flaws:

Bro,yur not a kid,i would have asked how old are yu,buh i checked yur dp nd saw yur a bit mature,thers no magic than to make yur moves,only if yur a shy nigga

Thanks man. Thanks alot. I'll let you know how it goes.

teddy....sas u dey fly me own question lyk spiderman...ansa me na....u say i 4 seductively chat wit am since she say she dey naked...bur i no knw wetin 2 talk again i no wnt make she tink say i b lyk oda boiz...dats y i won tame am untill she com my house...wetin u think?

please help oh.....is it normal for a girl to be requesting for transport fare after paying a visit, even when she can afford it herself as in am I even supposed to be paying her t-fare anyway..... I know I can give her if I like or if I have but she always try to make it my duty......advise abeg

adewumiopeyemi:
@teddy why u ingnoring me dont u no me again.. just look at my pics wether u can recongnised me

hey..baddo..opsy swag...I dey..oh..ow far..na..long time..hailings...ow levels bro...I rmbr u wella.

FreshGuy2:
please help oh.....is it normal for a girl to be requesting for transport fare after paying a visit, even when she can afford it herself as in am I even supposed to be paying her t-fare anyway..... I know I can give her if I like or if I have but she always try to make it my duty......advise abeg

Itz a matter of investment. Is she down with u..?..dts d question u need to ask. Sending a tfare to a girl who is invested on you is not bad. If she is always trying to make it a duty, and yet she always comes to see u wen u send d tfare. Den itz no problem.

so u no rember me before abi teddy...

xxxtedyxxx:
hey..baddo..opsy swag...I dey..oh..ow far..na..long time..hailings...ow levels bro...I rmbr u wella.

craiggylad:
teddy....sas u dey fly me own question lyk spiderman...ansa me na....u say i 4 seductively chat wit am since she say she dey naked...bur i no knw wetin 2 talk again i no wnt make she tink say i b lyk oda boiz...dats y i won tame am untill she com my house...wetin u think?

getting a chick Hot or chatting with a girl seductively involves many things. Itz not something I can cover up here..but ama make a new thread for it. Am skilled in the act.

She already said she is naked, dts investment, treasure it, and go for d hit, forget about sounding like oda guys. Even if she comes to ur house, if she is not a sexual emotional game with u already, don't be surprised if she rejects ur advances on dat day.

xxxtedyxxx:
getting a chick Hot or chatting with a girl seductively involves many things. Itz not something I can cover up here..but ama make a new thread for it. Am skilled in the act.

She already said she is naked, dts investment, treasure it, and go for d hit, forget about sounding like oda guys. Even if she comes to ur house, if she is not a sexual emotional game with u already, don't be surprised if she rejects ur advances on dat day.

Well done sir!
Answer me, page 35 or 36 sef

after finally convincing mysef to read this thread. all i can say right now is thank God i did.

Thanks for the great tips. its being fun readin em so far @op.

am staying glued till d kingdom comes.

peace.

mehn ma guy....u 2 much ...assumin i b jonathan i 4 gve u award 4 best ashawolistic person...............bt d bae wnts me 2 b romantic apart 4rm ma swit coated words of her being beautiful...na dat romantic way i wan learn 4rm u ma oga

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xxxtedyxxx:
getting a chick Hot or chatting with a girl seductively involves many things. Itz not something I can cover up here..but ama make a new thread for it. Am skilled in the act.

She already said she is naked, dts investment, treasure it, and go for d hit, forget about sounding like oda guys. Even if she comes to ur house, if she is not a sexual emotional game with u already, don't be surprised if she rejects ur advances on dat day.

Ted, i like d good work u r doing here.. can we chat personal. . Are u on WhatsApp or bbm? Lets connect.

oga Tedd abeg help oh ASAP,one girl like that wey i dy crush on just take me dy do play play oh..here's what happened... on Tuesday I told her that I would like us to see that day that she should call me when she's done.but she said she doesn't have even flashing credit talk more of calling, free call back sms exhausted as well... I said ok then next time.. Thursday evening she sent me(please call me I love you)i tried to call but it didn't go through then on Friday night I sent her goodnight sms also reminding her of meeting the next day(should I be expecting us to meet 2moro then?)..today,Saturday I called her but she didn't answer which I assumed was because she was in the lesson hall then,this afternoon she sent again (please call me I love you)I called her only for her to tell me that she has left the hall. then I was like,, why didn't you inform me earlier like 10/15mins before the dismissal or did u expect me to just fly from where I am to the hall in secs? she said she doesn't know then I got annoyed and said ok bye.....abeg what should I do,, should I just let her be? or continue pressing on.......... sorry for the long story

