hello peeps, please I need advice from the house. my brother started a relationship with a new lady after breaking up with his girlfriend. this new gal is still a student from not a rich background but she has a shop, 2 cars and a house. my brother didn't really want the relationship he was looking for a rebound but things changed. she tried buying our love by buying gifts for my siblings including myself but I refused cos I liked the other gal cos she didn't offend my brother. she gave my brother some amount of money to assist him when he didn't have enough to bring in his goods. everything was fine for about 4 months until he now found out what she was really into ( doing jazz to get white men) so he ended the relationship, apologized to the ex and they got married. now she is filing a lawsuit for my brother to return a sum of 250k that she gave to him while they were dating. my question is, is it possible for him to win this case as this money wasn't borrowed but given willingly,but want it back because she wad dumped.

Fact:
Gave your brother 250k
Assumption:
Willing gave your brother 250k

Are you sure your brother didn't leave the 1st one cos of the 2nd lady's money and you're here claiming it's jazz.

Even though the lady should not ask for the money back, tell him to pay back and move on

this story is funny. she has two cars, a house n a business. yet she's filing a suit for just 250K? the lawyer gets 10%. she will probably incur costs of up to 30-50K pursuing the case. so she left with less than 200K after everything. if I understand all these then maybe I'll have something to say.

ok

Tell your brother to pay the debt and move on.

that one is dating money,she is trying to buy love with money

Welrez:
Tell your brother to pay the debt and move on.

Exactly. His pride is at stake here... No point getting embarrassed because of 250,000. If she can sue him for dat, lawd knows what else she has planned up her sleeves... Pay up & sever the relationship totally. Get a restraining order against her if need be.

Creamish:


Exactly. His pride is at stake here... No point getting embarrassed because of 250,000. If she can sue him for dat, lawd knows what else she has planned up her sleeves... Pay up & sever the relationship totally. Get a restraining order against her if need be.

thank you, because I don't trust her too she has telling anyone that wish to know about the money.

Hazardd:
that one is dating money,she is trying to buy love with money

lol,the former gal had the whole family's heart. she is a very good, homely and humble gal.

Prixus:
this story is funny. she has two cars, a house n a business. yet she's filing a suit for just 250K? the lawyer gets 10%. she will probably incur costs of up to 30-50K pursuing the case. so she left with less than 200K after everything. if I understand all these then maybe I'll have something to say.

she is not worried about the money, she has enough to spend. I think what she is trying to do is to get back at him and tarnish his image because he left her and went back to his ex.

Welrez:
Tell your brother to pay the debt and move on.

what even makes it more annoying is that after they broke up she called him one day that she was broke and didn't have money. he gave her some amount of money. so that means he can also deduct that and pay the balance.

Another tales by moonlight.

shericoco:
hello peeps, please I need advice from the house. my brother started a relationship with a new lady after breaking up with his girlfriend. this new gal is still a student from not a rich background but she has a shop, 2 cars and a house. my brother didn't really want the relationship he was looking for a rebound but things changed. she tried buying our love by buying gifts for my siblings including myself but I refused cos I liked the other gal cos she didn't offend my brother. she gave my brother some amount of money to assist him when he didn't have enough to bring in his goods. everything was fine for about 4 months until he now found out what she was really into ( doing jazz to get white men) so he ended the relationship, apologized to the ex and they got married. now she is filing a lawsuit for my brother to return a sum of 250k that she gave to him while they were dating. my question is, is it possible for him to win this case as this money wasn't borrowed but given willingly,but want it back because she wad dumped.

Helo. I want to post your question to our facebook page where you get more mature response (many married people there). On facebook search for Nigerian Papalette. But i need your permission first.

adanduka:
Fact:
Gave your brother 250k
Assumption:
Willing gave your brother 250k

Are you sure your brother didn't leave the 1st one cos of the 2nd lady's money and you're here claiming it's jazz.

Even though the lady should not ask for the money back, tell him to pay back and move on

my brother is not claiming she jazzed him. why he left her was that he found out she was using jazz to sleep and collect money from white men.

Sweetmarriage:


Helo. I want to post your question to our facebook page where you get more mature response (many married people there). On facebook search for Nigerian Papalette. But i need your permission first.

k no problem, permission granted.

