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Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by maureensylvia(f): 2:38pm On Jan 23, 2015
uncle005:
because i just red your drivel.


lolz bekee wu agbara. boy burn ur certificate and go back to school...if at all u have a cert
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Orikinla(m): 2:40pm On Jan 23, 2015
FredHandsome:

This is deep shocked

It is a good advice to think deep (in Kanu Nwankwo's voice) before you leap. grin
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by UGLYS: 2:47pm On Jan 23, 2015
skywalker888:
I rep num 10

Hhmmmm Tosyne exposing our secrets since the time of Adam and Eve. Let's see how this goes

These aint no secrets, an average guy knows these, just that he took his time to put it on NL.

Tosyne compile all of these, make it marketable, and generate revenue else ....
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by toniaangel(f): 2:53pm On Jan 23, 2015
Hahahahaha I laf in igbo language
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jan 23, 2015
.......team #6.....
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by theboydisharp007(m): 3:23pm On Jan 23, 2015
don't really see why I should beg a lady for sex.....its not as if it's a one-way thing because they enjoy it as much as men.
heck...she should be grateful I'm applying my world-class skills to get her to cloud nine. ..beg ke.

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Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Evandiv(f): 3:58pm On Jan 23, 2015
iamord:
how much is quite expensive
not too expensive any way, u can afford it but hmmmm the size of ur joystick matters in my relationship. I need it damn big... Lolz
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by sussanchims2013: 3:59pm On Jan 23, 2015
Beautyful guy ur smart!!what baffles is that men don't respect the opinion of their gf when it comes to sex.the gul might have entered into convenant with God that tthey will keep themself until they say I do.or guy don't u understand the bible that said BED undefiled?sex is not a true demostration of love.love is a thing of the heart.thank u
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Evandiv(f): 4:02pm On Jan 23, 2015
Mutuwa:


Waiiii..its like you have 1st hand evidence she'z not.
No be small thing b dt.. grin
trust me i do.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Bolade005: 4:06pm On Jan 23, 2015
sage2:


I always have to beg my girls for extra time. Second rounds are almost always like a journey. That's is why I stop doing ashes. They always push me down. Then I have to pay another money if I wish to continue or else, make I go use soap finish the rest. I remember one ashe once told me, "tufiakwa, I pity your wife. Small boy like you don dey fucckk like this".
LMFAO badt guy.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by 2SWT(f): 4:11pm On Jan 23, 2015
sage2:


Fuccking women real hard over an extended period of time gives one a whole knowledge of their behavior and tactics.
Lol




tosyne2much is a virgin bro
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by cronsberg: 4:13pm On Jan 23, 2015
Girls are the stingiest and greediest living things i know, they want a commitment from you, yet they ain't willing to open legs, they want you to be an ATM machine/ their father, yet no to open legs. Just few weeks ago, i toasted one babe like that, told her am attracted to her, apperently she was attracted to me too, after some few days i attempted intimacy, only for that babe to say she hates it, that she can never be intimate in a relationship, like WHAT THA PH.UCK? what the hell are we doing in a "relationship" then, just talking? HELL NO, i have hundreds of friends that i can talk to. Honestly thats why i like bad girl(smokes, drinks e.t.c) they seem hotter, and won't waste your goddam time playing hard to get. They are great lays and awesome conversationists. #badgirlsforthewin cool
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 4:45pm On Jan 23, 2015
smiley hmmm
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by wildikeman(m): 4:52pm On Jan 23, 2015
tosyne2much:
My thread comes like the rattle of a gun & it is always based on proper research and sampling. The mentality of an average 9ja boy is that, when a lady claims to love her & refuses to open her legs, then it means she doesn't have a genuine love for him while some quickly conclude that a random guy out there might probably be doing what he's being deprived of

Let's unveil the reasons behind it cool

Just sit down, relax, grab your vaseline, dip your hand into your boxers and start reading the post wink

Let's get to business grin

Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships

1. To Earn Respect
Some ladies will almost make you lie on the floor prostrating to them before they finally give in even when it's printed over their faces that they really want it. They mostly do this because they don't want to be seen cheap by their newly found boyfriends

2. The Fear Of Being Dumped Afterwards
Another reason why ladies withhold sex in relationships is the fear of being dumped. We are now in an era where it's terribly difficult for a lady to know the intentions of her male suitor(s). However, guys of this generation are desperate to get under the pant of a lady. Some can even jeopardise their lives at the expense of getting into a lady's pant. Many guys would pretend & resort to take them for granted after the deed has been done

3. For Personal/Unknown Reasons
It is precisely when you start to expect sex from your girlfriend that she starts using that presumption against you. Some ladies make a habit of withholding sex in their relationships, while some only do it under very specific circumstances to the extent that they purposefully withhold it woman making it hard like OAU Post UME Exam grin

