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6 Depressing Facts About Love by Edigrows: 5:00pm On Jan 30, 2015
I know we are On the heels of the most romantic month of the year, SORRY but lets face it — sometimes, love stinks.



Everyone's been through a messy breakup that left you feeling hopelessly alone, or stuck in unrequited love. Relationship woes can be a huge source of stress and anxiety for many people, and beyond being an unwelcome distraction, can actually cause physical harm.

Through heartbreak and heartache, there are plenty of reasons to feel down about your romantic life, but some facts about love are downright depressing.


1. Breaking up may lead to "frustration attraction," which can cause the dumped to love the dumpee even more
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Break ups are awful, but studies have found that being kicked to the curb may actually cause you to feel more passionate towards those who reject you. This can even lead to obsession and addiction. I know of a guy who wanted to kill himself to have his Ex back. It was very unfortunate, this is a good example of FRUSTRATION ATTRACTION. Or You still wanna Call that Undying Love? tongue

2. Don't know of Here in Naija, but Every 13 seconds, a couple in the U.S. files for divorce.
It's well known that divorce rates in the U.S. are high, but one divorce nearly every 13 seconds is just depressing. Reports believe that rate will continue to rise as the economy does.

3. Romantic love lasts for only one year.
That flush feeling you get from being around your lover is not butterflies in your heart, but actually just a chemical releasing from your brain. Despite our often sentimental view of long-term relationships, researchers say that feeling of "romantic love" -- raised levels of a protein that has been linked to euphoria in new relationships -- slowly diminishes over time.

4. Social media is ruining relationships.



With potential access to your partner's every waking move or thought, social media can cause some serious stress in relationships including jealousy, and the pressures of open communication -- so much stress that one-third of divorce filings in 2011 contained the word "Facebook." Here's a common mistake people make daily, Upon you already Feel you have Something serious with your significant other, You still take Facebook so serious ... Are you "Facebook Official"?


5. Heartbreak can actually make you sick.

When experiencing heartbreak, our brain releases stress hormones, which can weaken our immune system, and leaves our bodies more susceptible to illness. Because everybody needs the flu after their belongings are tossed onto the street.

6. Your heart can literally break.
Heartbreak is terrible, but in some cases, can be quite literal. Takotsubo cardiomyopathy, known as "broken heart syndrome" is typically caused by emotional or physical stress. Hormones create a stunning effect on the heart muscles, which can cause temporary dysfunction, much like a heart attack.

I no send whether this Hits FP, i got this culled from Mashable so Pls Don't judge me ...
Is there anything I missed?
your Opinions are Welcome tho grin grin grin
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Nobody: 5:04pm On Jan 30, 2015
all these are things you pass trough before finding the right one.

with the right person, love conquers all

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Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by cyprianlah(m): 5:06pm On Jan 30, 2015
Your money wheel finis grin
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by mirexxx(f): 5:10pm On Jan 30, 2015
All truesmiley










love is bad then cry
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by cyprianlah(m): 5:17pm On Jan 30, 2015
mirexxx:
All truesmiley











love is bad then cry

MTN
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jan 30, 2015
mirexxx:
All truesmiley










love is bad then cry
its not embarassed
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Nobody: 5:20pm On Jan 30, 2015
Indeed
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Nobody: 5:24pm On Jan 30, 2015
Crappy craps
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by mirexxx(f): 5:33pm On Jan 30, 2015
cyprianlah:


MTN
wats dat suppose 2 mean
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by mirexxx(f): 5:37pm On Jan 30, 2015
Cutehector4u:
its not embarassed
okay embarassed
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Icekeeng(m): 5:39pm On Jan 30, 2015
..
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Nobody: 5:40pm On Jan 30, 2015
mirexxx:
okay embarassed
yh darling. kiss hws ur afternun goin? Cool right?
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by cyprianlah(m): 5:43pm On Jan 30, 2015
mirexxx:
wats dat suppose 2 mean

Nne! You are everywhere I go

Btw...are stalking me
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by mathmatica: 5:43pm On Jan 30, 2015
In the light of the post above,where does the phrase 'God is Love' fits?
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by mirexxx(f): 5:57pm On Jan 30, 2015
cyprianlah:


Nne! You are everywhere I go

Btw...are stalking me
lol i don't stalk ppl smiley





so hw u?
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jan 30, 2015
This thread is for ladies!!
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by cyprianlah(m): 6:04pm On Jan 30, 2015
mirexxx:
lol i don't stalk ppl smiley





so hw u?

Ayam fine

Hw did ur day go??
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jan 30, 2015
But still live goes on and we still gotta fall in love. grin
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Ploy(m): 6:11pm On Jan 30, 2015
There is no love, no never.
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Nobody: 6:14pm On Jan 30, 2015
Love is overrated.
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Nobody: 6:24pm On Jan 30, 2015
K
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jan 30, 2015
[quote author=mirexxx post=30279098][/quote]

See your mouth kiss kiss
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by mirexxx(f): 6:36pm On Jan 30, 2015
cyprianlah:


Ayam fine

Hw did ur day go??
great! was home all thru smiley

urz? smiley
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by mirexxx(f): 6:38pm On Jan 30, 2015
Cutehector4u:
yh darling. kiss hws ur afternun goin? Cool right?
yep urz?
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by mirexxx(f): 6:40pm On Jan 30, 2015
jacksparrow1207:


See your mouth kiss kiss
lyk urz smiley
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Nobody: 6:41pm On Jan 30, 2015
mirexxx:
lyk urz smiley

E b me like make ah kiss am
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Nobody: 6:42pm On Jan 30, 2015
mirexxx:
yep urz?
great. Just usuals
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by mirexxx(f): 6:44pm On Jan 30, 2015
Cutehector4u:
great. Just usuals
smiley smiley missed u
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Maamin(m): 6:53pm On Jan 30, 2015
mathmatica:
In the light of the post above,where does the phrase 'God is Love' fits?

Babe take it easy with God ok..he loves you enough already for him to have brought you to existance ok angry
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jan 30, 2015
mirexxx:
smiley smiley missed u
awwww. kiss dnt mind me , d romantic movie I was watchn just got me so touched.
Re: 6 Depressing Facts About Love by mirexxx(f): 6:57pm On Jan 30, 2015
Cutehector4u:
awwww. kiss dnt mind me , d romantic movie I was watchn just got me so touched.
sweet smiley wat movie?

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