I need your opinion guys on this scenario. You are dating a girl and you proposed to marry her in June which she agreed. In august, you went for introduction, paid the bride and fullfill all that is required. the parents accepted you and you all agreed on the date for the marriage which will be in December. The question now is, is the girl married or not? If another guy happens to meet this lady in October and he has interest in her,will it be right to tell him she is married or not? Then again, if u said she is married but a situation comes that the marriage is cancelled in November, will it mean that she has been divorced? Remember also, the bible did not state that a pastor must ordained a man and woman in church before the are married.... What's your take on this

praxs:
In august, you went for introduction, paid the bride and fullfill all that is required

End of quote

Marriage has finished
Any other thing na fanfare

chidyhels:

End of quote

Marriage has finished
Any other thing na fanfare

will you then call it divorce if the marriage shwould be cancelled in November?

She is married shikena.

Herzumpther:
She is married shikena.

Good morning hon'

Odillz:

Good morning hon'

Good morning dear. Hope you are feeling better now?

Do u want to say she is engaged? No she is married bt is nt done yet as our culture requires too many things before it can be pronounced official marriage. If she meets another guy she is supposed she can still give u yo bride price back, it is not divorce bt it is not keeping to her end of the promise

Yes, she is very married , as the fulfilment of traditional wedding rites is the hallmark of African marriage.

The wedding at Cana was cultural. Church wedding is western culture, but still not wrong.

Separation in November is divorce, and bride price must be returned to make it authentic.

But OP...this kain question you are asking: another man, divorce....there are 2 things involved .

But....

Yes, she's married! The problem overtime has been the 'white wedding' which most people feel they must observe before being termed 'married'. Once the bride price is paid and the traditional rites have been performed, the white/church wedding is just another means of saying "people, come and see ooo; again, we say we're married."

By tradition, you are and if such man falls short of financing a white wedding, tell me, wouldn't he just take the woman to the registry and 'finalize' the agreement?

Herzumpther:
Good morning dear. Hope you are feeling better now?

Yea.thanks
I just need to talk to you.
But when we see.

Odillz:

Yea.thanks
I just need to talk to you.
But when we see.

How about weekend?

praxs:
I need your opinion guys on this scenario. You are dating a girl and you proposed to marry her in June which she agreed. In august, you went for introduction, paid the bride and fullfill all that is required. the parents accepted you and you all agreed on the date for the marriage which will be in December. The question now is, is the girl married or not? If another guy happens to meet this lady in October and he has interest in her,will it be right to tell him she is married or not? Then again, if u said she is married but a situation comes that the marriage is cancelled in November, will it mean that she has been divorced? Remember also, the bible did not state that a pastor must ordained a man and woman in church before the are married.... What's your take on this

Helo. I think married people have more experience in answering this question. I want to post your question on our facebook page, for more responses. On facebook search for Nigerian Papalette. But i need your permission first. Thanks.

She's married, all others are ceremony.

Sweetmarriage:


Helo. I think married people have more experience in answering this question. I want to post your question on our facebook page, for more responses. On facebook search for Nigerian Papalette. But i need your permission first. Thanks.

. Permission granted

No she is not! You only paid the "bride" and not her "bride price" you may still have to return to her parents with the "price".

#kidding

Good morning

passage of goods has passed from the seller to the buyer and therefore ownership has taken place(payment of bride price)
she`s married in that case and if the marriage is canceled it means you are divorcing her...

Herzumpther:
How about weekend?

Feb 8 would be perfect.

Odillz:

Feb 8 would be perfect.

OK dear.

Herzumpther:
OK dear.

What's your best color?

Odillz:

What's your best color?

Hmmmm my love I'm addicted to white o. What's yours?

BTW won't you see me on my birthday too

Herzumpther:
Hmmmm my love I'm addicted to white o. What's yours?

BTW won't you see me on my birthday too

I would love to buh work
but I would make up for it on 8th

Odillz:

I would love to buh work
but I would make up for it on 8th

OK.
You swim?

Herzumpther:
OK.
You swim?

I drown

Odillz:

I drown

I'm gonna drown you on 8 then lol.

She's married ooooo