Maybe she's preserving you for rituals

She's genuinely and crazily in love with you and she simply do not want to bother you

there is more to it than, the excuse of not being materialistic, :-/ habba, she received nothing from you, since last year june.
bro, you need to sit her down and get answers.

Rapsainot:
Maybe she's preserving you for rituals

haba..small small nw

Mimienudles:
She's genuinely and crazily in love with you and she simply do not want to bother you

m d one bothering her,nt otherwise.....mayb u re rite

heryor2:
there is more to it than, the excuse of not being materialistic, :-/ habba, she received nothing from you, since last year june.
bro, you need to sit her down and get answers.

i've sat her down countless time ma bro

Unionised:


Bro, it breaks my heart to tell you but you need to face reality.

There's a fair chance that I might be wrong.
I sincerely hope so.

If she is still holding back, then know that THERE IS SOMEONE ELSE or at the least, she's still hopeful of a "better" option.

Open your eyes.

hmmmmm

2undexy:


m d one bothering her,nt otherwise.....mayb u re rite

I know what am saying, don't stress it because she might become extremely demanding

Yareey:
Perhaps she doesn't want you to ask her if you should give her gifts or money. I always say no when a guy ask me if I want this or that, my pride wouldn't let me say yes. But if the guy already got me a gift then I would accept.

How affectionate is she? if she doesn't let you hug,kiss or hold her hand in public then she is keeping her options open.

what's this one saying?

Mimienudles:
I know what am saying, don't stress it because she might become extremely demanding

hmmmm...mayb i shld just let it go

Mimienudles:
She's genuinely and crazily in love with you and she simply do not want to bother you

Exactly

BEWARE!!!


She's a runs girl!!!

She's only trying to build trust, to make you think she's the one you've been looking for, she trying to make you think she's INDEPENDENT!

But then when she feels you've been fooled enough, she rolls out the big guns.

She starts asking for the money she's been rejecting.

She's smart, I have to give her that. She won't ask you for petty cash & she won't ask once. She'll ask in a way that you have no choice but to give her continuously.

She might con you with a story like her close relative had an accident & she has exhausted all her money on bills & stuffs & if you support her, she'll greatly appreciate it. If you know all the spending involved in treating an accident victim or a terminally ill patient then you'll know what I'm saying.

She might all use school or that fire gutted her people's house or something creative.

You heard it here 1st sha.

vizkiz:
if she ask for cash una go complain, if she no ask, una go complain...watin be una prob sef?

I tire o

2undexy:


hmmmm...mayb i shld just let it go

You'll be fine

Op be wise! Once had a Gf dat wasn't asking me for anytin! I was happy tinking she was a wife material! Later did I discover that she was in anoda serious relationship with oda guy! I was just a side guy!! Oboy be wise!

Bruv...I've same experience too...pls don't be misled, give her some. Some of us came from a very good background where we are not wired to receive gift from outside.

Pls Confirm if the babe is usually shy at some topic? If yes, she's not faking it.

Take her for granted, you will never see her type again.

2undexy:


m the victim of this situation, understand?..nd if she was not dear 2 me, i wuldnt av com here 4 advice..she means a lot 2 me nd d only problem is that she wnt just ask or take anything,buh dat doesn't mean she is oblivious of our relationship

Chairman, there are so many things attached to dis ur situation; based on experience: Is she a student or working class lady? If she is still a student and from an average family, bros am sorry to say this, u are just an ordinary friend to her and she felt she doesn't want to collect gift from u so dat u won't also start demanding sex from her( I call dis concience). But if she is a working class lady, and she has never introduce u to her parents, tell her u want to know her parents probably d mum first, if she refuse, bros u are in d friendzone but if she takes u to mama, boss, dats ur wife.

She is a good girl..
Keep her well o..

akpumping7720:

Chairman, there are so many things attached to dis ur situation; based on experience: Is she a student or working class lady? If she is still a student and from an average family, bros am sorry to say this, u are just an ordinary friend to her and she felt she doesn't want to collect gift from u so dat u won't also start demanding sex from her( I call dis concience). But if she is a working class lady, and she has never introduce u to her parents, tell her u want to know her parents probably d mum first, if she refuse, bros u are in d friendzone but if she takes u to mama, boss, dats ur wife.

thank u very much bro..this helps a lot

How much do u trust ha I min, mayb she's tryin to play safe & mayb using u as a "backup plan"...incase a diff guy comes, so it won't look like she "duped u"..#jissaying tho

2undexy:


thank u very much bro..this helps a lot

U are welcome.

Yareey:
Perhaps she doesn't want you to ask her if you should give her gifts or money. I always say no when a guy ask me if I want this or that, my pride wouldn't let me say yes. But if the guy already got me a gift then I would accept.

How affectionate is she? if she doesn't let you hug,kiss or hold her hand in public then she is keeping her options open.

Sweerie, Do you need N100,000 ?

2undexy:
Hello Nairalanders!

I have been dating this my gurl since June last year and we did almost everythin in common.
But the mystery behind our relationship is that she'd never ask for anything nor receive anything I gift 2 her. Though we've never had ssex before cos am not a fornicator.

The only thing she has ever receive from me is #200 airtime, and anytime i want to give her maybe some money or gift, she tells me she is not a materialistic lady that I should keep those things till further notice (imagine?).

Pls Nairalanders, should i back out of this relationship or do you think she's the right girl for me?

..if u guys are dating...it myt be love...buh generally speaking,gals dat dont collect tins from guys wana protect their ego/self esteem/self respect...dats d fact

2undexy:
Hello Nairalanders!

I have been dating this my gurl since June last year and we did almost everythin in common.
But the mystery behind our relationship is that she'd never ask for anything nor receive anything I gift 2 her. Though we've never had ssex before cos am not a fornicator.

The only thing she has ever receive from me is #200 airtime, and anytime i want to give her maybe some money or gift, she tells me she is not a materialistic lady that I should keep those things till further notice (imagine?).

Pls Nairalanders, should i back out of this relationship or do you think she's the right girl for me?

Investigate her bacbackground,she jst might nt b a Nigerian gurl.

100Cents:


Sweerie, Do you need N100,000 ?

N100,000?

Is that Nigerian currency?

Yareey:

N100,000?

Is that Nigerian currency?

Yes nah.

youngds:
stop fooling urself , she is just a friend or maybe she has bigger plans for, like using u for ritual

I think I agree with this.

Like using his balls to cook Egusi Soup after the ritual ceremony

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Unionised:
Sorry to bust your bubble.

She's just keeping her options open.

She's not really that into you (yet).

My christian-ly sisters, am I wrong?

On point She doesn't want to feel indebted when she has to move on.

Sorry oh.........from your story it COULD be love as she is also INVESTING in the relationship.

Alternatively it COULD also be a set-up for you to want to deepen the relationship.

Whichever way, you can never know for sure.

She hates you as in your gift is disgusting to her