Cheating by boys and girls especially in 'dating' are un-excitingly norms in our society and even in marriages too.


But arguably its better when boys cheat believe me reason being when we cheat we are like ok ho(wh...ore) am done with you. We like forget the girl, we are not emotional about her she is just for sex.

But,

When girls cheat it's a different ball game. They like the guy.OR his money.

Girls don't engage in relationship breaking activities if they don't think they can benefit from it while boys just do it for the fun or quick benefit. They are not attached at all. When a girl cheats with a guy because she likes him that is really problematic because she really likes him and her heart and emotions her involved involved. She wants cuddles after sex. If its for the money it is better but still she is more interested in the guy than her boyfriend is the girl when compared to when he cheats.

boy or girl.....cheating aint right!!!

Now someone is trying to justify cheating.

My goodness. You people are simply something else

op in a way u r right. when a guy cheats it's a very bad thing. it's terrible n wicked n heartless but when a girl cheats it's worse. we men r easiky moved. a man can sleep with different women without having emotions for them. it's a biological thing.
on the other hand, unless a woman is a ho she will never allow another man touch her willingly. even when a seemingly decent girl allows more than one man touch her it's usually at different times when she's dating or thinks she's in love. but u realise that as women grow older they become more open n liberal about six with more than one.
so I'd say a girl cheating is probably worse and signals d end of the relationship, if of course she not a ho...

Its lyk sayn a gun bcms a furniture wen in d hands of a lady bt stays a gun in d hands of a man...Cheatn is/remains horrible irrespective of who does it

Gosh! op you're so brainless!!!

Like d lord says, we are now proud of what we should be ashamed of

Op cheatin is nt rite.....tho I get where u r comin frm.....D most important tin to do is nt to "cheat" @ all..

MrDojo:
Op cheatin is nt rite.....tho I get where u r comin frm.....D most important tin to do is nt to "cheat" @ all..

I know but in the case of 'when it happens' is what am illuminating

Nneka123:
Gosh! op you're so brainless!!!

you and quick insults.... No matter how much you try to rubbish cheating it is still a fact that it happens now what am trying to argue is that it is better when a guy does.

Maybe...buh cheating ain't ryt irrespective of who does it?

Esdb3:
you and quick insults.... No matter how much you try to rubbish cheating it is still a fact that it happens now what am trying to argue is that it is better when a guy does.

your points were baseless! i really don't decipher how you were trying to justify cheating in both gender, then painting the females black! so in all sense, when a guy cheats, he's free to get away with it? while when a female cheats, it's for the money , infact! i still stand on my first response to you! goodbye.

Nneka123:
your points were baseless! i really don't decipher how you were trying to justify cheating in both gender, then painting the females black! so in all sense, when a guy cheats, he's free to get away with it? while when a female cheats, it's for the money , infact! i still stand on my first response to you! goodbye.

let me modify so you'll understand better.

Nneka123:
Gosh! op you're so brainless!!!

uncalled for really. d op never supported cheating from his post see his words ' unexcitingly norms' be it as it may, his analysis is spot on. Guys don't attach emotions to sex.

Note: I'm not in support of unfaithfuness in a relationship.

mr op ur right, its real,we do it just for quick benefit but em gurls ehhhh...smh

z not advisable to cheat n dats all

OP you are blessed! Guys hardly have sex with emotions, they do it just for fun and might end up not calling the girl again, they just wanna 'mark the register' but when a girl cheats, jeeez! emotions are deeply intertwined she is deeply into that guy to let him 'see her in and out' now the guy will have the keys to her body and will access anytime he wants to because he has seen it all. She will always have a spot soft for that guy whenever she sets her eyes on him, and whenever se'xual urge comes again and the guy is close she will give her coochie to him EXCEPT the guy doesn't want, now the guy is in charge. A girl that's ffuccked a guy will ALWAYS be emotionally attached to him. This is based on fact

NB: All gals will deny this but its proven fact!

Men wll stop cheating we God starts removing an inch 4rm our d1.cks anytime we cheat