FreshGuy2:
oga Tedd abeg help oh ASAP,one girl like that wey i dy crush on just take me dy do play play oh..here's what happened... on Tuesday I told her that I would like us to see that day that she should call me when she's done.but she said she doesn't have even flashing credit talk more of calling, free call back sms exhausted as well... I said ok then next time.. Thursday evening she sent me(please call me I love you)i tried to call but it didn't go through then on Friday night I sent her goodnight sms also reminding her of meeting the next day(should I be expecting us to meet 2moro then?)..today,Saturday I called her but she didn't answer which I assumed was because she was in the lesson hall then,this afternoon she sent again (please call me I love you)I called her only for her to tell me that she has left the hall. then I was like,, why didn't you inform me earlier like 10/15mins before the dismissal or did u expect me to just fly from where I am to the hall in secs? she said she doesn't know then I got annoyed and said ok bye.....abeg what should I do,, should I just let her be? or continue pressing on.......... sorry for the long story

U don't av to get annoyed, dats not necessary. U are putting too much importance on meeting her. Coming from that position alone can make u seem desperate. Wen a girl is not acting or behaving well towards u,u don't reward her. U only reward a girl wen she is acting or behaving well. So u shudnt av set up dat saturday date, neither shud u av sent her dat gud nite text. A girl has to know u r smone of value, otherwise she is gona start downgrading you.

" Aite ok..we meet some oda time den". Dts much better. Let her know u r busy, and just aint focused on meeting her. She is not beyonce, or rihanna, neither is she d hottest girl out there. Let her know u av options. Not explicitly, but a text like d above can imply dat. u free her for a week or more, after such a message, and game and flex with oda babes.

Moreover, I can tell from experience this girl has credit. That "I don't av credit" ish is outdated to me. Any girl dat does dat tells u stuffs like dat too often doesn't value u. It simply means.

" Sorry..u r not dat important to me..so I can't waste ma credit on you".

Hence the excuse about not having credit.

So free her for a while...a week..game oda chicks..den set up anoda date with her. If she flakes again...free d chick. Some babes r not just worth wasting ur time on.. Babes to yapa to dey die ontop one.

After the one week break..call her on fone..and set up a date about meeting up.

Take tins from there.

Don't put the ball in her cut, telling her to call u wen she is done and stuff like dat. Set d date around evening, wen she won't be in class or av any oda lame excuse.

And pls..don't ever buy her credit..or send credit to her.

Na anoda guy she go use am call..lol.

craiggylad:
mehn ma guy....u 2 much ...assumin i b jonathan i 4 gve u award 4 best ashawolistic person...............bt d bae wnts me 2 b romantic apart 4rm ma swit coated words of her being beautiful...na dat romantic way i wan learn 4rm u ma oga

Lols..haha

To be romantic..u don't av to comment on the obvious. She is cute and beautifu,hence, every guy must av told her ow cute she is. She is subtly telling u to be different from oda guys.

To be romantic...u need well timed moves.

Stop commenting on her beauty..instead..comment on her style, an article of clothing, her energy, her personality, the way she smiles or laf.

" Oh..I just love ur sweet way of smiling bae"

Be different.

Comment on ow she is wearing her hair today, d way she walks, etc.

Aktor365:
after finally convincing mysef to read this thread. all i can say right now is thank God i did.

Thanks for the great tips. its being fun readin em so far @op.

am staying glued till d kingdom comes.

peace.

. U r welcome...BOSS

xxxtedyxxx:
. U r welcome...BOSS

baba u too much o. My issue is similar to dat of d guy u reply ealier bt sti wanna ask. I jus moved to dz part of town, met dz gal teaching at my aunty's sch(my uncle's wife whom i stay with). We got talking collected her number and started chatting. During one of our talk,she told me she has a bf and she doesnt blv i dnt av a gf. After so many talk, when she has started letting her guards, down, she told me she's leaving d sch. She left bt her house is nt far 4rm mine so i wasnt worried abt seeing her. Now d problm is dat i havnt seen her since. When i call her to see her,she gv me excuses... Pls wt do u tink is wrng nd watz d solution. Tnx

xxxtedyxxx:


U don't av to get annoyed, dats not necessary. U are putting too much importance on meeting her. Coming from that position alone can make u seem desperate. Wen a girl is not acting or behaving well towards u,u don't reward her. U only reward a girl wen she is acting or behaving well. So u shudnt av set up dat saturday date, neither shud u av sent her dat gud nite text. A girl has to know u r smone of value, otherwise she is gona start downgrading you.

" Aite ok..we meet some oda time den". Dts much better. Let her know u r busy, and just aint focused on meeting her. She is not beyonce, or rihanna, neither is she d hottest girl out there. Let her know u av options. Not explicitly, but a text like d above can imply dat. u free her for a week or more, after such a message, and game and flex with oda babes.

