obongproff:


Baba, do u have any genuine statistical proof to dis ya claim. U guys just kip spitting d same poo over and over again. Na wa oh!

Dont u know dat d symptoms of malaria, cholera, typhoid, hiv and ebola are similar? Is it plasmodium dat causes cholera, typhoid, hiv and ebola?

Why do guys keep thinking like dis sef?

Truckpusher:
Were you asking every girl you've dated to go for HIV screening before you started being intimate ?

Again it boils down to the kind of people you roll with and even at that you can never go around asking every girl you've known to produce a test result first and marriage is not a football match it comes spontaneously and the person you end up with might not be your favourite so some things are easier said than done.Though I agree with you on the issue of HIV.

BreezyRita:

Here!

Aprime:



I swear to God, all ignorant people are the same.
Well it's entertaining. keep drowning in your folly!

tosyne2much:
What a brilliant write-up by Mizmycoli

Btw, this write up no con-sign me because I don't even know what the kitty-cat of a full grown lady looks like

Lol
Your recent threads on ladies and virgins give credence to your post.

clevvermind:
i don't ask them but it's a risk i'm taking. Staying out of sex before marriage will save you from a whole lot of thing. One can use a condom but condom can fail and you will be exposed. By the way, how many girls will one test before marriage? Some people are on their 15th testing and still counting. It just don't argur well. It seems like i'm sounding like a pastor now. Abeg i nor be pastor o.
It is good to stay away from pre marital sex but you know say body nor be firewood na.
I dey feel you sha.

Make i go sleep now. I don dey type rubbish because of sleep eye.

JoeCutie:
You? This babe. You?! -_-

BreezyRita:


Joe! Joe! Wetin ah do you??

Kachisbarbie:



How is it very true, Mikey?
If one gets married a virgin, you can also turn an addict (new thing dey shark). The husband can actually get tired of servicing the wife too.
That's when we see threads like "My Husband Doesn't Make Love To Me Often"

Karleb:


Don't take him serious, that's probably what his Pastor's wife told him.

InZA:
Hmmm.

Some very sane comments here.

Please don't reply this quote, just laugh along with me.

I just woke up and first thing I did was log on to NL.

WHY?

I had a dream.
It was on the papers and NL HP with about 70 thread pages.

Lalastica got married to Berrrrem.

Yeah, my dreams can be weird like that (I ain't kidding)

obongproff:
bros most of d tins u sed are half-truths.

obongproff:
But dis one is completely baseless and clueless.

obongproff:
So pastors way day divorce everywia now na premarital sex day cos am abi?

obongproff:
Oh I forgot, its d spirit of premarital sex dat day didnt deliver themselves from dat has come back to hunt them by destroying dia marriages abi?

obongproff:
Ur definitely speaking from a myopic point of view.

obongproff:
I tot u were wiser dan dis.

obongproff:
Am so so disappointed.

joseph1832:
Those who say such obviously don't know the history of their religion. Religion as it is has been the bane of human existence! Take Nigeria for example, every President, is either christian or moslem, you would expect they live up to their religious beliefs, but reverse is the case!. When Karl Marx said "religion is the opiate of the masses" he definitely knew what he was talking about!.

I should add that those saying religion is what is keeping we humans from tearing eachother apart are so wrong!. If they want to know, the things keeping we humans from tearing eachother apart is 'The Law', not these yeye religious law but the law made by man! It is against the law to kill a fellow man, you do that and you go to jail, it is also against the law to take what doesn't belong to you, you do that you go to jail!.

Religious law has only provided ground for many to perpetuate acts of unspeakable margin! Especially in a country as religious as Nigeria.

To your post! there is absolutely nothing wrong with two consenting adults having sex! Everybody you see or hear criticizing it do so because their 'religion' say so. It is not even stipulated in the constitution that we shouldn't have sex!.

So anybody saying sex is bad is just saying his/her own version! For me, it is awesome and I'll have it as many times as I like!. Plain and simple. Whoever has a problem with it should go and chew a cucumber!.

Tallesty1:
Complete them for me nah......
Clueless. You shouldn't have used that word because I will soon expose the height of your cluelessnes.
The poster warned that we should not bring religion into this, so pastors as far as this post is concerned are not different from you and I.
Sir, having sex with a person bonds one to them. Some call it romantic ties, I have no name for it but I know that a great sex with a person is unforgettable. The memory always comes back even if you are a pope. That is why we see people comparing their spouse with their ex, something that wouldn't have happened if there was no ex.

If the ex is better than the spouse, the person will start lusting after him/her and may cheat with him/her.

Your marriage is in a deep mess once you start wishing your partner could do one or two things better than your previous partner.
Maybe, but I still make sense more than you.
King Solomon. Pre-marital sex affects our marriages in a way and contributes greatly to the high rate of divorce in our generation
You really should be, not in me thou but in yourself.

joseph1832:
Those who say such obviously don't know the history of their religion. Religion as it is has been the bane of human existence! Take Nigeria for example, every President, is either christian or moslem, you would expect they live up to their religious beliefs, but reverse is the case!. When Karl Marx said "religion is the opiate of the masses" he definitely knew what he was talking about!.

