[b]In as much as mistakes are inevitable in everyday life, some mistakes can be avoided spontaneously or mistakes can be made perpetually , as it is common said a friend at hand is better than a brother abroad, it is common knowledge that you can't know someone completely but how you begin matters alot especially if you met online, here are some common mistakes made by both sexes in the cause of interaction


1. Acting too cold Ladies acting too cold and uninterested during first chat kills the zeal and interest of well meaning guys towards them. Dear ladies, learn to be free with a guy & be lively, stop acting as if you just came out from a cold room,or your in a sober period or someone gonna die if you act lively

2. Replying with code words Replying with one letter words like- k, gud, hw, wen, fyn, etc...this is a crime to human communication; no matter your gender & who u are chatting with, learn to stop it. (later if you fail exams now you go begin blame one spirit wey no the exist)

3. Asking for picture too soon - guys are fond of this bad habit of asking a lady they met online for her pics you be graphic designer? even on their first day of chat; please guys stop it! Get to know her first & see beyond her. Physical looks. Let me put it to you "THE LOVE OF BEAUTY iS THE ROLL OF DICE " implying when casting a dice you may get a very wrong number when you targeting a bigger number

4. Asking what he does for a living: this is a big crime our ladies commit! Yes, its good to know what he does for a living but this usually send wrong signal to a guy with good intentions towards you, so avoid it and gradually get to know him & not just what he does & how much he earns.you need to look beyond his pocket to get the best out of a man.

5. Sex chat: many guys today are so fond of this nonsense, guys please grow up! Even if u must sex chat with her, pls knw her first & make sure u two are into each other, stop being in a haste! Besides self what the fun in sex chat? You wan stain your boxers abi? Pity your boxers if you no pity yourself abeg

6. Begging for gifts Begging for recharge card, gift, BIS, other favours- this is bad for anyone to do, please stop it! why beg for an inch when you can have it all, ladies trade with caution, na from Waka person the see Race

7. Late responses: nothing kills a guy's interest in a lady he met online like late responses & busy-forming attitude, makes the guy feel u don't take him serious or that u have plenty male admirers keeping u busy! If your really that busy why no contest for presidency so it will be obvious stop it

8. Being too rigid! Never say never! That guy or lady u met online today & feel he's nobody or that she's ugly...or that he has nothing to offer for u may be your true partner in making. Many single ladies & guys have lost their true partners out of being too rigid and principled. Sometimes, play fool & see what nature/life has in store for you!

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true points. especially the picture thing.

You are right with most of ur points.....thumbs up

Lies

Hmmm!!!

ggrin:
Lies

u dz woman ah! y always u na?

hmmmm op you really tried#nice points guys of nowadays too like sex chat.

ggrin:
Lies

whch of dem is d lie?

kaybiel2u:
many of ur points point at me cos i normally do dose tins u mentioned.

u need to retrace your steps den

prettythicksme:
hmmmm op you really tried#nice points guys of nowadays too like sex chat.

no worry, dia tin go break 1 day b dt

harrysterol:
u need to retrace your steps den

with my attitude could u believe there is a gal who is stupidly in lov me? i wnda hw dt cld b, mayb na my voice she fell 4

krall:
true points. especially the picture thing.

am always talking the truth

kaybiel2u:
with my attitude could u believe there is a gal who is stupidly in lov me? i wnda hw dt cld b, mayb na my voice she fell 4

very possible the very reason I hardly call babes d so much like d voice, according to dem it sounds babyish

prettythicksme:
hmmmm op you really tried#nice points guys of nowadays too like sex chat.

there are some ladies dt lov sexchat dan guys o i av seen dem wel wel

harrysterol:
very possible the very reason I hardly call babes d so much like d voice, according to dem it sounds babyish

in dt regard wat could one do? to pretend to b in lov wit her or to fal in lov wit her, cos dz gal is tryin to capture my hrt bt i usually refrain my hrt

harrysterol:
whch of dem is d lie?

all

@Op, join me at Iya Nkechi's spot by 11pm tonight, u deserve one goat head...


Ladies been trying to play mind games since time immemorial... Deep down they want and like u, but dem go dey form...

No regret for click on the thread...nice1 nufo

ggrin:
all

u tempting me

kaybiel2u:
in dt regard wat could one do? to pretend to b in lov wit her or to fal in lov wit her, cos dz gal is tryin to capture my hrt bt i usually refrain my hrt

fall in love with her but carry your brain wit u

I hate that number 7..i hate it soo much

Maamin:
I hate that number 7..i hate it soo much

all niggas hate it

countsparrow:
@Op, join me at Iya Nkechi's spot by 11pm tonight, u deserve one goat head...


Ladies been trying to play mind games since time immemorial... Deep down they want and like u, but dem go dey form...

hope she get snake head cos na it i d like pass with orijin

I have deleted and blocked soo many girls for that "k, fyn, ok!, yes" response. Then they call me the next day asking why?

Girls who ask what you do may mean well but it's not an ideal question to ask on first meeting or maybe you can ask that later on after you get to know me. Because when you ask that guys automatically get the wrong idea.

I will never make plans to meet someone if I don't kno what they look like. So if she doesn't have a pic up or something then it aint happening.

in summary, life in itself is simple, buh we complicate it

Whenever she asks me what I do I automatically resolve to treat the girl as a biitch.

Hmmmmmm, I totally disagree with Num 4, men do dat a lot 2.

Ok

Uploading heavily edited pictures that makes you to look like Miss world, while in real life you look like....

Don't complain if he doesn't call you after the first date because of the above.

1,2,4,6,7,8.