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Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by EfemenaXY: 11:17pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
ileobatojo: More, more, more, Ile!... 1 Like |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by InZA: 11:18pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Same here 1 Like |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:19pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
InZA: |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by ireneidiva(f): 11:19pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
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Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:19pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
ihedinobi2:I get you bruh. I guess I had it delivered on a platter. All hope isn't lost though, He doesn't leave His own without a witness. Also, cynicism would only reflect poorly on you. Now you know the truth, all you need do is play it to your advantage. carefreewannabe:I agree with quantity vs quality, I literally went through quantity before I came to my senses and sealed it with the missus. 5 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by ihedinobi2: 11:22pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Thank you for that. 1 Like |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Lumpyy(f): 11:28pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Timbuktou:hahaahaha |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by arck1: 11:28pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Wish to tell sweet story like this one day Make I spread my mat here,I have lot of pop corn 5 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by EfemenaXY: 11:29pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
ihedinobi2: I don't get you. You've found somebody that complements you, and yet you toy with the idea of celibacy because you're afraid of getting hurt? If not, then where's the cynicism coming from, Ihe? 5 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Ihedinobi2, chei! Ur story made me sad. |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Ehen, you want to rope me in abi, when you haven't said your own. My lips are sealed 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by ihedinobi2: 11:33pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Timbuktou, yes. The cynicism is not here to stay. It's not even a welcome visitor. It's a nuisance, if anything at all. It's just the result of disappointment. And, yes, I know the truth. I will be alright. 1 Like |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
ileobatojo: More from Ile in exchange for Efe's story. |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
ihedinobi2:Anytime, bruv. |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by EfemenaXY: 11:35pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
ileobatojo: Ah..ah...don't be like that na.. |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by EfemenaXY: 11:36pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Gosh! See ganging up... |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by damiso(f): 11:37pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Over the phone..we met through his cousin who was my very good male friend (more like an adopted bro).He was in a different city but we started talking over the phone and just hit it off.We kept saying we should actually see but I can be quite conservative about some things I never offered to travel down even though his schedule was tighter than mine. He decided to hop on the train and came down to London a few weeks after we started talking. So physically, we met at Walthamstow station Fortunately we were both not disappointed . After so many more train rides and plane journeys ( i went back to Nigeria) we got married 3 years later. 26 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by ihedinobi2: 11:37pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by InZA: 11:38pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Timbuktou: I apologize if I'm calling you out a bit, but I have benign intentions.... The question is this, does one need to go through a number of "Miss-shots" /Miss-fires"(relationship - wise) before you settle down to find "the one". I'm asking this because quite frankly, chronologically I'm at a stage in my life where I should be getting ready to get married next year.... But I don't even have a relationship presently.... I've not had any for almost 6years, and apart from other reasons, I've not just found "the one", I've had several opportunities to randomly date ladies, good looking ones, but I chose not to, because I didn't feel that "She's the one vibe" and I didn't want to start jumping from relationship to relationship So the question again is. -Was I wrong by staying away from those random relationships -Do I have a chance of meeting the one, without having had any relationships in such a long while. P:S I'm open to opinions from any other person too. Make una no mind my epistle ooo It's a nasty habit I'm trying to curb |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:38pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
ihedinobi2:That's the spirit, monsieur. Your miracle approacheth. . All you need do is be ready for and be worthy of it. 7 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Are you part of the family or are you not? |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by ihedinobi2: 11:39pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
moca:Sorry, ypp, I didn't mean to spoil your groove. Forgive me. |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by captcochrane(m): 11:42pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
bukatyne: sorry, u went to lautech? dt bio 101 sounds familiar 1 Like |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:43pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
InZA: Allow me to answer too. Every human being has his own individual life story. Some people find their spouses easily and quickly, others need to have patience. If you want to find someone, be open minded, date as many girls as possible as long as you are single until you feel the vibe but give them a fair chance. Sometimes feelings take time. Sometimes you need to really get to know someone to fall in love. My contribution. Sorry for interfering without being asked. 2 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by ihedinobi2: 11:45pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
InZA:My "the one" vibe is the one that ended after six and a half very difficult years. Not saying "the vibe" doesn't work. Just that mine didn't. But I learned what to look for in a woman and how to find it. That's why I feel like fish on a hook right now. I found it. I don't know that anyone needs to go through several relationships to find what they need. There are many "first loves" that worked extremely well. I think it is a question of having a clear vision for your life and a readiness to commit to working it out no matter what with someone who buys that vision too. 1 Like |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by EfemenaXY: 11:45pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
ihedinobi2: C'mon Ihe. I'm sure you know in your heart of hearts that you can't go through lift tip-toeing on egg shells. So you had one (or a couple) of bad relationships. So what? Life goes on. Infact sometimes we need to be knocked off our horses so we get stronger and wiser. It's not about feeling sorry for yourself when you hit the ground, but about getting up, dusting yourself and moving on. Life's too short for regrets. Grab it with both hands while you can. 7 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by EfemenaXY: 11:46pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:48pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
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Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:49pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
InZA:Erm, I couldn't categorically say one or the other, because the experience is dependent on knowledge. If you know what to look for and how to look for it, you shouldn't have difficulty finding if you get my drift. In my case, I was left to my devices, my mom was too religious to broach the subject, my dad was too busy working to even consider that I could find women attractive and we had no relatives young or old around, I was on my own, so it was really trial and error. That said, not having a relationship is quite worrisome for someone your age. It need not lead to marriage, in fact, you shouldn't be thinking of marriage too early into a relationship as it could lead to making judgement errors. Get into the relationship and let it develop organically, if it's not working out as envisioned you can always quit and move on. Better to try and fail than not try at all. PS: I'm not sure there's such a thing as "the one", so while fortune might smile on you and hand you a really compatible female on short notice, you still have to go through the rigour of verifying suitability. 15 Likes |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:50pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
^^ Nice one and I really like your signature. |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by EfemenaXY: 11:51pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Re: Where Did You Meet Your Spouse? by Nobody: 11:52pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: You didn't fall for it, that is what it is for. |
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