 2015 |
@babyosisi please have u gotten my mail? |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 11:58am On Jan 17, 2015 |
Babymama1: I know my sister, my friend debriefs fathers cancer was discovered at stage 4, he is alive and fine strong as a horse, my fathers own at stage 3 thankfully we acted fast and after 10 weeks he was fit as a horse, went back after a year still.cancer free and strong. Sadly in this case we are still juggling and blame shifting, I begged before Christmas that we stary fund raising and act fast prayer warriors jumped on me with incantations and rebuking all sorts 3 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by rayo2002: 12:02pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Babymama1: So is your conclusion that we should do nothing? You yourself said some people beat stage 4 cancer so why not see this case through. I'm sure if you decide to take over from here you will be supported by everyone afterall Hamed's recovery is the objective. 3 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by colossus2: 12:07pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
rayo2002:Let me not assume you are a member of TeHN using an alternate moniker ![]() 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
rayo2002: How can she take over? 1. She lives and works in America 2. She was working and trying to interpret test results and gave her findings she was called a quack Internet doctor 3. Everytime she revealed information they wanted to keep from us she will be accused of bot being a team player 4. Almost 2 weeks no update even when requested till neighbour came and now you want to dump it on her, it doesn't work that way Since all suggestions has been rejected with insults and curses let those who know continue. She will help with prayers from where she is. 9 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 12:12pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
emmysexxy: I did but only a partial post My hotmail acts up on the tablet I also got all the other emails from others and unable to respond Let us all hope for the best 2 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by rayo2002: 12:16pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
aisha2: I am not a TeHN member, just an observer of this forum. Since she is not in the country, what about you, colossus2 and the concerned neighbour. I am sure there are others who are also in support of taking him abroad, why can't you all step in? If someone is given a task and isn't performing, the logical thing is to reassign to someone else as long as the project can still be salvaged. My own concern is that if there is something that can be done, let the option be explored. Chikena. 11 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
rayo2002: I believe I have been very civil towards you up till this moment Don't push it 5 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 12:26pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
rayo2002: I should leave my own sickness and the hospital and fly down after all suggestions when something could be done were ignored and insulted abi. Anyway na me wey dey reply you I blame. 1 Like |
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