There's this person who'd do anything to make you theirs, but you don't really feel the same way. On the other hand, there's this other one you'd kill for, but they do not feel the same way. If you had an equal chance of having either as a partner, who'd you choose?

The one who loves me because I may likely fall in love with them, usually in time you learn to love them. For the other I may even fall out of love as time goes by. I don't have the patience for unrequited love.

This is one of those "there is no right
answer" questions, only it's because both
choices are no good.
If you love someone and they don't care
about you, YOU suffer. If it's the other
way around, THEY suffer. In either case,
which ever person stays for their own
gratification, stains their own essence.
Might as well ask "do you want to
emotionally abused, or be an emotional
abuser?"

rokiatu:
The one who loves me because I may likely fall in love with them, usually in time you learn to love them. For the other I may even fall out of love as time goes by. I don't have the patience for unrequited love.

what if you never get to fall in love with the one that loves you?

AgapeCharis:
what if you never get to fall in love with the one that loves you?

but still I will be treated better, respected loved and cherished.

rokiatu:
but still I will be treated better, respected loved and cherished.

extended hands of love from someone you feel nothing for can sometimes be nauseating and vice versa.

I prefer we love each other madly jare

AgapeCharis:
what if you never get to fall in love with the one that loves you?

There's a slim chance that will happen because we ladies are highly emotional being and as long as there's a little like it can escalate to real love with time.

rokiatu:
The one who loves me because I may likely fall in love with them, usually in time you learn to love them. For the other I may even fall out of love as time goes by. I don't have the patience for unrequited love.

Yes o

elantraceey:



There's a slim chance that will happen because we ladies are highly emotional being and as long as there's a little like it can escalate to real love with time.

There is no guarantee it will. It may even start offending you somehow.......especially when someone you love is around the corner

rokiatu:
The one who loves me because I may likely fall in love with them, usually in time you learn to love them. For the other I may even fall out of love as time goes by. I don't have the patience for unrequited love.

You've said it all

AgapeCharis:
extended hands of love from someone you feel nothing for can sometimes be nauseating and vice versa.

I prefer we love each other madly jare

that's what everyone prefers but that's not the question at hand.

elantraceey:



There's a slim chance that will happen because we ladies are highly emotional being and as long as there's a little like it can escalate to real love with time.

that's it! You get exactly where am coming from.

I will choose the girl that loves me oh.

AgapeCharis:
There is no guarantee it will. It may even start offending you somehow.......especially when someone you love is around the corner

Na there is, it has happened to me severally and even my mum had that line in her story.

rokiatu:
that's what everyone prefers but that's not the question at hand.

lol...true


For a situation like this, I don't know what I'll choose o

AgapeCharis:
what if you never get to fall in love with the one that loves you?

this right here is what i'm going through right now

AgapeCharis:
lol...true


For a situation like this, I don't know what I'll choose o

i'm telling you

I'm wit u dear.

rokiatu:
The one who loves me because I may likely fall in love with them, usually in time you learn to love them. For the other I may even fall out of love as time goes by. I don't have the patience for unrequited love.

elantraceey:


Na there is, it has happened to me severally and even my mum had that line in her story.

i recently broke up with her after 8 months with her. She pursued me relentlessly and i took the punt, hoping to someday love her as equally as she did me, but sadly that didn't happen. I got frustrated by her efforts to mould me. It was difficult but i'm not sure i did the right thing

SlimCupid:
i recently broke up with her after 8 months with her. She pursued me relentlessly and i took the punt, hoping to someday love her as equally as she did me, but sadly that didn't happen. I got frustrated by her efforts to mould me. It was difficult but i'm not sure i did the right thing

That's why you guys are different , once you don't love from the start there's a rare chance it could come up later.

Guys should go for the ladies who love them. If you run after a Naija babe who doesn't love you, it's going to be a festival of slights and insults. Brothers deserve better than that.

definitely, the one who loves me... its the safest way to live long
...

I choose none.

If you are a lady and you love me overly, automatically, I have a duty to love you back naturally or sympathetically.

If it is natural it becomes mutual (if my love for her doesn't depend on her love for me) in another word "symbiotic"

If it hinges on sympathy, I better not keep her, I will lay her off. I seldom have the heart to be parasitic/selfish.

My answer again, None!

Tymax:
Guys should go for the ladies who love them. If you run after a Naija babe who doesn't love you, it's going to be a festival of slights and insults. Brothers deserve better than that.

yes many Nigerian ladies do that

Yea, i fall in dat place where i'll do anything to make him mine but he doesn't feel desame 4me. Terrible, not 2b xperienced.

jnrbayano:
I choose none.

If you are a lady and you love me overly, automatically, I have a duty to love you back naturally or sympathetically.

If it is natural it becomes mutual (if my love for her doesn't depend on her love for me) in another word "symbiotic"

If it hinges on sympathy, I better not keep her, I will lay her off. I seldom have the heart to be parasitic/selfish.

My answer again, None!

exactly

The one I love,reason best known to me

Love is wicked!!!!!!

softysparky:
Love is wicked!!!!!!

SuccessfulO:
Yea, i fall in dat place where i'll do anything to make him mine but he doesn't feel desame 4me. Terrible, not 2b xperienced.

Eyaaaah, I know that feeling.

elantraceey:



There's a slim chance that will happen because we ladies are highly emotional being and as long as there's a little like it can escalate to real love with time.

Not all the time though.