Moreover, I can tell from experience this girl has credit. That "I don't av credit" ish is outdated to me. Any girl dat does dat tells u stuffs like dat too often doesn't value u. It simply means.

" Sorry..u r not dat important to me..so I can't waste ma credit on you".

Hence the excuse about not having credit.

So free her for a while...a week..game oda chicks..den set up anoda date with her. If she flakes again...free d chick. Some babes r not just worth wasting ur time on.. Babes to yapa to dey die ontop one.

After the one week break..call her on fone..and set up a date about meeting up.

Take tins from there.

Don't put the ball in her cut, telling her to call u wen she is done and stuff like dat. Set d date around evening, wen she won't be in class or av any oda lame excuse.

And pls..don't ever buy her credit..or send credit to her.

Na anoda guy she go use am call..lol.

Thanks bro I really appreciate your advice...... do you think it's a good idea going (casual meeting) to where she stays after the week break because her place is not that far from mine or should i just set a date and wait for the day?... tnx

FreshGuy2:
Thanks bro I really appreciate your advice...... do you think it's a good idea going (casual meeting) to where she stays after the week break because her place is not that far from mine or should i just set a date and wait for the day?... tnx

. Yes..set a neutral date. Don't go n meet her. Make her come to u or meet @ a place.

bigwind:
baba u too much o. My issue is similar to dat of d guy u reply ealier bt sti wanna ask. I jus moved to dz part of town, met dz gal teaching at my aunty's sch(my uncle's wife whom i stay with). We got talking collected her number and started chatting. During one of our talk,she told me she has a bf and she doesnt blv i dnt av a gf. After so many talk, when she has started letting her guards, down, she told me she's leaving d sch. She left bt her house is nt far 4rm mine so i wasnt worried abt seeing her. Now d problm is dat i havnt seen her since. When i call her to see her,she gv me excuses... Pls wt do u tink is wrng nd watz d solution. Tnx

So many tins r involved but u didn't give us much details. What did u tell her wen she told u she doesn't believe u don't av a girl?...she was letting her guard down, den she just decided to eject. Well so many things determine the way a woman acts. something else myt be making her act dis way. She is busy,or my just be going tru stuffs. Sometimes, a girls irrational behaviour has nothing to do with us. So we shud get worked up all d time.

What kind of excuses is she giving u? If its a lame one dat she keeps repeating, I guess u ve lost her. Perhaps..u didn't solidify ur attraction.

Jasi7:


My bro u wont imagine,its like a lady's reaction to every guy's approach varies widely,i ws ther today,well she is a bad host anyway,in jos here d cold is killing,she wuldnt even ask me in...she asked if I wantd to stay outside or inside,in my mind I ws like ''what da hell,how wuld u feel if I askd u d same question''...wel I told her I wuld stay outside(since she no get sense)...den she sat wit me,we spoke and she served food on a platter even after I told her I wasnt hungry and we ate together,at one point she wantd strollin bt I jst acted like I dint notice and culd u believe she ws a talkative today...mayb I misjudged her..what do u think abt d whole scenario'?

Lol..u r funny guy

xxxtedyxxx:
. Yes..set a neutral date. Don't go n meet her. Make her come to u or meet @ a place.

bros teddy.... hw's life @ur end.....bros my problem is in transitioning from small talks to deep talks that can create rapport, can u kindly give me some tips can he be either questions or statements plus there is this girl I met, we talk fine but she neva calls or send text nd I've known her 4 more dan 1yr since I noticed too I started calling her once or twice a month, sometimes once in 2-3months......we sch in different parts of d country and always declines my invite 4 a date weneva we're on holiday...
wats ur advice bro cos am tinkin of boning her mata cos me don tire or can u give me some tips on hw to re-ignite the relationship?
thanks

THERES THIS NEw girl we have been chatting for.a while. i have made a couple of calls too.....the ish is.now the icebreaker.....IM ALREADY USING WORDS LIKE DEAR AND CO....and she's really into me but u know girls are foolishly not predictable.....what doi do?

xxxtedyxxx I just met dis girl a month ago where I seek an advise frm u on page 36 bt didn't reply. But thats d past now tho. D good news is dat I hav been talkin wit dis girl on phone. She does respond well. Most of d txts I do send her I normally use swt and Hon trying to act as her bf tho I never bother to ask wether she has a bf or nt cuz I know wat her reply wil be which is d normal ''I hav a bf'' things which every girl normally tell an incoming guy.

