MzNelly:


Sweetheart, your conscience doesn't want that. Don't deaden your conscience by doing such.

Just kindly but firmly tell her it won't work.

sigmundfreud:
Just don't come back here later when she's pregnant and start saying she's into a convenant or possessed... like your twin brother on another thread.
She lost a close relationship...have a heart.

MzNelly:


Depressed? Yes.
Wants sex? Perhaps.
Wants to be taken advantage of? I doubt!

The very minute he sleeps with her and all that oxytocin is produced; and she even begins to trip for him, trust me, leaving her after that could very well kill her. (considering all she's been through).

hotwax:


Why na? Somebody offend you before or just this post ?

MzNelly:


Ok, you don't want to marry her?

You want to sleep with her and leave?

Considering all she's being through plus how close you've been?

If your conscience lets you do that, go right on

Prixus:

u r so soft n pityful. when I see a guy been used by a girl I just laff n say he's got to learn a lesson. but when a girl sees a girl in a bad spot she just starts begging n supporting her. this world is harsh dear. get used to it.

MzNelly:


If you want to use and dump others, that's up to you. Don't get anyone else involved in it. Yes, the world is harsh indeed, however changing the mentality of one person can make a difference.

He asked for advice, and it is only normal and sane that one tells him the appropriate thing to do.
If you think everyone has so-called 'lessons' to be learnt, wait till someone you care about is in that position and just laugh and watch her fall to her doom.

hotwax:


Thank you very much. Its even conscience that push to write this on nairaland. Cuz its like a forbidden fruit. I need people to encourage me to eat it so I can do it. But so far, people have been dissuading me from doing.

The challenge now is how I can break up with her. Maybe I will just use one unreasonable quarrel

MzNelly:


Depressed? Yes.
Wants sex? Perhaps.
Wants to be taken advantage of? I doubt!

The very minute he sleeps with her and all that oxytocin is produced; and she even begins to trip for him, trust me, leaving her after that could very well kill her. (considering all she's been through).

MzNelly:


If you want to use and dump others, that's up to you. Don't get anyone else involved in it. Yes, the world is harsh indeed, however changing the mentality of one person can make a difference.

He asked for advice, and it is only normal and sane that one tells him the appropriate thing to do.
If you think everyone has so-called 'lessons' to be learnt, wait till someone you care about is in that position and just laugh and watch her fall to her doom.

MzNelly:


And if she begs and apologizes nko?

Prixus:

lesson learnt ma'am. is ur name by any chance Christy

Cutehector4u:
lol wants sex dat can make her forget abt all d hurt? YES. Nd by the way, he is stiL her frnd so just one sex wouldn't hurt, would it? He won't leav her na.

hotwax:


the devil is a liar

Cutehector4u:
lol wants sex dat can make her forget abt all d hurt? YES. Nd by the way, he is stiL her frnd so just one sex wouldn't hurt, would it? He won't leav her na.

Mynd44:
Abeg all guys are wicked oooo.

It is in our blood and genes to be wicked. We are only good for causing harm and hurt and nothing else.

elantraceey:



Just see open confusion

Mynd44:

Is that not you girls say? I have spared you the time and energy

elantraceey:


That's what girls say not 'all' girls .

Nneka123:
you better come back and correct all the grammatical blunders , man is now "her" in all your anecdote!

but why do you want to lick her honeypot, if you're not attracted to her? do not cause her more pain! unless God will punish you , go and look for someone who is willing to give you her honeypot for free

Mynd44:

Did I say "all" girls?

Reply my PM na

elantraceey:


You said 'you girls' and that's in general terms.


Na spiritual PM you send abi?

MzNelly:


Nelly is the name.

Yours?

hotwax:
errm..how do I start?

Ok..

I met this beautiful young lady few years ago. I had the intention of leaking her honey pot .No more no else.

She however told me outright that she is already with a man and she loves him...I can only be a friend. Chaiii that hurts

You know how guys play na, I accepted the friendship proposal with the hope that opportunity might presents itself later. After all, I have dated a girl like that that friend-zoned me and after some years called me to come and chop . (I still don't understand how their so called friendzoning works. Its a misery).

So, we got so close to the extent that she now looks like a blood sister to me, whenever she is with me, I don't have sexu.al urge for her (may be its because I zeroed my mind). She will come to my house, do all sorts of things..my mind wont even go there..(to be candid, guy instinct kicks in at times, but my body doesn't move cuz I didnt want to disappoint her ...

rewind back to late 2012, she had a fight with her man, they broke up few months, I was the one for her, guiding her on how to handle the situation and making sure her relationship works.

2013...May, they did this so called "yoruba family Introduction". She didnt inform me, I dont know why, I only saw her pictures on BBM..We quarreled and later settled it. Things continue normal.

July 2013, she lost her immediate brother to a terminal disease. The following week, her sister told her she heard a rumor that her man impregnated one IT girl in his office. She didnt know what to do, she came rushing to me on this faithful day crying. I calm her down, I made her realize its a rumor, she should find a way to confront her man and it should be systematic. She asked how she is gonna go about it.
I told her to ask her if he is hiding any secret from her. She should tell her she will forgive any secret or misdeed no matter how grave it is. I just gave her many hints and approaches.

I dont know if my formulas worked or not, she just called me one afternoon, crying and sobbing, "I am finished", "nothing left again", "this is a curse". "why me".
So the rumor was true. I didnt know what to do too, I nearly cried for her. It was 2 blows at a time. I consoled her, stayed with her. She will come to my house sleep, I cook for her.

So I advised the girl to still stay with him so far they have done "introduction" and have picked their wedding month (both family agreed already). I said she should still go ahead and forgive him, thats how God will have it.

The shocker came to me last in November when the guy called her and said he can no longer continue again. He wants to marry his baby mama to be. There is no point marrying someone else when a lady is pregnant for her.

My girl nearly committed suicide. It was a huge task for me. It was like baby sitting. She will just come to my house crying all day. But I make sure I keep her happy.

So, now, throughout all her trying times, she will cry on my arms, I will pet her to sleep right on the same bed. And I made sure not to open her legs. Cuz I knew ladies are fragile in that situation.

We went to church for cross-over night on 31, when we were about heading towards our different destinations, she said "I love you, I have loved you for a long time, Its just circumstance...I miss u", she then hugged me in a way she has never done before looking into my eye ball. I wanted to kiss her. But I told her, "we need to talk about this, go and rest first"..

The problem here is, she is not my wify taste. She is too flashy for my liking. I can't marry someone like that. What I am interested in is her boooobs and honey pot. You can't even walk with her on the street without guys shifting all attention to you. Naaa I dont want that.
I dont know how to handle the situation now. I want to leak that honey..And she is looking for husband..I can play along just to get what I want, but she has passed through a lot, If I add my own again. This saying "men are wicked". But not all men are wicked.

You can crucify me all you like. Guys know what they want. i know what I want

Pardon all grammatical blunders. I will come and correct them later. I am in a rush

sigmundfreud:
Just don't come back here later when she's pregnant and start saying she's into a convenant or possessed... like your twin brother on another thread.
She lost a close relationship...have a heart.

Mynd44:

If you did not see the sarcasm there pele

Check your spam

Enegod:
nothing like licking the honeypot here...he wants to enter there with his koboko.... who licks honeypot nowadays?!!!

Frankdamaxx:




Just tell her you just want her honey pot. But you appreciate her friendship. But you don't think you are compatible.

elantraceey:


There's no sarcasm there , you made a simple confession.

I guess you were expecting that i'll run to my mail right ?