mandybaby2007:


I didn't have monie wen I left Naija, I still came and I am still surviving, as a full blooded Nigerian dat I am lol. But make nobody use me as example o, my way nd ur way different. Wierd psycho nd slimmy r right but I will modify by saying have monie 2carry u for atleast 1-2 semesters b4 u come, wen d monie finish if u r a true blooded Nigerian u go rough am if u b half blood or aje na double wahala for dead body o lol. Both Big Francis and Ms Nas r correct in their own right, the botomline is dat everybody way for yankee different, ur way mayb 2do masters after masters 2remain here, anoda person way cud b not 2even near school frm d day dey land, anoda person fit folow akata find his/her way, anoda person fit do phd, anoda person join army, anoda person fit just hit d streets 2do hide and seek with immigration. I know a guy dat has been out of status for over 25yrs he just got married Nov last year 2a citizen dat was his way o. It wasn't rosy but he roughed it, so like I said if u b half blooded Nigerian know d way u wan folow. Everybody know ur way.

wierdpsycho:

why go through all these stress... as you said we are all different...... I LOVE THE EASY LIFE AND HAVE ALWAYS WORKED SMART TO GET IT

mandybaby2007:

Na your way b that so folow it. Everybody loves d easy life but life is not easy with everybody.

zeezahbee:
Na God go save us jawe. Everyone gat their own way ,your way no be my way o

mandybaby2007:

Na your way b that so folow it. Everybody loves d easy life but life is not easy with everybody.

MsNas:
Exxy,

Did your uncle hook you up with someone to file papers for you in New York?
Did he seek accommodation for you in New York?
Did he get you a job there?

If the answers to those questions is No, I will reiterate this... "Your uncle is an enemy of progress". I see someone here advising you to fall out of status so you can sort out your papers? Can't you go to school while you're also looking for someone to file for you? As a matter of fact, the easiest place to find someone and network is the school environment.

This person also said you don't have a guarantee you're gonna get a job and subsequently get a company to file H1B or GC for you. True, there's no guarantee. But what's the guarantee you're gonna get someone to file for you or even get money to pay the person filing for you when you fall out of status? Think about it well o. At least, if you finish school, you've got a certificate, you've gotten something out of your stay in America and you can always go to Nigeria to get a job. You're even given preference there. Unlike falling out of status and living the hard knock life in America, working minimum wage jobs, holding out hope for a better tomorrow (which btw might not come soon) thereby wasting your productive years.

Tell the person advising you to fall out of status first and come and tell us the stories of how well things worked out. Maybe I can believe life is rosy for them then.

exxy:


The thing is my uncle said i should go and stay with my aunt in newyork who is illigal, so accomdation is ok, but he didn't find a job for me, he didn't get someone to file for me.

exxy:


The thing is my uncle said i should go and stay with my aunt in newyork who is illigal, so accomdation is ok, but he didn't find a job for me, he didn't get someone to file for me.

This doesn't sound like much of a plan. Just leave your studies and go stay with another illegal, so immigration can be pursuing both of you together? .

Mystiqme:

This doesn't sound like much of a plan. Just leave your studies and go stay with another illegal, so immigration can be pursuing both of you together? .

exxy:


The thing is my uncle said i should go and stay with my aunt in newyork who is illigal, so accomdation is ok, but he didn't find a job for me, he didn't get someone to file for me.

Mystiqme:

This doesn't sound like much of a plan. Just leave your studies and go stay with another illegal, so immigration can be pursuing both of you together? .

exxy:


The thing is my uncle said i should go and stay with my aunt in newyork who is illigal, so accomdation is ok, but he didn't find a job for me, he didn't get someone to file for me.

MsNas:

Lmaoo. Baddest!! Immigration will be pursuing both of them together oo. All man for himself. I can't laugh

OjaP:


You this girl. SmH

OjaP:


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See Exxy, I will go straight to the point and won't blow hot and cold.Let "falling out of status" be your last option. Not until your school tells you that you've been dropped; please keep fighting. If you can work under the table as an illegal, why can't you as an F-1 student in status too? If you can look for someone to marry as an illegal in NY, why can't you also look for someone to marry while going to school? Everything is a risk but going to school is more realistic - you can still control that. Your school give scholarships, you have an accommodation, and an on-campus job. Just fight to get the scholarship and keep going. Again, do not fall out of status unless all your options have been exhausted.

OjaP:
Amefrica:

What are you looking for here??

exxy:

ok sir, that's the thing i was even trying to tell him, he would not listen and keep shouting on phone.

mandybaby2007:


I didn't have monie wen I left Naija, I still came and I am still surviving, as a full blooded Nigerian dat I am lol. But make nobody use me as example o, my way nd ur way different. Wierd psycho nd slimmy r right but I will modify by saying have monie 2carry u for atleast 1-2 semesters b4 u come, wen d monie finish if u r a true blooded Nigerian u go rough am if u b half blood or aje na double wahala for dead body o lol. Both Big Francis and Ms Nas r correct in their own right, the botomline is dat everybody way for yankee different, ur way mayb 2do masters after masters 2remain here, anoda person way cud b not 2even near school frm d day dey land, anoda person fit folow akata find his/her way, anoda person fit do phd, anoda person join army, anoda person fit just hit d streets 2do hide and seek with immigration. I know a guy dat has been out of status for over 25yrs he just got married Nov last year 2a citizen dat was his way o. It wasn't rosy but he roughed it, so like I said if u b half blooded Nigerian know d way u wan folow. Everybody know ur way.

Amefrica:


Mandy, longest time. How's it going?

Amefrica:


Yes sir!

I'm just observing from the statute of liberty and Niagara falls at the same time ni. How are things coming up tho? Happy New Year, and happy winter too.

OjaP:


So, what do you want to do now? What are your plans?

exxy:

I intend to continue with my studies. no falling out of status again after much advice. i will keep fighting, it's not easy for any body. even the us citizens still fought for work study. 200 persons drag am with me. but God pass them.
i will continue this semester and see what the next holds by planning.

God Helping Me.

exxy:

ok sir, that's the thing i was even trying to tell him, he would not listen and keep shouting on phone.

slimmy05:
I don tire to see akata, been seeing some cute ones, but brother I don seal my long john for now. Celibate things.

MsNas:

Why didn't your uncle allow you come stay with him? What good will it do you to live in NY with an Aunt who is also illegal? She can't even help you out as per paper filing. You see what I'm saying? You Uncle couldn't even look for a way out for the aunt, not to talk of you. In the end, I will still say, "follow your mind". To each, their own.

bigfrancis21:


Actually, that post wasn't referring to you at all in no way. It's incomprehensible to me why you're trying to twist a connection out of it to you.

bigfrancis21:
The decision is exxy's to make. I don't endorse either suggestion. It's up to him to weigh his circumstances and decide which route favours him the most.

profojah:

My sister, I said the same thing but I was told I made condemnation judgement on his uncle...exxy has his cross to carry and who are we to judge ..we all only give advices best known to us based on what he wrote...he sud weigh the issue in two ways and decide what he feel best for himself..This is exactly what I posted "follow your mind"...That other guy just twisted everyhing..
Your head is valid jare