Chillisauce:
Thats Nigerian Men for you. Most of them are working because of their children. The wives are just used for breeding purpose. After breeding, they can decide to chase you out, take the kids and bring over another.

Meanwhile during the breeding exercise, your job function is to eat, cook , clean and breed more.

Tufiaaaakwa.

Some of them are closet gay, only to closeeye, give woman belle, then continue their run away match.

Na you sabi.

Imagine, very insensitive.

Tufiakwa i say again

Tstone1:

But that doesn't mean a wife making claims that the husband is working for her! It sounds somehow you know. Meanwhile a woman would always be a woman..i still feel the children deserves it more.

Chillisauce:


of cos, the children deserves more. What is she again. A wife, to breed. Her job is to have kids , and clean up after you.

You are right, she deserves nothing.

No wonder when some men die, their extended family end up using their children as slaves, because you never invested in your wife. Her only job like i said is to breed.

zeb04:
Hahahahaha.
My dad will always say*my wife ist oh...back in the days,my mum was like the jesus" anything you want from my dad has to be accepted, sealed and stamped by momma.infact chillisauce profile best describe my post

Anyways op why should you feel bad when you just said the truth on your mind or do you feel guilty?

Chillisauce:


Very insensitive i tell you. Someone like this, if madam for instance doesnt get pregnant fast, she might take the back door to catch the belly. after all, his "kids" are more important.

zeb04:
Hahahahaha.
My dad will always say*my wife ist oh...back in the days,my mum was like the jesus" anything you want from my dad has to be accepted, sealed and stamped by momma.infact chillisauce profile best describe my post

Anyways op why should you feel bad when you just said the truth on your mind or do you feel guilty?

crackhaus:
Women!

When you tell them they don't like hearing the truth, they think you're just talking - if your husband is working hard for you, at what point does your 'independent, powerful and modern black woman' chant come into play?

Not saying a woman shouldn't expect to be treated to the good things, but getting angry because a husband says he doesn't work for you is just hilarious.

I'm not surprised anyway, there are women who believe in:
My husband's money is our money, while my money is my money - selfish entitled fvcks

SirShymex:
Who else should a guy work for apart from himself and his children (born and unborn)? - err, if he's one who cares about his community/race, you can add that to the equation.

If you decide to work hard for women, you'll go bankrupt and/or end up broken cos you can never please them. Get ya own shiit.

crackhaus:
Women!

1. When you tell them they don't like hearing the truth, they think you're just talking - if your husband is working hard for you, at what point does your 'independent, powerful and modern black woman' chant come into play?

2. Not saying a woman shouldn't expect to be treated to the good things, but getting angry because a husband says he doesn't work for you is just hilarious.

3. I'm not surprised anyway, there are women who believe in:
My husband's money is our money, while my money is my money - selfish entitled fvcks

Timbuktou:


1. Nna, no such thing exists.

2. Womanology.

3. This is all women, not some, all.

Remember that little talk we had on women and logic? Let that guide your interaction with them.

Tstone1:
Earlier today an argument ensued between my woman and myself about how workaholic I have become in recent times. She later joked about me being serious with my job cos am working cos of her. I told her NO! And to her greatest surprised I let her know am working for the sakes of my children unborn not necessarily her. She became very angry and said she was highly disappointed by my statement.

I felt this shouldn't be an issue as have only spoken my mind. Your take on this please..

Timbuktou:


1. Nna, no such thing exists.

2. Womanology.

3. This is all women, not some, all.

Remember that little talk we had on women and logic? Let that guide your interaction with them.

Tstone1:

But that doesn't mean a wife making claims that the husband is working for her! It sounds somehow you know. Meanwhile a woman would always be a woman..i still feel the children deserves it more.

crackhaus:

1. That was the point, you didn't see the sarcasm? - independent, powerful, and modern black woman does not exist in marriage obviously.

2. Indeed.

3. Lmao...your funeral bro.
I just wanted to create an avenue for exceptions to those that blow gaskets at any generalization.

Timbuktou:
Lol. Imma lie down to dodge stray bullets. I should be ok.

Seun:

1. It's also a wake up call for your wife.
2. She needs to work hard to make her own money
3. since her husband isn't working for her but his children. 4. She shouldn't sacrifice or limit her career for such a man. 5. Also, pls learn not to say every stupid thing that passes through your mind!