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Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Nobody: 9:47am On Dec 25, 2014 |
MORNDEW: For real? Your comment is supposed to make sense but the amount of stereotype in it though. You just assumed the op is with him for money, seriously? And if you would have just calmed down, you'd have seen the comment where the op said she didn't know about the smoking and drinking before they started dating. 2 Likes |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by charming247(m): 10:41am On Dec 25, 2014 |
Juliaann:that's how it is but I don't know why most men don't like driving with a woman in front of his car seat, my elder brother don't carry his wife in front seat when we are travelling I always occupy the front seat while she seats at d back. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by charming247(m): 10:56am On Dec 25, 2014 |
Juliaann:No he just told u d bitter truth there are lots of guys who could treat u like a queen who don't smoke or drink but because they walk on foot u will never give them a chance, let me tell u one secrete guys who drive and probably has some change to spend will always believe they can get ur replacement d very moment u walk out of d relationship infact they always have replacement for u waiting. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by ETTY2008(f): 11:02am On Dec 25, 2014 |
Sweetheart!! Honest truth a guy treats u da way u present ur sef! If indeed u've got a ride y accept 2b disrespected whn u can as well ride n urs n give him space 4his frds?? Naturally I don't feel comfortable if my man has 2turn back while gisting with his buddy!! Do wht u feel s right! |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Ezevajina: 11:03am On Dec 25, 2014 |
Men will sit in the front seats in my car. In fact this is just a reflection of the status men have in our african ways. My friend will also pt me in the front seat and his wife will go to the back. If it is his wife driving their can then I will politely decline their offer of the lift. This is Africa |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Nobody: 1:10pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
Juliaann: how can you miss him being a smoker, with what you have described, his car would have had a tobacco odour, his home & clothes he drinks & smokes & keeps late night, he won't change, even if he does, it's for a season, later he will relapse A lasting change will only come when he is the originator & not you |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by femi4: 1:49pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
Juliaann:He is not a husband material.....Quit now or you regret later |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by joe4christ(m): 3:01pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
Juliaann: Then what are u still waiting for, you still need an Angel to give you hint on when to quit Quit already! |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Nobody: 3:39pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
lesluga: Collect am do wetin? When better men wey treat themselves and women with respect and love full ground. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
sexyseun:You self no bad |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by samtol4(m): 5:43pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
Juliaann:Don't be aggressive |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by amosamali(m): 11:50pm On Dec 25, 2014 |
Juliaann:Exactly what d Guy is trying to say?? Whatever people say might not change yr mind .....!!! in- between I believe there are medical cures for addicted smokers.... Even Obama too waz Blazing Hard Abt d car issue..... I believe d Guy is trying to b traditional!! Sometimes its Respect....,if nt some guys wld rather tell you nt to bother to sit at the back they'll sit there. You might nt know what he has gone through with His friends .. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by deeboiii: 1:22am On Dec 26, 2014 |
Babe, one more thing. Your bf is cheating on u. As 4 d car issue, all d friends u do pick in d middle of d road are shameless. He doesn't know ur worth @all. He must have said some pretty bad things about you to his friends. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Juliaann(f): 2:33am On Dec 26, 2014 |
netizenbuzz:God bless you I really don't know y people don't read before commenting 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by queencalipso(f): 12:44pm On Dec 26, 2014 |
lordizak:didn't u see where she said she have. Her own car? Obviously u did not read the story before rushing to comment. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by grimandevil: 10:11am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Juliaann: imagine d kind of frnds u make. 1 Like |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by balash(m): 4:35am On Dec 30, 2014 |
Hmmmm my dear Love is sweet as well as bitter, the relationship is still so young first! Its just a year so relatively u should be ready to see more, U never made mention of anything weird about him except he is a serial night walker and a hard smoker but less drinker. I can't easily judge the dude on that because am also a night walker once in a while,I go to shows and occasionally a clubber but I have never smoked and as well in like 15yrs have never had a drop of alcohol on my tongue since I followed some peers group and tried asking to know what alcohol tastes like and still puked when I saw how bitter is it and couldn't fathom any fun there. So I can't really judge someone who is a night walker bcox I do too but mine is like once or twice in a month but since I don't drink or smoke or pick hooties to satisfy my urges(some yoruba lines be like if u don't smoke or drink u wuld womanise,I dnt smoke or drink and I have never picked or had anything with a prostitute so) To the point! If u really love this guy and u believe he aint a bad person let him feel what he is doing in practical, when u wanna go out and all dressed up immedietely he gets on the wheel just get into the back seat and sit at the owners corner,when he ask why, tell him u don't want him to send u to the back seat when u see a friend of his so u opted to stay there incase u see a friend be adamant and say if he doesn't allow u stay there then no going out. First hurdles crossed! Then when u go out together and he smokes! Just dip your hand in his pocket for his cigarette or pick from his table and walk to the bathroom, light it and make sure the smel relatively stays on u that implies maybe u just finished smoking or when u wanna pick up the cigarette and he stops u just tell him u wanna go smoke bbut u love smoking indoor instead! Then when he try talking about you smoking and sitting at the back let him know whatever he feels as bad on u doing it? U feel that too and if that brews issues on breakup,dearie I understand u love him but u can't afford to stay hurt for the rest of you life when u marry him, guys like this do worst in marriage! Walk out if he still doesn't change.. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Pes13: 1:55am On Jan 01, 2015 |
donbabade:ok |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by mikeczay: 11:38am On Jan 02, 2015 |
Janetozi:hey i checked your profile pic and fell in love with ydnu |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by xpensiv: 2:42pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
Sounds like ur dating me, but can't recognise u from ur dp Anyways, the truth has been said, you fell in love with him smoking & drinking so you can only advise him on it. A smarter you in the next world would have asked he reduce or stop it to show he is serious about dating you before you started dating or taking off your clothes (which ever applies) For the car sitting arrangement, tell him and see what he says, these things are simple if you are ready to face the truth! If he doesn't do the right thing and he says no in a very I dont care attitude, understand you dont mean what you fink u mean to him. As it stands now if you can't bear it move to the next one. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Kolade354(m): 12:47am On Jan 19, 2015 |
Juliaann:see ya miserable life you fell in love with a smoker............your mama wont be proud of you..........you dont have dat brain to know smokerz are not responsible or nation builderz.............She-goat. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Juliaann(f): 12:52am On Jan 19, 2015 |
Kolade354:Lol wow and he is going crazy |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Kolade354(m): 12:58am On Jan 19, 2015 |
Juliaann:i guess crazyness and daft thinking is thing of hereditary in ya family........Dumbskull. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by buoye1(m): 1:02am On Jan 19, 2015 |
Mprex:I'm over satisfied with your response......#simple truth |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by buoye1(m): 1:11am On Jan 19, 2015 |
3 things are involved.Aye e ma da,o de ni sha Oriburukun lodun tuntun Loruko JESU! E sweet ma belle die! |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Juliaann:So you truly love the negro? |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Nobody: 8:02am On Jan 26, 2015 |
@seun add me 0n 29c329ca. thanks sexyseun: |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Youngpo413: 3:46am On May 07, 2015 |
MORNDEW:The smart guy knows she is a golddigger,that's why he is not treating her with respect,once you are rich,you can treat the b!tches like crap and they wiill still stick with you no matter what,that her bf(?) Is a correct guy,he value his fellow guys first,b!tches should go to hell. |
Re: Please What Do You Think I Should Do Leave Or Continue? by Youngpo413: 4:09am On May 07, 2015 |
sauceny:no sane man will bother to love a naija girl,its too risky...the best way to treat them is what the OP's bf is doing. |
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