Sophyrocks:


Is the Op the only one guilty of child labor?

is the op's husband the only one guilty of spousal abuse? Not justifying, just letting you know that's not a valid argument.

Timbuktou:
is the op's husband the only one guilty of spousal abuse? Not justifying, just letting you know that's not a valid argument.

What sense did you just make?

Ewuro4:


Hehe.. This woman eh

I just showed this to my husband and he was flabbergasted, . Mutter the menist

Sophyrocks:


What sense did you just make?

Ah, of course, none. Carry on, please.

Sophyrocks:


You notice they absolved the husband of any blame and never condemned his atrocity. It took a well known misogynistic whiner, who derives joy in using his emotions and frustrations to comment, to chip in child abuse issue to distract the rest who are willing to jump into his bandwagon and change the thread to a different topic entirely. Thereby, turning the thread to a free for all.

Funny right?

So funny. As long as the op is still alive, as long as she still has a fighting chance to survive every ordeal her husband puts her through, they judge the husband right.

It is only when she dies from the physical abuse that they judge the husband wrong.

Funny peeps I tell you.

fem29:


I just showed this to my husband and he was flabbergasted, . Mutter the menist

Please explain.
Did I say something wrong
I was trying to be logical!

[quote author=mutter post=29881279]But OP, How could yoube sleeping when your husbandwas out.
Do you know how risky that can be, he might get attacked while bannging to enter the house.
[/quote)
Excellent points! Here comes a woman who still thinks straight.
The obviously biased female posters here are trying to justify the Op who has shown herself as a child abusing monster because she is female. This is an obviously wicked woman who has absolutely no single regard for someone's little female child and venomously converts a mere 12 year old baby girl to a beast of burden in her home coming here to accuse another of being a monster. For your information child abuse is the worst kind of abuse! The Op should be immediately arrested and prosecuted for child labor and abuse!

Hi everyone

Sometimes instead of bottling emotions up, some people just want a forum to talk. Please dnt try to discourage because u don't know...rather if u see a different view express ur self without trying to create drama, or unnecessary bias. In fact u should feel blessed to ve an opportunity to heal a fellow human.

thinkingbee:
Hi everyone

I only respond because of the issue of abuse. I wouldn't like to further drag this. It is past, I am better, God is on d wheel.
This can actually deter people from helping families in need.
The child in question is 12, at 15 I was in year one, at 9 far away from my parents in boarding school.
She unfortunately comes from a poor village, no cars, no bikes, only boats, wooden house on water
With 10 siblings 3 died from alligator(i figured) attacks, not enough to eat, nothing like school. She she is my first child. Her parents just want a better life for her. Am not on dire need of her help, I ve an elderly nanny that takes care of all the children, her inclusive. It's nice having a young person in d house with kids, they play together.. that's d kind of home I come from. She is not employed, I don't pay her a salary, it's no form if labour
She insisted she could watch them under supervision ,no cohesion of any sort. Food ready, feed and cartoon, play.

Sometimes instead of bottling emotions up, some people just want a forum to talk. Please dnt try to discourage because u don't know...rather if u see a different view express ur self without trying to create drama, or unnecessary bias. In fact u should feel blessed to ve an opportunity to heal a fellow human.
Thanks again, am on a good path, bitterness gone just looking ahead..

Is there a way to close this though, I don't like all the quarrels.

God bless you.

You really deserve better. Kudos.

@ Op since you have come to your senses, I rest my case. No matter what, never you come to a public forum and call your husband a monster...there are better ways of presenting your case if any...and stop using that 12 year old girl as a nanny. Best of luck.Ciao. Sayonara. Aloha

dinachi:
Those who are siding the Op should advice her as a matter of urgency to go and report herself to the police, get a fair trial and as a good citizen serve her jail terms for monstrously abusing the poor 12 year old girl.

Abeg It is okay. The two are different issues. She said the nanny was on break.
Let us focus on the man that beat her and the girl for not opening the door.
You are lashing out too hard at her.

But OP if you love your husband you would be watching out of the window and listening for him to come in, no matter what time.
Imagine criminals had followed him and shot him at the doorstep. You would be the first suspect.

mutter:


Abeg It is okay. The two are different issues. She said the nanny was on break.
Let us focus on the man that beat her and the girl for not opening the door.
You are lashing out too hard at her.