4. She Senses You Wont Take Her To The Altar
Some ladies purposefully make sex be as hard as sending GEJ back to Otu Oke so as to make their boyfriends make promises before they open their legs. However, some ladies want their man to promise them marriage or take them to their parents b4 they open their legs. When no hope is marriage is coming forth, then NO show at all

5. She’s Manipulating You
Another reason ladies withhold sex is to get
something out of you. When no other methods of getting what she wants are working, she might resort to revoking sex privileges until you agree to what she’s after. The easiest way to get around this is to give her what she wants. If that’s not a possibility, you’ll have to appeal to her sense of reason. If that doesn’t work, try giving her something similar to what she wants & if that doesn't work, you might have to wait it out until she comes to her senses. wink

6. Religious Reasons
YES !! Most religions are female-dominated and sex is considered dirty and filthy; an earthly pleasure which is sinful. Many ladies who turn towards religion or spirituality would feel like avoiding sex in a bid to stay pure and evolve spiritually on the path to ascension

7. She's Not Emotionally Attached To You
YES An average naijaboiy wants to get into the pant of her girlfriend even when the emotions are not there. It is that frustrating ?. She could be avoiding sex or making it difficult and get embarrassed by the idea of talking about sex, especially when you are just few weeks into the relationship

8. She’s Cheating
It is a possibility that she's cheating because she’s more interested in having sex with
some other man. If this is the case you have bigger problems than lack of sex in your relationship. If you suspect that she is cheating on you (and you should have more reasons than just a decline in your sex routine), confront her with your suspicions calmly and listen to her explanation. If
you find out she is cheating, you’ll have to decide if you want to work on things or move on playing games

9. You don't treat Her The Way She Ought To Be Treated
If a lady loves you and you treat her the way a good lady deserves to be treated (and she shows the same back to you) sex will never die down. For a lady to allow you get under her pants, she needs to feel that strong emotional bond but when you don't give her the impression that she's a QUEEN, her interest in opening her legs disappear.

10. Abstinence
She might have promised to remain pure for her future husband. Therefore, any opening her legs for you will be the most difficult thing

Source : http://tosyne2much..com

Written By : Tosyne2much
okay nice post but not enough reason to take vaseline to start jerking off to.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by twerkjack: 4:55pm On Jan 23, 2015
tosyne2much:
My thread comes like the rattle of a gun & it is always based on proper research and sampling. The mentality of an average 9ja boy is that, when a lady claims to love her & refuses to open her legs, then it means she doesn't have a genuine love for him while some quickly conclude that a random guy out there might probably be doing what he's being deprived of

Let's unveil the reasons behind it cool

Just sit down, relax, grab your vaseline, dip your hand into your boxers and start reading the post wink

Let's get to business grin

Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships

1. To Earn Respect
Some ladies will almost make you lie on the floor prostrating to them before they finally give in even when it's printed over their faces that they really want it. They mostly do this because they don't want to be seen cheap by their newly found boyfriends

2. The Fear Of Being Dumped Afterwards
Another reason why ladies withhold sex in relationships is the fear of being dumped. We are now in an era where it's terribly difficult for a lady to know the intentions of her male suitor(s). However, guys of this generation are desperate to get under the pant of a lady. Some can even jeopardise their lives at the expense of getting into a lady's pant. Many guys would pretend & resort to take them for granted after the deed has been done

3. For Personal/Unknown Reasons
It is precisely when you start to expect sex from your girlfriend that she starts using that presumption against you. Some ladies make a habit of withholding sex in their relationships, while some only do it under very specific circumstances to the extent that they purposefully withhold it woman making it hard like OAU Post UME Exam grin

4. She Senses You Wont Take Her To The Altar
Some ladies purposefully make sex be as hard as sending GEJ back to Otu Oke so as to make their boyfriends make promises before they open their legs. However, some ladies want their man to promise them marriage or take them to their parents b4 they open their legs. When no hope is marriage is coming forth, then NO show at all

5. She’s Manipulating You
Another reason ladies withhold sex is to get
something out of you. When no other methods of getting what she wants are working, she might resort to revoking sex privileges until you agree to what she’s after. The easiest way to get around this is to give her what she wants. If that’s not a possibility, you’ll have to appeal to her sense of reason. If that doesn’t work, try giving her something similar to what she wants & if that doesn't work, you might have to wait it out until she comes to her senses. wink

6. Religious Reasons
YES !! Most religions are female-dominated and sex is considered dirty and filthy; an earthly pleasure which is sinful. Many ladies who turn towards religion or spirituality would feel like avoiding sex in a bid to stay pure and evolve spiritually on the path to ascension

