DISCLAIMER: Forgive me ahead... I'm speaking as it is in my head . I AM NOT GENERALIZING...


So, I choose to give reasons why you will see a grown up man in his forties still single.

Don't give me the money excuse crap... No matter how broke you are, your size dey market...

They're very poor couples enjoying life here in PH and other big cities in Nigeria...

So your size exist unless your problem is any of these NINE CRUCIAL points Most Nigerian Men Don't Get Married.


Follow me closely . Most Nigerian Men Are...



1. Too Choosy (Highly Selective)


It will amaze you but it's true. He wants a girl with the perfect butt, eyes, nose, teeth etc. Anyone not meeting his expectations, he uses and dumps!


2. Too Promiscuous


Searching for male virgin is like searching for diamonds: they exist though. This is because the average Nigerian man has the "side chick". He feels safer that way


3. Too Proud (Egoistic)

Marriage humbles any body! Most men don't want that so they remain single. It takes normal humility to carry your wife's bag or even help her do some chores. An humble man doesn't reply to all his wife says. He takes them with a pinch of salt.


4. Too Indecisive

Today, he says he wants to marry from East, tomorrow from South South. Today he wants to marry this year, tomorrow he postpones it until the girl leaves his life...time dey go



5. Too Over demanding


He wants everything to be done his way- from her looks to how she eats... That's horrible! Feature of a tyrant.


6. Too Mean


They've been dating only for a year and he has hit her 10 times. He talks to her as if they're in a battle! Haba!


7. Too Insensitive ( Not thoughtful)

You forgot her birthday and other days that means a lot to her. She is in pain and you're still demanding for sex. Some men sha...


8. Too busy making money

Many manchellors are so because of this.

Many guys in their 30's are so money driven that they have forgotten they need a wife. They are still after "hookers" and small girls. Hmm!



9. Too stingy


Some one said: You can give without loving but you can't love without giving.

Those guys asking questions about giving to their girls- Hope this helps. No girl will and forever will marry a stingy guy!
I'm not saying you should give to every girl but the one you claim to like. No naa!



This is a counter thread...

Guys, take it light enh...

10. Too scared
heard about the unpleasant experiences of some guys and does not want the same to happen to him
11. Too carefree
He believes whatever ll happen ll happen at its own time

No more freedom
They believe as soon as they get married, no more late night and the free will of carrying olosho's ends!

They choose not to marry. Their destiny lies in their hands.

12. some belong to a cult

naijaboiy:
Chai..this guy don switch from woman to man o

Well make I book this space first.

I dey come

My oga

They are getting wiser by the day. Why get married just for the so called wifey to still sleep with her "ex" and many others....

Too scared of commitment...

I rep No. 1, but I don't use and dump

Deejavuu:
Too scared of commitment...

We ain't scared of commitment, we are scared of what the modern day woman turn to after marriage

But how can we stop being promiscuous , ladies of this days are so seductive and titilatting

Pretty shitty discourse


A nigga that wanna get married will get married, there are so many fishes out there

jmoore:
They choose not to marry. Their destiny lies in their hands.

As in eh

yemicoal:
But how can we stop being promiscuous , ladies of this days are so seductive and titilatting

LoL

Most Nigerian Men? Who tell you that one?

Boy you're talking hye
FP

ArchEnemy:
10. Too scared
heard about the unpleasant experiences of some guys and does not want the same to happen to him
11. Too carefree
He believes whatever ll happen ll happen at its own time

Nice points there...

ArchEnemy:
10. Too scared
heard about the unpleasant experiences of some guys and does not want the same to happen to him

True... Like what happened when a husband found out that the wife's"brother" was actually his wife boyfriend... And that boyfriend has been staying in his house for the past four years.. The wife brought him in four months after they got married, the mother of the wife even vouched for him.. The man locked up the boyfriend when he caught them fighting on his matrimonial bed... This happened in PH, Okporo police station.. I fear women die

ArchEnemy:

11. Too carefree
He believes whatever ll happen ll happen at its own time

True... I can be 40 and still get a child of my own, I don't neccessarily have to get married first before having a child... Girls will say "what about companionship?", to hell with that, some companions will take you to an early grave

My bros, I dey feel ur ministry ooooo.. I still dey take tutorials from you oooo..

I agree!

They dont want us to tie them down and distract them from getting richer

naijaboiy:

You don create counter thread for the women them.

But guys no go bash this thread like the women dey do for that side.

That's why we are different

Na why we different... dem no go bash at all...

tosyne2much:
My bros, I dey feel ur ministry ooooo.. I still dey take tutorials from you oooo..

Who am I? ... Oga mi

8. Too busy making money
The banquet is made for pleasure, and
wine makes merry; but money answers all
things.

naijaboiy:

My brother

loool... Them suppose dey applaud us, being promiscuous mean say we dey notice them

yemicoal:
loool... Them suppose dey applaud us, being promiscuous mean say we dey notice them

hmm

google1:
8. Too busy making money
The banquet is made for pleasure, and
wine makes merry; but money answers all
things.

na dat one common pass

Hmmmmmmm, nyc one emusmith oga boss. So we're do u fall in d list.