But OP if you love your husband you would be watching out of the window and listening for him to come in, no matter what time.
Imagine criminals had followed him and shot him at the doorstep. You would be the first suspect.

dinachi:
@ Op since you have come to your senses, I rest my case. No matter what, never you come to a public forum and call your husband a monster...there are better ways of presenting your case if any...and stop using that 12 year old girl as a nanny. Best of luck.Ciao. Sayonara. Aloha

Both of you should go to bed if you have nothing else doing.

And do it fast !

fem29:


I just showed this to my husband and he was flabbergasted, . Mutter the menist

Abeg I no dey oh

Here's another one ..

mutter:

But OP if you love your husband you would be watching out of the window and listening for him to come in, no matter what time.
Imagine criminals had followed him and shot him at the doorstep. You would be the first suspect.

mutter no vex but I just can't help but rotfl reading this.

NL

Chillisauce:




Both of you should go to bed if you have nothing else doing.

And do it fast !

Ewere maka ihe ikpu na eshi agaghi ara ya.

Chillisauce:




Both of you should go to bed if you have nothing else doing.

And do it fast !

Yes Ma, it is way past my bedtime!
But I am waiting for the sound of my husbands car, don`t want him to turn into a monster and lash out at me. I don`t have any small nanny her to take some of the beating.

Chillisauce:




Both of you should go to bed if you have nothing else doing.

And do it fast !

Buhahahahahahahaha. This thread has been turned to a joke by the misogynists. SMH.

thinkingbee:
Hi everyone

I only respond because of the issue of abuse. I wouldn't like to further drag this. It is past, I am better, God is on d wheel.
This can actually deter people from helping families in need.
The child in question is 12, at 15 I was in year one, at 9 far away from my parents in boarding school.
She unfortunately comes from a poor village, no cars, no bikes, only boats, wooden house on water
With 10 siblings 3 died from alligator(i figured) attacks, not enough to eat, nothing like school. She she is my first child. Her parents just want a better life for her. Am not on dire need of her help, I ve an elderly nanny that takes care of all the children, her inclusive. It's nice having a young person in d house with kids, they play together.. that's d kind of home I come from. She is not employed, I don't pay her a salary, it's no form if labour
She insisted she could watch them under supervision ,no cohesion of any sort. Food ready, feed and cartoon, play.

Sometimes instead of bottling emotions up, some people just want a forum to talk. Please dnt try to discourage because u don't know...rather if u see a different view express ur self without trying to create drama, or unnecessary bias. In fact u should feel blessed to ve an opportunity to heal a fellow human.
Thanks again, am on a good path, bitterness gone just looking ahead..

Is there a way to close this though, I don't like all the quarrels.

What of the issue of the spousal abuse

How long has this been going on

Have you also been physical before

https://www.nairaland.com/2096643/wife-user-advice-please



Interesting that dinachi had nothing nice to say about this man's wife who verbally abuses him. In fact he calls for him to divorce her. Dinachi you are a spineless, no ball having, insecure man. You are likely not married and if you are your wife likely stops herself from vomiting at the sight of you. Go and apologize to your parents. You're a disgrace.

soulglo:
https://www.nairaland.com/2096643/wife-user-advice-please



Interesting that dinachi had nothing nice to say about this man's wife who verbally abuses him. In fact he calls for him to divorce her. Dinachi you are a spineless, no ball having, insecure man. You are likely not married and if you are your wife likely stops herself from vomiting at the sight of you. Go and apologize to your parents. You're a disgrace.

mutter:


Abeg It is okay. The two are different issues. She said the nanny was on break.
Let us focus on the man that beat her and the girl for not opening the door.
You are lashing out too hard at her.

But OP if you love your husband you would be watching out of the window and listening for him to come in, no matter what time.
Imagine criminals had followed him and shot him at the doorstep. You would be the first suspect.

Huh?

*Scratches head*

ileobatojo:


Huh?

*Scratches head*

Wetin ! Na lice or dandruff dey there.

mutter:

Wetin ! Na lice or dandruff dey there.

