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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Idowuogbo(f): 10:47pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
jackpot:oh na correct brain baba dash you i swear! take! 2 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by coogar: 10:47pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
nigerians can talk, dang it! proffer solutions, don't just chit chat for the fun of it. the vibe i am getting is double-edged. is TEHN backing off because there is shortage of human resources that can work the field or is TEHN backing off cos they have belatedly realised there's not enough money to take the patient to the promised land? |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by olu4life(m): 10:48pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
babyosisi:Madam,kindly ignore them. They were absent when the case started. @tollu I will rather speak my mind and let my conscience b d judge than to keep quiet. Na u gimme phone wey take access this place or na u dey feed me? I know the situation DJ is and I will keep voicing out till I'm heard. U can kindly help us out by forming the team. DJ God will be with u to the end. I pray they have a change of heart. Surely we will pull through. Till then TEHN make ur decisions and pick d options left with. The ball is in ur court 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by rayo2002: 10:49pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
coogar: I think it's both. Plus the insults and bashing hasn't helped. 2 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Idowuogbo(f): 10:49pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Viogu:hmmmm.....you are seeing what I have 'sawed'. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:49pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Viogu: I refuse to summarize private email and posts over 120 posts to a new comer in the discussion Tehns has washed their hands now remember That is where we are now They have tried I raised no money to India They are now done abi! End of discussion 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Enoquin(f): 10:52pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
@ your last statement; Going through the thread, I had wanted to voice out during the fracas but I got busy and the thread was shut with a warning at no derailment. I didn't want to bring the thought up cause I thought it might derail. Tehn is an organization that seeks to grow and now should act as such. A calm spokesperson should be picked to speak for tehn. Just as Jarus handles accounting, that person would handle all communications with the public and remain calm at all point. The fracas got to the point it did because angry people replied to stuffs they shouldn't have replied to. I got angry reading the fracas earlier because I wish I had the time then to say 'STOP' this is about DJ. Now I am saddened; again tehn 'STOP' think of the bewildered look on DJ's face when he is told or reads that you are no longer handling the matter. Think of the mother and other family members. Think of the drooped shoulders...we are different people, once I set out to do something, nothing much less words can get to me. I am not in Lagos, I would have loved to put my shoulder to the wheel but please don't let him go. This should be a learning curve. Get a spokesperson. Get at least one field worker in each state of the federation. DJ, keep living. And to everyone, remember charity work is mostly a thankless affair especially for field workers please encourage the workers and give your suggestions knowing that someone is taking time out to look into them. God bless you. Ralphlauren: 4 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
babyosisi:Its a pity you kept all that you could have done to your private emails. That's very helpful. The world needs more people like you. 10 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Winneygirl(f): 10:54pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
I will like to say Thank you to Babyosisi for all her efforts too. She has been there from the onset and I believe that deep down, she cares for Dj. . I also appreciate Busybody2 and aisha2 for all their efforts. . These women have made valuable and constructive inputs on this thread. . I hope that the energy they put in will not be made to waste, but they would still come together, put personal feelings aside, put disagreements with Tehn members aside, and bring everyone back on track. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:54pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
