Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,206,354 members, 7,995,505 topics. Date: Wednesday, 06 November 2024 at 12:42 PM

Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships - Romance (4) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships (52482 Views)

10 Statements Ladies Make To Scare Guys When They Initiate Sex / Reasons Why Ladies Like Sex But Pretend They Hate It In Relationships / Reasons Why Many Guys Insist On Getting Into Ladies' Pants In Relationships (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by emmymdk: 10:20am On Jan 23, 2015
Niwdog:
So true! Nothing pain me pass that their language
Guy:baby please naw
Lady:i say noh
Guy:but why na? U know i love u
Lady:yea i kw. Pleeeaase i want to go(full stop)
Beg frm now til tomorrow you are on your own

lmao! u sabi them well
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by jjk24(m): 10:24am On Jan 23, 2015
cherryice:
and why is sex this overrated in Africa
in africa? Many factors really.. the western world doesn't take sex as serious cus dey do geht it on a regular basis no string/stupid reasoning attached!! Over here.. Girls mentality wen it comes to sex is F_*cked up.. Same can be said bout d guys too.. We both r jst always going @ it d wrong way.. We both want it. hell!. We both need it.. Buh d males jst don't knw hw to play d game!! Dey rush things and take the fun out of it.. Den what's surpose to be pleasure seems like a chore to d girl. #ma2cents

3 Likes

Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by sage2(m): 10:26am On Jan 23, 2015
Bolade005:

Sex with a 3mins guy is definitely overrated but a good sex, sex with a guy that will hump you good for over 40mins/round is not overrated. In fact it's underrated cos only a few guys can achieve that feat. We're endangered species.

I always have to beg my girls for extra time. Second rounds are almost always like a journey. That's is why I stop doing ashes. They always push me down. Then I have to pay another money if I wish to continue or else, make I go use soap finish the rest. I remember one ashe once told me, "tufiakwa, I pity your wife. Small boy like you don dey fucckk like this".

1 Like

Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by nkemdi89(f): 10:31am On Jan 23, 2015
Nigerian guys has made it difficult for most gals to refuse them sex, they even make you realise that without sex it won't work you find out as a virgin you easily break up wit guys for brief especially when he is mounting so much pressure on you to give in, dnt even dare going so intimate wit your guy cos a typical example of your conversation wil be like this(baby let me put only the head na jst the head taa head ko tail ni or you will hear baby let me just rub it therean rub what? Do I produce aboniki).

1 Like

Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 10:33am On Jan 23, 2015
...............
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by maureensylvia(f): 10:35am On Jan 23, 2015
joshuaidibia:
undecided undecided ok,who ask wer u belong?

sad sad Girls,advertising themselves since 1960.

wetin come concern dis slowpoke now? some boys shaa....oforo...
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by AmaechiLinus(m): 10:40am On Jan 23, 2015
Reasonless
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by harry509: 10:42am On Jan 23, 2015
tosyne2much:
My thread comes like the rattle of a gun & it is always based on proper research and sampling. The mentality of an average 9ja boy is that, when a lady claims to love her & refuses to open her legs, then it means she doesn't have a genuine love for him while some quickly conclude that a random guy out there might probably be doing what he's being deprived of

Let's unveil the reasons behind it cool

Just sit down, relax, grab your vaseline, dip your hand into your boxers and start reading the post wink

Let's get to business grin

Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships

1. To Earn Respect
Some ladies will almost make you lie on the floor prostrating to them before they finally give in even when it's printed over their faces that they really want it. They mostly do this because they don't want to be seen cheap by their newly found boyfriends

2. The Fear Of Being Dumped Afterwards
Another reason why ladies withhold sex in relationships is the fear of being dumped. We are now in an era where it's terribly difficult for a lady to know the intentions of her male suitor(s). However, guys of this generation are desperate to get under the pant of a lady. Some can even jeopardise their lives at the expense of getting into a lady's pant. Many guys would pretend & resort to take them for granted after the deed has been done

3. For Personal/Unknown Reasons
It is precisely when you start to expect sex from your girlfriend that she starts using that presumption against you. Some ladies make a habit of withholding sex in their relationships, while some only do it under very specific circumstances to the extent that they purposefully withhold it woman making it hard like OAU Post UME Exam grin