I should add that those saying religion is what is keeping we humans from tearing eachother apart are so wrong!. If they want to know, the things keeping we humans from tearing eachother apart is 'The Law', not these yeye religious law but the law made by man! It is against the law to kill a fellow man, you do that and you go to jail, it is also against the law to take what doesn't belong to you, you do that you go to jail!.

Religious law has only provided ground for many to perpetuate acts of unspeakable margin! Especially in a country as religious as Nigeria.

To your post! there is absolutely nothing wrong with two consenting adults having sex! Everybody you see or hear criticizing it do so because their 'religion' say so. It is not even stipulated in the constitution that we shouldn't have sex!.

So anybody saying sex is bad is just saying his/her own version! For me, it is awesome and I'll have it as many times as I like!. Plain and simple. Whoever has a problem with it should go and chew a cucumber!.

Tallesty1:
Complete them for me nah......
Clueless. You shouldn't have used that word because I will soon expose the height of your cluelessnes.
The poster warned that we should not bring religion into this, so pastors as far as this post is concerned are not different from you and I.
Sir, having sex with a person bonds one to them. Some call it romantic ties, I have no name for it but I know that a great sex with a person is unforgettable. The memory always comes back even if you are a pope. That is why we see people comparing their spouse with their ex, something that wouldn't have happened if there was no ex.
If the ex is better than the spouse, the person will start lusting after him/her and may cheat with him/her.
Your marriage is in a deep mess once you start wishing your partner could do one or two things better than your previous partner.
Maybe, but I still make sense more than you.
King Solomon. Pre-marital sex affects our marriages in a way and contributes greatly to the high rate of divorce in our generation
You really should be, not in me thou but in yourself.

Tallesty1:
Complete them for me nah......
Clueless. You shouldn't have used that word because I will soon expose the height of your cluelessnes.
The poster warned that we should not bring religion into this, so pastors as far as this post is concerned are not different from you and I.
Sir, having sex with a person bonds one to them. Some call it romantic ties, I have no name for it but I know that a great sex with a person is unforgettable. The memory always comes back even if you are a pope. That is why we see people comparing their spouse with their ex, something that wouldn't have happened if there was no ex.
If the ex is better than the spouse, the person will start lusting after him/her and may cheat with him/her.
Your marriage is in a deep mess once you start wishing your partner could do one or two things better than your previous partner.
Maybe, but I still make sense more than you.
King Solomon. Pre-marital sex affects our marriages in a way and contributes greatly to the high rate of divorce in our generation
You really should be, not in me thou but in yourself.

malonephills:
ordinarily,there are issues we should question even
about the so called holy books....
If I should stress my point in rocket science formality,I
would say those mere warnings,soothsayings and
spiritual consequences enshrined in the scriptures of
religious literature compendium(bible and quran) were
to serve as a deterrence to then growing medieval
populace whose ignorance knew no limits!!!
Imagine someone said to me "I can't kill because I am
a christain"...so,if you weren't a christain, would you
kill?? these things are commonsensical!!
those who invented these "brainwashing mechanisms"
exported them to us and our love of foreign ideas and
ideologies made us assimilate them hook,sinker and
line!!!
Little wonder that the missionaries that brought
Christianity from England had converted their
auditoriums,mission houses to brothels and beer
parlours long ago..
if someone could disprove what the bible meant about
the rich men and the hardship involved in getting to
heaven with stern comparison with "donkey and needle
hole" just to justify nigerian pastors living in luxuries
while congregants were suffering, it would be
disheartening to hear arguers against premarital sex
resolve to religious frameworks to drive home their
points!!! objectivity is very much required!

AgapeCharis:
I don't mean to be mean but......you are so clueless!

FriedPlantain:
[b]I'm not a virgin but outside religious reasons, here are other reasons why I think pre-marital sex should be frowned upon.

1. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.

2.Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. It is a well known fact that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life.

3. Majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.

4. If you date and you don't have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character.Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you.

True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital sex. They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all - the love nest of marriage.

friedplantain[/b]

Sleekshady:
The stigma follows you into marriage as you can never forget those whom you've had sex with before marriage and the thoughts lingers in your memory every now and then which could as well cause a psychological effect in you and your marriage.

ghostofsparta:
M izMyColi

[b]Interesting question, well...I've almost concluded on the outlook that it is probably only in Nigeria that sex has morphed from being a conservatively overvalued act exclusive to a variation of connubial practices peculiar to our society to a sybaritic means by which all manners of materialistic demands can thereupon be negotiated and as cherryice generalized it as an all African thing, I came to disagree on my view and that of hers since neither of us has been through the lifestyles of other non-Nigerian.

South Africans who I think are as much sexually open and expressive as most Americans may find it be displeasing...

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MizMyColi:


Waow!
That's you featuring me on your blog!!!!
Waow again!!!
Thanks.

I agree with most of your views y'know.....Its just I'm not cool with calling christians names in a rather demeaning manner.
To each his own path.

ummm....Could you please use this link instead, for where you have my moniker I mean,, https://plus.google.com/+MizMyColi
Thanks much.