I am speaking from a personal perspective here This thread is over 100 pages long, and many of those pages were highlighting what TEHN hasn’t done right. This is not about something simple as picking the wrong colour of paint but a life involved so they cant afford to keep on getting it wrong. Bearing that in mind, they have taken all this on board, put their hands up and say yes we agree, we can’t cope That too doesn’t seem to satisfy people, so I ask what will you have TEHN do? Severally when distractions came, I said on this thread to let us focus on the aim of the thread but it seems that some people were more concerned about proving right and wrong. There is a time and place for everything. Words build and words can bring down. No one is saying don’t say your mind or close your eyes to wrong, however if everyone see this as “OUR” project, and OUR achievements or OUR failures rather than TEHN and US, then we would have ALL worked together. Time and energy that could have been spent brainstorming was spent on arguments. I remember at Xmas I posted asking for people to visit DJ and cheer him up and encourage him. As far as I know, No one went. Yes TEHN could have given frequent updates, which seems to be one of the grouses, but as mentioned over and over again, TEHN was cautious on what to post on here as DJ frequents the thread and a lot of the time, TEHN itself was in the dark. This has definitely taught me a lot about the Nigerian health care system. I am surprised at the backlash. I thought that is what people wanted; for TEHN to put their hands up and say that they were inept and can no longer cope. People should please explain what exactly they want to happen. 16 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Idowuogbo(f): 10:55pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
tollu:back down ke? Dat one? *laughs with her Indian accent* nehinehinehinehi 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:57pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
chaircover: Is this about their personal hurts or lack of manpower as we were earlier told You folks are confusing the heck out of me Somebody help me Who hasn't been insulted and called names on this thread? I even heard people accusing others of posting with new handles,do you know how infuriating that can be Many long term inhabitants of this thread have been abused to the max,yours truly inclusive I have even had my professional integrity questioned So kilonshele? 7 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
babyosisi: I told you that I was speaking from a personal perspective . . MY perspective If you read my post in its entierity, without picking things out, you will see what I am saying. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 11:01pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
TEHN IS NOTHING BUT A BODY WITHOUT A VISION AND MISSION STATEMENT THIS GUYS HAVE MISS IT RIGHT FROM DAY ONE JUST BECAUSE OF PRIDE EACH TIME WE MAKE A CONTRIBUTION THE ONLY THING THEY WILL SAY IS NOTED AND ITS ALL ABOUT DJ IF YOU GUYS ACTUALLY HAVE DJ IN MIND WILL YOU BACK OUT NOW ? EVEN YOUR ACTION ALONE AT THIS POINT CAN CAUSE MORE SICKNESS TO DJ BECAUSE ITS ALL CLEAR YOU HAVE WRITTEN HIM OFF AND MAY GOD JUDGE YOU ALL ITS NOW YOU REMEMBER STAKEHOLDERS ? ALL OF YOU DESERVE NOTHING BUT A PERMANENT BAN IN THIS FORUM FOR DECEIVING US YOU GUYS KILLED THE DONATION SPIRIT YOU GUYS KILLED ALL SUGGESTION EVEN WHEN A WHITE DOCTOR WANTED TO VISIT DJ FREE OF CHARGE TO ACCESS HIM YOU GUYS JUST BECAUSE OF PRIDE SAID I AM THEIR SALES REP NOW YOU WANT TO BACK OUT ? YOU WILL SURELY COMPLETE WHAT YOU STARTED O 17 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by coogar: 11:02pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
rayo2002: who has insulted who? |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by rayo2002: 11:02pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Themaingate: And this helps how Can u go and force them? Keep complicating things u hear. 5 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by rayo2002: 11:04pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
coogar: TeHN were bashed and criticized by forum members and gave as good as they got. My opinion, everyone has a fault in things degenerating to this. |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
chaircover: To be honest and blunt,if Tehns backed off this case today,nobody on this thread will have a sleepless night or go without food I know it sounds cold but that is the truth Igbos say when a funeral procession is going by,to onlookers,it might as well be a log of wood Nobody here will be affected by NL or Tehns backing off this case except DJ and his family That is the gospel truth They, just like us all care about DJ but it won't stop them and us from moving on no matter what their decision is So it's not as if the decision will devastate anyone here It won't If they decide to stay on and see it to a logical end,good If they throw in the towel,life will still go on Some people are even posting here and also chasing babes in the romance section and looking for one night stands Nobody's life is coming to a standstill regardless of their decision 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by taryour(f): 11:07pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Tgirl4real:Hey on I ya mi,am fine o and family doing great thanks and your? My love as per this case I go just sit down begin look. Mynd44 really really tried o God bless him and the rest of TeHN crew. On I ya mi we need to talk/see o. How far? Let's arrange |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by sexysb: 11:09pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Themaingate: @ bolded. You are right. They've obviously written him off. Or how can you explain the post below by one of the field workers Tgirl4real: |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 11:10pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