She cannot win such a case if your brother has a good lawyer. Does she have proof that she loaned him the money? I doubt that.

But for the sake of peace, if he has the money he should just give her. I know for her it's not about the money but just a way to get at him for breaking up with her.

shericoco:
she is not worried about the money, she has enough to spend. I think what she is trying to do is to get back at him and tarnish his image because he left her and went back to his ex.

do u think ur brother has been fair to both women? he left his ex cos he saw money, realised it was ill-gotten n is now back to d ex. is that fair? well he deserves more than humiliation to me.

anyway now that he's married to his ex I think he's a better man now. probably learnt his lesson. as for the court case, he should just deny outright that he was given any money n the judge will throw out d case or ask both parties to settle out of court unless she provides documents as regards the money. or alternatively hos lawyer should argue that she's trying to humiliate him. going by the precedents of the case the judge will rule in his favor either ways.

that's my mum's advice. she's a lawyer.

He should just pay up and let the thing pass, before the lady starts bringing other things up...you never can tell

If she did give your brother the money with hopes of marrying her he should just return it instead of going to court. He may not have it all right now but he can spread out the payment over months.

firstEVA:
She cannot win such a case if your brother has a good lawyer. Does she have proof that she loaned him the money? I doubt that.

But for the sake of peace, if he has the money he should just give her. I know for her it's not about the money but just a way to get at him for breaking up with her.

she gave him the money according to him not even a loan. no proof or wat so ever. he said they even shared the profit. he doesn't have such money he just wedded

NAIJA I TIRE FOR UNA OOOOO


WHEN GUYS SPEND ON LADIES AND THEY SEPARATE LATER, YOU PEOPLE WILL TELL GUYS TO COUNT HIS LOSS AND MOVE ON.

WHEN LADIES SPEND ON GUYS AND THEY LATER SEPARATE,:YOU PEOPLE STILL WANT HIM TO PAY BACK.



WHY CANT THE LADIES COUNT THEIR LOSS TOO AND MOVE ON?

andromida:
If she did give your brother the money with hopes of marrying her he should just return it instead of going to court. He may not have it all right now but he can spread out the payment over months.

thank you. he also has decided that all the money he gave to her when she said she was broke after their break up he will substrate and give her the balance

shericoco:
thank you. he also has decided that all the money he gave to her when she said she was broke after their break up he will substrate and give her the balance

Hmmmm the 250k was it a lump sum for a specific purpose and the monies he gave her were they to buy stuffs that men buy for women while in a relationship?

shericoco:
she gave him the money according to him not even a loan. no proof or wat so ever. he said they even shared the profit. he doesn't have such money he just wedded

she will lose the case jor, no proof.

mencade4:
NAIJA I TIRE FOR UNA OOOOO


WHEN GUYS SPEND ON LADIES AND THEY SEPARATE LATER, YOU PEOPLE WILL TELL GUYS TO COUNT HIS LOSS AND MOVE ON.

WHEN LADIES SPEND ON GUYS AND THEY LATER SEPARATE,:YOU PEOPLE STILL WANT HIM TO PAY BACK.



WHY CANT THE LADIES COUNT THEIR LOSS TOO AND MOVE ON?

Nna eh, you can say that again.

andromida:


Hmmmm the 250k was it a lump sum for a specific purpose and the monies he gave her were they to buy stuffs that men buy for women while in a relationship?

yes he deals with clothing when the things came in she picked some items for herself. the moni he gave her was about 50k she just said she was broke.

jmoore:


Nna eh, you can say that again.

MY BROTHER.....IT IS ONE OF THE TRICKS OF LADIES.

if your brother loose the case,pm me..make we appeal.why she go collect money from u brother?girls dontwant to spend to guys,so if guys decide to collect6 back money spend on babes...you kasala go gaz

Prixus:

do u think ur brother has been fair to both women? he left his ex cos he saw money, realised it was ill-gotten n is now back to d ex. is that fair? well he deserves more than humiliation to me.

well not that am supporting him. but this lady humiliated his ex and despised her becos the whole family loves the ex and her own relationship with him wasn't approved. he didn't want a relationship with her he took a break with his ex and one was his rebound. the gal took it serious and even proposed to him before he found out about her.

where are the
lawyers in the house.

serves your brother right. let him pay the girl to avoid issues escalating