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Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:08pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
AIM: This thread is targeted at ladies in a sensible relationship. She has a sense of decency and modesty. Her target is to get him to marry her because she loves him dearly and truly. You know what? The issue is not that she doesn't love and respect him but like Eve, she makes poor and rash decisions based on "feelings" alone and that...has consequences. Am I making guys feel important? Yes o! There are more girls than guys in our world so you need us more than we need you. ... Kidding I'm about to list some decisions made by ladies IN A REAL RELATIONSHIP which have in them tendencies to actually destroy what they've spent years working on... 1. Decision To Allow Sex This will spur up bashing but I can tell you this- NO WOMAN will perfectly trust the husband who slept with her during dating! None! I "personally" can't marry a girl I've slept with. So Ladies, sex won't make him marry you o! Don't be fooled! 2. Decision To Ignore The "Beatings" And "Cheatings" Of Today. Oh girl, he will not change o! Unless you be "mamalawo" wey want change am. If he hits when there are no much pressure, simple mathematics should tell you that it can only increase! Love isn't blind, you are! 3. Decision To Walk Away For "Myopic" Reasons. He may be living in One Room or Self Contain today and a few furniture. That's not enough excuse to walk away if you're smart and SEES THE SEED OF GREATNESS IN HIM. You look at them flashy guys with flashy cars, Yes! But life is in phases, sweetheart. Think deep! 4. Decision To Let Your Anger/ Pride Get The Better Of You. Anger is like the ™ of most girls today. Any small thing, them don explode! I tire! Na only you dey! He forgot your birthday, and so what? Be the bigger person, call him to call you and wish you a happy birthday. It will end in laughs and kisses instead of disappointment and break up. Master your emotions sef! 5. Decision To Flirt "A Little" With His Friend(s) Some girls sha...Are you testing him or what? You know he loves you and you are secretly enticing his friend and even have plans to get him laid. Only dogs do that. And you are even in a marriageable age? I laff! 6. Decision To Uphold The "Law Of Feminism". You are not equal with him. Stop Trying To Be! Not in the sense of potential but that of Authority. 65% of break ups /divorce is traceable to Feminist Attributes. It won't hold water! Even, if you pretend today and tomorrow you show you true colour, he will still react and that's not what you bargained for...Be yourself! 7. Decision To Start Comparing Him With An Ex. "X" is that close to "Z" for a reason. The probability of you getting together in a healthy relationship is slim. Most times, you end up being friends. Don't compare A to X, they're far apart! No guy likes comparison, vice versa. Choices are easy to make but its consequences are difficult to amend. Have a Good Evening. 33 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by ArchEnemy(m): 8:10pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Well done op. Lemme add -Decision to test his faithfulness Cooks up some drama to see if he is really faithful but things may start going wrong from there. -Decision to ve 'some fun' She gives in to some new guy just to ve some fun only for it to ruin her relationship. She may be caught 'cheating' -Decision to make him an atm She just forgets herself and begins to make unneccesary demands...he sees her as a gold digger and runs for his life. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by ROZZAYY(f): 8:13pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
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Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Deejavuu(f): 8:15pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Some points are valid some are invalid abeg ... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Maamin(m): 8:18pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
*put straw in viju milk and sits back* Observing! |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:24pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Deejavuu: I'm waiting |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Deejavuu: Can you pinpoint and analyse them? |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:28pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
ArchEnemy: You immediately caught my points but not all though...nice one! |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Genea(f): 8:33pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Just observing |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:35pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Genea: Nice background |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:36pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
nice lists....but no1 aint right ,most Guyz dont care...me for one dont care |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Genea(f): 8:36pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
emusmith:lolx tnx,nice write up though |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:40pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Ploy(m): 8:42pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
I hate feminists with passion, they often confuse right with .... Some of these feminists don't have good home. |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by HizMissy(f): 8:43pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
decision to move in small small..... hair net first, toothbrush second, change of clothes third, mini travelling bag.... e.t.c 12 Likes |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Kennywills7(m): 8:43pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Nice one op |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:43pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
I disagree with number one partially... Guys of nowadays always want to sleep with their fiancee before marriage and vice versa,its okay to check the **** before marriage...as marriage is another school entirely... No mistakes 3 Likes |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Maamin(m): 8:44pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
emusmith: Enhem! Dat your number 1. ehn! E be like say u want use am put garri inside our sand sand Oh! Sorry sand sand inside our garri. |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Kennywills7(m): 8:45pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
HizMissy:And wen it gets messy dey pack those things little by little at night to where dey came from 1 Like |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:47pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
HizMissy: So girls do this with opened eyes? |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by HizMissy(f): 8:48pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Kennywills7:or all at once 1 Like |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Genea(f): 8:49pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
emusmith:lolx ,u r funny |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:49pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Ploy: Yes. True! Most! |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
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Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
tollyB: I thought of that... but...it has consequences o 1 Like |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Kennywills7(m): 8:54pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
HizMissy:on point miss and dey do dis mostly at night due to shame!! I wonder how dey feel wen d load finally gets home and their younger ones will b looking at dem like d return of d prodigal sister!! 1 Like |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:56pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Kennywills7: Thanks bruv. |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 8:57pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Deefuray, where have you been? |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Deefuray(f): 9:06pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
emusmith: I've been around jare |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Nobody: 9:11pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Deefuray: Hardly on NL...or Sexuality Section? Hope you're good? |
Re: Seven "Dating Decisions" That COULD Ruin Your Relationship Forever >> For Ladies by Deefuray(f): 9:19pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
emusmith: Lol. I'm good. Lovely thread BTW |
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