rayo2002: DO YOU THING I FOR ONE WILL EVER BEG THEM ? NEVER AND NOT IN THIS LIFE THEY TOOK UP THE CASE WILLINGLY AND PEOPLE APPRECIATE THEM FOR THAT , SO WHY ABANDON THE GUY AT THIS DELICATE PERIOD ? PEOPLE THAT HAVE THE FEAR OF GOD DONT BEHAVE LIKE THAT. WHY NOT BACK OUT AS FAR BACK AS LATE NOVEMBER SO WE KNOW OUR FAITH ? WHY NOW HONESTLY THERE IS CERTAINLY NOTHING ANYBODY CAN TELL ME THAT WILL MAKE ME BELIEVE THIS PEOPLE ARE NOT HIDING SOMETHING 4 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by joelenesleek(f): 11:14pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Most of you just want to show grammar and muscle. Time spent on talking and dragging can be used to realize something. We keep recycling and quoting and testing our excellent writing skills and words. Please TEHN, if your decision was made due to the accusations of spending public funds,just let it go. It could be frustrating when money is involved and we understand. But please don't hands off now,for the sake of the young man and our prayers. Just tolerate us a little more and we will be over this. 2 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by rayo2002: 11:15pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Themaingate: Bros please calm down,its talk like this that got us here. They have gotten to treatment stage and I hope the brother can take him for treatment when needed as TeHN keeps control of the purse. It's not easy to sit at someone's bedside for close to a year cos his chemo treatment will finish in May. Make una take am easy This kind of talk and cursing won't even encourage anyone else to volunteer their time again. We make plans and they change all we can do is look for a way forward. |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Winneygirl(f): 11:17pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Thank you also to Mynd44 & Pickabeau1. If we spend more time celebrating our little successes and not tearing one another down, we will appreciate how far we've come. From the thread Dj opened, posting pictures of how he was before the illness and what the illness made him look like, DJ is no longer where he was at that time. So I say thank you to all of us. . We did this. We brought him this far. 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 11:19pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Winneygirl: To abandon him at the verge of treatment? This is not the time to high five anybody Everybody here contributed to that success in cash and in kind And if we back off now,we have no reason to celebrate Yes There is nothing to celebrate at this point all we have is a diagnosis It is not celebration time yet 8 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by olu4life(m): 11:22pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Winneygirl:Sorry but like I said in previous pages,DJs physical state is not OK one bit. Did u see his pics I uploaded? So are we now to give up? Cos ur last paragraph is looking like that. |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
rayo2002: DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT YOU ARE SAYING TEHN IS A BODY AND NOT AN INDIVIDUAL FOR GOD SAKE . WHAT IS TEHN VISION AND MISSION STATEMENT IMMEDIATELY THEY ASK US TO STOP FEEDING THEM WITH SUGGESTION I PERSONALLY STOPPED BECAUSE I BELIEVE THEY ARE CAPABLE OF HANDLING DJ CASE . THEY NEVER FOR ONCE CONSULTED US AROUND LATE DEC - EARLY THIS MONTH AND WHEN WE RAISED ALARM THEY STARTED ATTACKING US AND PERSONALLY I KEPT MY MOUTH SEALED SINCE THEN UNTIL I SAW THIS THEIR POST TODAY IF THEY HAVE WRITTEN THIS GUY OFF , THEY SHOULD KNOW THAT THE GOD THAT GIVE AND TAKE LIFE HAVE NOT ABANDON DJ 2 Likes |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
olu4life: I have to pinch myself to see if this is a dream wallahi 1 Like |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by olu4life(m): 11:26pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Themaingate:Bruh,I totally understand the reaction. I remember clearly u were on ground in Ibadan when DJ was in Eruwa. I remember ur suggestions. It is well bruh. U and wahallyi u both have done well. I hope I got the second id right. Thank u once again |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Idowuogbo(f): 11:27pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
sexysb:identify yourself na...o ga o! |
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1: 11:28pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Nobody has written off anyone We spent the last few days identifying a treatment plan which we have tabled to the house We are saying however we cannot continue on this case The options are to A Handover the monies less chemo (which will be paid to d hospital) to his family They will handle the logistics and ensuring he is available B. A new team is set up to handle it This team will be given all d funds |
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