7. She's Not Emotionally Attached To You
YES An average naijaboiy wants to get into the pant of her girlfriend even when the emotions are not there. It is that frustrating ?. She could be avoiding sex or making it difficult and get embarrassed by the idea of talking about sex, especially when you are just few weeks into the relationship

8. She’s Cheating
It is a possibility that she's cheating because she’s more interested in having sex with
some other man. If this is the case you have bigger problems than lack of sex in your relationship. If you suspect that she is cheating on you (and you should have more reasons than just a decline in your sex routine), confront her with your suspicions calmly and listen to her explanation. If
you find out she is cheating, you’ll have to decide if you want to work on things or move on playing games

9. You don't treat Her The Way She Ought To Be Treated
If a lady loves you and you treat her the way a good lady deserves to be treated (and she shows the same back to you) sex will never die down. For a lady to allow you get under her pants, she needs to feel that strong emotional bond but when you don't give her the impression that she's a QUEEN, her interest in opening her legs disappear.

10. Abstinence
She might have promised to remain pure for her future husband. Therefore, any opening her legs for you will be the most difficult thing

Source : http://tosyne2much..com

Written By : Tosyne2much
IM BEGINNING TO LIKE THIS GUY.......NEVER TOT PPL AS SENSIBLE AS THIS EXIST IN NL...........CLEAN POST WITH NO SENTIMENT......THUMB UP grin
@POST ITS ALLLLLLLLL TRUE wink
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by wildikeman(m): 4:55pm On Jan 23, 2015
DrWalter:
#RESPECT to my virgin fiancee..if u are reading dis now u are my world grin grin grin
I don tidy ur fiance for u.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by wildikeman(m): 4:58pm On Jan 23, 2015
Adaeze003:
Oga... u no dey tire?
have u done any of the above
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by tosyne2much(m): 5:00pm On Jan 23, 2015
2SWT:
Lol




tosyne2much is a virgin bro
hehehehehehehe !!!
grin
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by naijaboiy: 5:05pm On Jan 23, 2015
twerkjack:
IM BEGINNING TO LIKE THIS GUY.......NEVER TOT PPL AS SENSIBLE AS THIS EXIST IN NL...........CLEAN POST WITH NO SENTIMENT......THUMB UP grin
@POST ITS ALLLLLLLLL TRUE wink
Na why you quote the whole post
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Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by tosyne2much(m): 5:07pm On Jan 23, 2015
twerkjack:
IM BEGINNING TO LIKE THIS GUY.......NEVER TOT PPL AS SENSIBLE AS THIS EXIST IN NL...........CLEAN POST WITH NO SENTIMENT......THUMB UP grin
@POST ITS ALLLLLLLLL TRUE wink
Thanks miss grin
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by tosyne2much(m): 5:09pm On Jan 23, 2015
wildikeman:
okay nice post but not enough reason to take vaseline to start jerking off to.
Just used it to spice up the thread grin
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by eminent007(m): 5:16pm On Jan 23, 2015
Empero1:

Every woman has a price tag , not necessarily money-wise . So , the very moment you discovered her immediate longing and solve the problem , automatically she will hand you over the key to unlock every lockable thing in her .



That just about sums up everything.
Ha!!! the pleasure of holding the key to every lockable in a lady.
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jan 23, 2015
Lies from the pit of hell. Naija ladies will sleep with anything if she stands to earn something. If they are scared, why do they cry fowl of being used and dumped? They act innocent only to broke guys or those they don't like. If she likes u or stand the chance of earning something she won't just sleep with you or ur dog or monkey but ask if you are satisfied.

Runs outta thread before dem girls...
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by stan241(m): 5:24pm On Jan 23, 2015
Sex is a two way thing...most of the ladies I've come across do it out of "love" and that's the truth once u tell/show them u really care sex usually doesn't even end up being an issue and yes there are girls out dere who just want to get laid
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Mutuwa(m): 7:27pm On Jan 23, 2015
Evandiv:
trust me i do.

I bow!
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Fourwinds: 7:55pm On Jan 23, 2015
cutieberie1:
it's not adviseable for ladies.....everyone sud wait until they are married
can dey wait? Even right from teen age d thing dey worry dem well well
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by emmaginator: 7:57pm On Jan 23, 2015
guys ma get problem
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Nobody: 8:18pm On Jan 23, 2015
Desperation: Show a babe that u are desperate and forget it
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by kossydiba(m): 11:29pm On Jan 23, 2015
prettyjo:
**spreads mat quickly**
sits and starts reading comments
abeg shift jor. I wan peep small
Re: Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships by Hamatrony(m): 12:44am On Jan 24, 2015
maureensylvia:




not for sale


i belong to no 10
;DFunny, wat wil u claim b4, we don't expect u 2 say "not for rent. I belong to no 8 naa" undecided
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