I just succeeeded in taking dis girl to my house 2nd of Feb. At first she tried to resist my invite saying she doesn't go to guys House. Hearin dat made my plan to make a move on her changed. I actually wanted to make a move on her bt I gave up nt to make her feel am after her body. Her stay was so brief dat I didn't even feel her presence

But now I hav told myself dat am not going to call her for 1 to 2 weeks nor txt her. What should I do?

xxxtedyxxx:


So many tins r involved but u didn't give us much details. What did u tell her wen she told u she doesn't believe u don't av a girl?...she was letting her guard down, den she just decided to eject. Well so many things determine the way a woman acts. something else myt be making her act dis way. She is busy,or my just be going tru stuffs. Sometimes, a girls irrational behaviour has nothing to do with us. So we shud get worked up all d time.

What kind of excuses is she giving u? If its a lame one dat she keeps repeating, I guess u ve lost her. Perhaps..u didn't solidify ur attraction.

tnx man. I told her i use to av a gf b4 i moved to dat place bt we broke up because of religion differences. She seems to buy dat. She's been giving diff excuses,like saying she went to visit her mum who is sick or she wants to go out wit her sister. Mind u, it's jus 2 weeks nw since we first met.

xxxtedyxxx:
. Yes..set a neutral date. Don't go n meet her. Make her come to u or meet @ a place.

thanks baba

ma oga @ d top......ma online gf dey 4uk up....hers our convo(hw abt u com visit me so we cn mit nd talk in person,den she said hw abt u com 2 my....den i told her dat ,so u dnt wana com ryt ,no p...den she said i shud com 2 her place nd after d convo i cut off calls nd msg wit her(dis appened on monday)so wat do u think i shud do....cos dis bea i wnt 2 hit her

It's a pleasure been on this thread. Kudos to everyone that has been answering questions and advising parties. Your good work are not gone unnoticed.

There is a girl in my hometown, she has last my school (sec. sku) b4 I was enrolled in the school m I av been hearing so many things about her, rumours had it that she's pretty sturborn.

one fateful day my friends were talking about them sending to request to her on f.b. because the invention of f.b. just came. I Stylishly crammed her profile name. we do talk, I proposed she rejected based on religion difference. We av been acting like bf / gf because she's actually d girl I want so I couldn't proposed to any other lady. since I got admitted , a month might passed without putting call to her and later my love for her springs up and av started pressurizing her but she still maintains her stand.

she asked me to convert or we forget about it. I told her frankly that that wud b the last thing I wud do. Even I can't ask babe out in my hometown because if the lady do 1 or 2 findings if she was not close to me b4, bcus that are close to me know her. The next time I will talk with the babe, d question will be what of Phunmy? most time I can't convinced them that we never date each other. I love the what Shud I do ? leave her or u av some gud clue to get her.


moreover she do deny me kiss talk more of sex.

xxxteddy first off i must say u are doing a pretty gud job here.. i've been reading and following everything u are teaching here and I must say they work without a single doubt... recently i've been gaming lots of chicks and i've neva had a better experience with gurls.... you are amazing man...keep it up
However, i still need ur help with a girl I met some weeks ago.. I wanted dis gurl 2 b my gf d very first time I met n talked wit her..we exchanged contacts and ive called her for like 7 times of which she has only answered 3 (when she do piks up we talk as if we've known each others for years...wel i use a couple of raports and i aint being desperate). things neva went wel atol d last time we talked over d phone (today). on d call I was like telling her: so u don't pik my calls when i call.... is like u were busy with ur sugar daddy or smth and boom.... she flaked and was like wat kind of question was dat? u dont ask a woman dat sort of question she said(I made this qst sound fun and I've used dis on a couple of chicks with success) but hers was a different thing altogether. .. finding myself in an awkward situation, I quickly apologized 2 her and told her it was jst a humor, a common joke...she finally said ok.... call really got frustrating afterwards
. said she was gonna call me back later; she normally says dis and never calls back......man I lost my cool and I seriously need ur help. don't even know what next to do... have thought abt texting her bt im really confused... I need dis babe as my gf...need ur help

chidexxy007:

bros teddy.... hw's life @ur end.....bros my problem is in transitioning from small talks to deep talks that can create rapport, can u kindly give me some tips can he be either questions or statements plus there is this girl I met, we talk fine but she neva calls or send text nd I've known her 4 more dan 1yr since I noticed too I started calling her once or twice a month, sometimes once in 2-3months......we sch in different parts of d country and always declines my invite 4 a date weneva we're on holiday...
wats ur advice bro cos am tinkin of boning her mata cos me don tire or can u give me some tips on hw to re-ignite the relationship?
thanks

@xxtedyxx, boss mi... need a reply to ds
thanks

Teddy...lemme make a confession...I lost my former moniker so I foorgot about it.after seeing ur topic on romance section,I had to create a new moniker just to say thanks for what you have done to I and my bro...you just made us walk round d skul looking for bishes to game#you try oo#...serzly even nicki minaj fit date you...#big ups#:lastly...you have just helped a niccah...ama pro now