4. She Senses You Wont Take Her To The Altar
Some ladies purposefully make sex be as hard as sending GEJ back to Otu Oke so as to make their boyfriends make promises before they open their legs. However, some ladies want their man to promise them marriage or take them to their parents b4 they open their legs. When no hope is marriage is coming forth, then NO show at all

5. She’s Manipulating You
Another reason ladies withhold sex is to get
something out of you. When no other methods of getting what she wants are working, she might resort to revoking sex privileges until you agree to what she’s after. The easiest way to get around this is to give her what she wants. If that’s not a possibility, you’ll have to appeal to her sense of reason. If that doesn’t work, try giving her something similar to what she wants & if that doesn't work, you might have to wait it out until she comes to her senses. wink

6. Religious Reasons
YES !! Most religions are female-dominated and sex is considered dirty and filthy; an earthly pleasure which is sinful. Many ladies who turn towards religion or spirituality would feel like avoiding sex in a bid to stay pure and evolve spiritually on the path to ascension

7. She's Not Emotionally Attached To You
YES An average naijaboiy wants to get into the pant of her girlfriend even when the emotions are not there. It is that frustrating ?. She could be avoiding sex or making it difficult and get embarrassed by the idea of talking about sex, especially when you are just few weeks into the relationship

8. She’s Cheating
It is a possibility that she's cheating because she’s more interested in having sex with
some other man. If this is the case you have bigger problems than lack of sex in your relationship. If you suspect that she is cheating on you (and you should have more reasons than just a decline in your sex routine), confront her with your suspicions calmly and listen to her explanation. If
you find out she is cheating, you’ll have to decide if you want to work on things or move on playing games

9. You don't treat Her The Way She Ought To Be Treated
If a lady loves you and you treat her the way a good lady deserves to be treated (and she shows the same back to you) sex will never die down. For a lady to allow you get under her pants, she needs to feel that strong emotional bond but when you don't give her the impression that she's a QUEEN, her interest in opening her legs disappear.

10. Abstinence
She might have promised to remain pure for her future husband. Therefore, any opening her legs for you will be the most difficult thing

Source : http://tosyne2much..com

Written By : Tosyne2much
I like 1 tin abt gals grin grin if u can able 2 get on their pants jst 1 or 2 times, nxt time she wil b demandn 4 it. I.e free access 2 guys grin grin
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by adedayourt(m): 10:43am On Jan 23, 2015
When tosyn is xpeting her

Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Evandiv(f): 10:51am On Jan 23, 2015
You are on point. I rep num 5 because luv is the most expensive commodity; only the rich can afford.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by iamord(m): 10:53am On Jan 23, 2015
Niwdog:
So true! Nothing pain me pass that their language
Guy:baby please naw
Lady:i say noh
Guy:but why na? U know i love u
Lady:yea i kw. Pleeeaase i want to go(full stop)
Beg frm now til tomorrow you are on your own
na u wey no set p well, if you will be laid, u will know from the onset
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by maryhaam(f): 10:55am On Jan 23, 2015
Hmmmm sex sha,is it food....*dont quote me
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by dasrackhor(m): 10:56am On Jan 23, 2015
DrWalter:
#RESPECT to my virgin fiancee..if u are reading dis now u are my world grin grin grin
Virgin fiancee wey guyz dey gbola for back abi...Continu

1 Like

Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Evandiv(f): 10:57am On Jan 23, 2015
lion042:
Searching but not desperate grin
hmmmm u may consider me because am available though am quite expensive
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by chukwudubemfelix(m): 11:01am On Jan 23, 2015
Most of all d ladies here chose no 10,and 80 percent of dem have sex evriday even without the guy asking....




Btw...nice write up man..
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Mutuwa(m): 11:02am On Jan 23, 2015
EroticAngelina:
nawa o! undecided
same way its sometimes hard to get money 4rm d guys.
d only thing is dat it took guys a lnger time to wisen up undecided

dnt even think of quoting me typing shiii coz im ready angry

Shiiit! grin
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Evandiv(f): 11:02am On Jan 23, 2015
Mekzmoney:
Super Story...