Hian, I know no o! Weda na kraw kraw sef. The head just dey scratch me dey go..

LWKMD...family section of endless drama and squabbles

soulglo:
https://www.nairaland.com/2096643/wife-user-advice-please



Interesting that dinachi had nothing nice to say about this man's wife who verbally abuses him. In fact he calls for him to divorce her. Dinachi you are a spineless, no ball having, insecure man. You are likely not married and if you are your wife likely stops herself from vomiting at the sight of you. Go and apologize to your parents. You're a disgrace.

Rotten puccy how market?
Many are mad but few are roaming! The day you stop seeing the dick as agent of oppression and start seeing him as agent of enjoyment, fulfillment and liberation the better for you. In all thy getting get wisdom. A life of bitterness will only lead you to an early grave.

So if a man beats you up all the time so much that you're in fear of him and are afraid of stepping too hard on the ground before he takes that as offense to beat you up again,

you want me to believe you will have So much love and excitement In your heart to wait up for him happily when he comes home late at night?
Instead of being happy to go to sleep so that that night's beating will at least pass you by.


Mutter fear God small. Just small.
Play has levels. Don't trivialize people's pain because it didn't happen to you.

mutter:


Abeg It is okay. The two are different issues. She said the nanny was on break.
Let us focus on the man that beat her and the girl for not opening the door.
You are lashing out too hard at her.

But OP if you love your husband you would be watching out of the window and listening for him to come in, no matter what time.
Imagine criminals had followed him and shot him at the doorstep. You would be the first suspect.

mutter:



But OP if you love your husband you would be watching out of the window and listening for him to come in, no matter what time.
Imagine criminals had followed him and shot him at the doorstep. You would be the first suspect.

Only those who truly love their husband will do the above. Most here who do not know what love entails will still come her to spew balderdash! No waiting up for your husband is spousal neglect. Those defending the Op are guilty of it.

Ewuro4:


Madame abeg leave Dinachi alone, his posts need not to be generic like others we see on here.

Besides, why is her own case being taken lightly when a man was brutally mobbed here for similar offence days ago?

How's family?

My dear,we are fine ooo.
How are you and yours?

dinachi:
Rotten puccy how market?
Many are mad but few are roaming! The day you stop seeing the dick as agent of oppression and start seeing him as agent of enjoyment, fulfillment and liberation the better for you. In all thy getting get wisdom. A life of bitterness will only lead you to an early grave.

If you had a penis, you would not even know what to do with it. Maybe if you behaved like a man whatever unlucky woman who falls into your net would give you some good sex. Until then keep humping the couch in your living room cause I know that is the only action you could ever possibly get. Follow some of the good men on nairaland and learn from them. Your partner might pity you and maybe let you rub her back. Silly thing.

soulglo:


If you had a penis, you would not even know what to do with it. Maybe if you behaved like a man whatever unlucky woman who falls into your net would give you some good sex. Until then keep humping the couch in your living room cause I know that is the only action you could ever possibly get. Follow some of the good men on nairaland and learn from them. Your partner might pity you and maybe let you rub her back. Silly thing.

This is your defense for being a whitewashed sepulcher? Buhahahahahahahaha
Your rotten puccy aside, I strongly suspect your addled brain has also caught the bug. Nne you STINK! I can perceive your atrocious stench from here...
Get help Asap. This has gone beyond the usual sex therapy. Very clearly, your ancestors have abandoned your matter...

dinachi:
This is your defense for being a whitewashed sepulcher? Buhahahahahahahaha
Your rotten puccy aside, I strongly suspect your addled brain has also caught the bug. Nne you STINK! I can perceive your atrocious stench from here...
Get help Asap. This has gone beyond the usual sex therapy. Very clearly, your ancestors have abandoned your matter...

Bwahahahahaha

I just fell off my bed after reading this shiit. You're bad mind!

Why you gotta put all her business and selling point out there like that?

Smelly pum is a mood killer, and that's the shiit that I don't like.

You lot go hard in the paint, swear down.

E be like say OP and her monster don make up o
We thank God
Hopefully there won't be an obituary somewhere down the line
Leopards don't change their spots