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| 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by Nobody: 8:38pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Guys can be hard to read but if you pay attention, you can figure out their deal pretty fast — while there are exceptions, good guys generally behave like good guys and bad guys raise red flags. Wondering if you’re dealing with a bad guy (aka an asshole) you should run from, a decent guy you should give a chance to, or an AMAZING guy who could end up being the one? Here are some differences in behavior: 1. When you first meet and there’s some chemistry: The asshole is all about getting in your panties that night. The decent guy would be happy to get in your panties that night but that’s not his goal — he also thinks you’re kinda cool. The amazing guy probably wants to get in your panties but he’s really into you and won’t risk messing things up — he’ll take your number, and text you to make a plan. 2. After you first hook up: The asshole will be out the door, might send a pointless text or two, and then disappear (until he’s Hot again, of course). The decent guy might bounce but he’ll text you something halfway meaningful later (like saying he wants to hang out again) The amazing guy will linger in bed with you and, if he can, he’ll even take you to breakfast. 3. When it comes to making plans: The asshole doesn’t make plans — he just pops up like whack-a-mole, usually late at night. The decent guy lets plans happen naturally, as you text each other. The amazing guy will text you to see if you’re free on a certain day — he’s doesn’t take anything for granted. 4. What it’s like to hang out: The asshole doesn’t hang out (unless hooking up is involved). The decent guy is easy to hang out with it — he kinda likes having you around. The amazing guy creates opportunities to hang out with you and makes you feel like there’s no place he’d rather be. 5. The way he is with you in front of his friends: The asshole treats you like any other girl. The decent guy treats you respectfully. The amazing guy makes it clear you’re his girl. 6. When you text him and he’s busy: The asshole will blow you off. The decent guy might blow you off but he’ll apologize if you call him out. The amazing guy will spend the 5 seconds it takes to reply, “Busy but will call you later.” 7. When you want to talk about the relationship and what you need: The asshole will shut you up. The decent guy might groan but he’ll listen. The amazing guy will actually engage in the conversation, even though he probably doesn’t want to have it. 8. When you tell him he’s doing something that’s not cool (like always being late): The asshole will get defensive and act like you’re the one with the problem. The decent guy will try to do better (but you might have to ask a few times). The amazing guy will do better. 9. When it comes to the energy he brings to your life: The asshole makes you insane. The decent guy keeps you comfortable. The amazing guy makes you feel happy and secure. 10. When it comes to sex: The asshole bleeps you. The decent guy sleeps with you. The amazing guy makes love to you. 11. How he behaves with other women: The asshole will flirt with other women. The decent guy might furtively look at another woman but he wouldn’t do anything. The amazing guy will focus on you. 12. What it comes to taking things to the next level: The asshole doesn’t want to change anything — he just wants a Bleep buddy. The decent guy seems to towards relationship territory. The amazing guy is there. 13. Once you’ve been together for a while: The asshole stops trying. The decent guy might take you for granted a bit, but he also makes some effort. The amazing guy appreciates you more and more with time. - See more at: http://www.thebolde.com/3-types-guys-bad-decent-amazing-tell-apart-2/#sthash.pczJGiBh.dpuf 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Oh Jeez! Fvcking Amazing guy i am. |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by Baba419(m): 8:43pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Nice one But the girl will still have to go through the full drill to tell them apart  1 Like |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by Nobody: 8:44pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
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| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by yorex2011: 8:50pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
Pls hw much is titus sardine in ur area?.. Seems they are cheating us here  |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by HizMissy(f): 8:57pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
I'm good with a decent guy... Mr amazing doesn't exist. |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by nawtikid(m): 10:53pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
But dey still keep coming back 2 d bad boys |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by Nobody: 1:13am On Jan 29, 2015 |
HizMissy:cos u haven't met me |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by cherryice(f): 1:22am On Jan 29, 2015 |
Spot on!!!! This is soo true. Nice one, OP |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by skywalker495(m): 1:24am On Jan 29, 2015 |
 n ah just spent ma tym reading dis wack |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by kinggenesis(m): 1:48am On Jan 29, 2015 |
HizMissy:Haba? Are you saying KINGGENESIS is a living_dead? |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by Pasqa: 5:21am On Jan 29, 2015 |
Will read and then comment |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by Nobody: 6:37am On Jan 29, 2015 |
Ok |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by HizMissy(f): 8:46am On Jan 29, 2015 |
ALKARULEZZ: kinggenesis:u guys shud chill... im quite sure i'll be disappointed after meeting/dating you and will still have to fall back on Mr decent. |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by Nobody: 9:36am On Jan 29, 2015 |
HizMissy:lol.... Jex so u'd know, I don't wana date u......... I've gat an amazing GF #winks#  |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by HizMissy(f): 9:45am On Jan 29, 2015 |
ALKARULEZZ:i didnt imply i wanted to |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by naijaboiy: 10:05am On Jan 29, 2015 |
i could be any of the 3.. It just depends on the kind of girl involved  |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by Samiceman: 10:37am On Jan 29, 2015 |
I am more of the Arsehole.... Sorting out my priorities |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by kinggenesis(m): 10:38am On Jan 29, 2015 |
HizMissy:Like seriously? Onila pls where are you? |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
HizMissy: Cos u havent met one. Dats why experience is such a terrible teacher. |
| Re: 3 Types Of Guys — Bad, Decent, Amazing — And How To Tell Them Apart by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
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