Wit ur money u can get any f***cking pussy u want.......








She would not only open up 2u buh she would tear dat pant and giv u a full access to heven....






If a woman does nt giv u d access 2enter there, then check ur pocket.



Pretenders.... Its none of my business tho...
lolz... u are right most gals are pretenders
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Mutuwa(m): 11:03am On Jan 23, 2015
maryhaam:
Hmmmm sex sha,is it food....*dont quote me

Which kind food? grin
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by iamord(m): 11:06am On Jan 23, 2015
maryhaam:
Hmmmm sex sha,is it food....*dont quote me

tongue Taaaaa!!
If I hear say I no quote this Chic










Presses Quote button.....










is typing a message









.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by tosyne2much(m): 11:06am On Jan 23, 2015
Fabdedon:
hehehehe so what are you trying to say.. nairalanders no de use eye see where de type pant? smiley sha its true grin
hahahaha lwkmd grin
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by maryhaam(f): 11:08am On Jan 23, 2015
Mutuwa:


Which kind food? grin
u shuld tell me
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by iamord(m): 11:09am On Jan 23, 2015
Evandiv:
hmmmm u may consider me because am available though am quite expensive
how much is quite expensive
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by tosyne2much(m): 11:10am On Jan 23, 2015
hotgunz:
@Tosyne do u masturbate? If u do good for u stop ds ur Vaseline tinz it suck and doesn't freak me to read ur post... VASELINE KO ABOKINA BALM NI.
hahahahaha grin
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Evandiv(f): 11:12am On Jan 23, 2015
Mutuwa:


Which kind food? grin
dönt mind the pretender ... As if she is a virgin
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Mutuwa(m): 11:15am On Jan 23, 2015
Evandiv:
dönt mind the pretender ... As if she is a virgin

Waiiii..its like you have 1st hand evidence she'z not.
No be small thing b dt.. grin
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by maryhaam(f): 11:16am On Jan 23, 2015
iamord:


tongue Taaaaa!!
If I hear say I no quote this Chic










Presses Quote button.....










is typing a message









.
looool
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by klodike(m): 11:16am On Jan 23, 2015
Would you marry me
maureensylvia:




not for sale


i belong to no 10
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by iamord(m): 11:17am On Jan 23, 2015
nkemdi89:
Nigerian guys has made it difficult for most gals to refuse them sex, they even make you realise that without sex it won't work you find out as a virgin you easily break up wit guys for brief especially when he is mounting so much pressure on you to give in, dnt even dare going so intimate wit your guy cos a typical example of your conversation wil be like this(baby let me put only the head na jst the head taa head ko tail ni or you will hear baby let me just rub it therean rub what? Do I produce aboniki).
hehehe grin is all about mind games!!
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by tosyne2much(m): 11:18am On Jan 23, 2015
Homguy:
you should be busy researching money dude. too much time with nothing to do :-/
Who is this bush man ?

Your comment reek of joblessness.. Employed people don't brag with their employment and they don't refer to others as being jobless
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by iamord(m): 11:19am On Jan 23, 2015
jjk24:
in africa? Many factors really.. the western world doesn't take sex as serious cus dey do geht it on a regular basis no string/stupid reasoning attached!! Over here.. Girls mentality wen it comes to sex is F_*cked up.. Same can be said bout d guys too.. We both r jst always going @ it d wrong way.. We both want it. hell!. We both need it.. Buh d males jst don't knw hw to play d game!! Dey rush things and take the fun out of it.. Den what's surpose to be pleasure seems like a chore to d girl. #ma2cents
#word
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by iamord(m): 11:22am On Jan 23, 2015
maryhaam:
looool
hehehe! I have quoted you! Yet to see your worse
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by iamord(m): 11:24am On Jan 23, 2015
maureensylvia:




not for sale


i belong to no 10
at least we can sit down on a round table and discuss grin

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (Reply)

Nigerian Lady Gifts Her Husband A PS4 After He Tweeted About Wanting It (photos) / Does Being Muscular Really Attract Ladies To A Man? / How My Girlfriend's Birthday Turned Out To Be My Worst Day(photo)

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 45
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.