Ever dated someone who calls you a lot like hell just to “check” on you or who expects you to use 24 hours to chat with them or who even asks you “Are you sure the contact you saved with ‘Mom’ is really your mum?” Then you just might have started smiling and shaking your head now cos you’ve gotten the drift.


Obsessive spouses are those who bring in the insecurities and trust issues of their previous relationships into the present one just because they can’t let it go and why they can’t let it go is because they are yet to forgive either the ex who hurt them and broke their heart and themselves (Yes!... Themselves cos they see themselves as fools in love who let their guard down, only for them to be left heartbroken.) They love with all their heart and break ups are a just a step away from death to them.

Most times, females are found in these category than males and the reason is simple- Females have more fragile hearts and when it comes to relationship issues, they gladly put everything into it, from their limbs to their internal organs so you can imagine how it would feel to get disappointed.
Obsessive Spouses (I mean after becoming obsessive) tend to subconsciously choke the life out of any relationship they get into by being too pushy, over-protective, suspicious and monitoring. They can ask silly questions like “It normally takes you 15minutes to drive home from work and I spoke with Anita who told me the road was free today. It took you twenty-five minutes today. Who is she?!”
I really don’t want to imagine your response if your gf/wife asks you this type of question but without any room for digression, she definitely is an obsessive lover, and their type can be extremely annoying.

The sorry thing about any obsessive lover is that there’s little you can help them with since only them can help themselves out of the ditch of letting the past be the past and coming out of their jail of unforgiveness and most importantly, making peace with themselves because until they make that ‘sacrifice’ they have very little chance of having a fluent and successful relationship. It’s only a matter of time before they push their partner to his/her toleration elastic limit and once their partners snap!, it’s another ex on the seemingly unending ex list.

Let us pause for a minute to help those who aren’t really sure if they are obsessive lovers or not by taking this questionnaire from Times of India. Answer the questions honestly and check your result below the questions.
Here:
There are several types relationships around us. However, one of the most harmful relationships is being in an obsessive one.

Take this quiz to know if you are an obsessive partner.

Read on: http://www.maturemindstalk.com/2015/01/obsessive-spouses.html

hmmmmmmmmmm nice one.

At times it pays to be single

alberto2k:

yes ooooooo big fan of freedom.
sometimes too you feel lonely and unloved

AyokunleRuth:

yes ooooooo big fan of freedom.
sometimes too you feel lonely and unloved

Oya lemme love u nah and lemme be the one by your side

alberto2k:

Oya lemme love u nah and lemme be the one by your side

Dude....
Your game is wack.

demelza:
Dude....
Your game is wack.

And who said am trying to do what u're thinking


Me just having fun jawe, if u're pained.. Biko logout and take a Nap

alberto2k:

Oya lemme love u nah and lemme be the one by your side

alberto2k:


And who said am trying to do what u're thinking


Me just having fun jawe, if u're pained.. Biko logout and take a Nap

chai alberto you for offer him weed now before sending hiim away.
what did i tell u about HOSPITALITY

AyokunleRuth:

chai alberto you for offer him weed now before sending hiim away.
what did i tell u about HOSPITALITY

After him/she insult me, u wan make I give am the last wrap of weed way I smuggle frm Ojuelegba?

Ifaa hear

Weed ko whiskey ni

alberto2k:

After him/she insult me, u wan make I give am the last wrap of weed way I smuggle frm Ojuelegba?

Ifaa hear

Weed ko whiskey ni

try to be nice next time

AyokunleRuth:


try to be nice next time

Yes ma'am I will

That's if there will be another "Next time"

alberto2k:


Yes ma'am I will

That's if there will be another "Next time"

alberto2k:


And who said am trying to do what u're thinking


Me just having fun jawe, if u're pained.. Biko logout and take a Nap

Why should I be pained?

demelza:
Why should I be pained?

Someone asked me to be Nice "next time"

So, I'll just say>

Have a lovely afternoon

alberto2k:


Someone asked me to be Nice "next time"

So, I'll just say>

Have a lovely afternoon

Wow!
Never knew you were throwing jabs.
Lame ass

demelza:
Wow!
Never knew you were throwing jabs.
Lame ass

Gracias merci