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My Husband joystick Is Too Small To Satisfy Me / He Does Not Satisfy Me, Doesn’t Last A Minute In Bed —wife / 'my Husband Cannot Satisfy Me Sexually'..... Wife (2) (3) (4)
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Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Samabu07(m): 5:39pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
May be he has much sugar in his blood...he should desist intake of sugar diets, and chew lots of bitter kola nuts....sex would be more fun for the both of you. Cheers! |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by darkroses(m): 5:39pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
@ op u must be good wife, kip it up Next u are making love wit him, try to be on top of him for a long time after little pre-sex romance. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by harry509: 5:40pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
pumacy:my advice is dis. Tell him 2 stp thinkn wen he is makin love wit yu and also tell him 2 stp sugari stuff I head dat 2much of suga weaken man erection on time. And 4 yu 2 also enjoy ur sex, don't jst leav all d work 4 him alone so...dat Yur hubby wudt get tired on time. If posible try as much 2 stay on top him wen avin sex,dis wil nt make him release on time. Afta sum time ask him if he wana release den if YES try quickly 2 chnge position so dat he wil release nside yu. Afta 9mnths belt me bancin baby boy or gal on d way. Tank me later |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by 360command: 5:41pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
pumacy:naturally, there are people like your husband that cums quickly no matter the medicals he has undergone or the food he eats... Sometimes things happens this way but I believe in "check yourself". What I mean is he needs to understand his body to know why he cums too quickly. My advice would be : 1)Use a condom.. With condom, one can tend to last longer. With more practice, it should be fine.. 2) I would suggest you try sit ontop of him and ride him, this way it reduces the tendency of him cumming.. Be slow about it and increase... Ensure,it does not stop here but encourage sex position.. 3)Since he cums often, he shud not release inside you.. Let him release outside... Trust me, there is no feeling other than releasing inside a woman making u feel satisfied... Its psychology which I cannot explain.... If he cums outside u, he feels not complete as to his pen1s wud b up(I suppose)... So embrace him for a second round by massaging the pen1s.... Keep practising this method and I am sure he wud get usedto it and before you know it, he shud be able last longer in the 1st round.. People are different, he needs to understand his body. I do not believe in drugs to do the trick for a man.. I see sex to be natural and he shud find natural ways to heal himself... Good thing he likes sex very well... 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Wealthycharles(m): 5:43pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
pumacy:does he drink too much beer,stout or even soft drink?is he treating high blood pressure ?he needs more of watermelon,banana,garlic,ginsin,cucumber,carrot,bitterkola,vegetables.reduce salt and sugar intake,exercise more to burn out excess sugar,drink more water regularly befor sex and after sex,abstain from energy drinks,engage in sex more and more cos regular sex help burn out sugar n keep d heart healthy. If he does dis tins,his staminal will improve overtime.it is not automatic sha but regular doing will improve his staminal to last long,I'm talking frm experience. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by whao: 5:48pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
prettyjo: What a funny advice ever! Since you don't believe in medication, how on earth do you believe watching pornography can help? And for how long can they continue watching it and seriously what can they learn from it? And you think the lasted as portrayed on the movies? Pls don't drag this innocent couples in watching stuff that re not real. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by folhenrry4flizzy(m): 5:48pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
temitemi1:this method works for me |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by unbrandedcosy(m): 5:52pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
U should not rush into making love immediately u remove ur cloths. Start first with pre-intimacy, don't rush it ,sex is not ment to be rushed ,is ment to enjoyed. Tell him to remove his mind from the sex and focus it in another thing, I bet u both of u will enjoy it. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by ababanwoke(m): 5:53pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
pumacy:You just need to make him relax,its psychological dear,all you need to do is to make him relax,I think he is scared of sex,and also if he drinks a lot,he should also reduce it too,I was once a victim,there other ways which I can't make public |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Agli(m): 5:54pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
FEMLAW: I will suggest the stop and start method. This is cos it worked for me, I cld hardly last 1 minute when making love but some yrs bak, a guy on nairaland sent me a book on how to cure PE and I used the stop and star method I saw in d book and I am can confidently tell u that today, I come anytime I want to. Again some1 suggested you avoid the missionary position for now cos it makes a man cum faster and I buy into that. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by crackhouse(m): 5:56pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
All these issue of bitter kola, sugar, banana and whatever is rubbish. It only takes ur state of mind at that moment to last long, that's all. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by shepherdnoble: 5:56pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
He only needs a touch from God thru' Prophet TB Joshua or any other strong man of God to be free. Seek the face of God! |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by bastien: 5:57pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
pumacy:many of the guys here advising u can't even last more than 2mins,lemme just say I'm ur hubby kind,I don't last more than 3mins or even up to,but I do come back strong and last looooonger without waiting for 2hrs like ur hubby........ there was a day I made love,just within 30secs I cum, I was ashamed and she looks disappointed, I just told her to dress up I went out,thinking about my mistakes, I was warmed to stop sugary things, but refused. After so much thought I went back, she still looks sad, I asked her if she wants us to try again,Well this time she cried lol, that was when I learnt my mistake, learnt how to last long,the secret is ur man to man up,to try harder, he should take his mind away, thinking about something else eg "football match,Jonathan, Buhari, naijabet etc ", and when ever he feels like he wanna cum,he should log out,and use that opportunity to change style,doggy is one of the best longest sex style, he should know when to increase n decrease the tempo, going fast/faster will make him last long,but when he feels its about to cum he should reduce the tempo and log out changing position. .. lastly since u both are married, he should learn not to log out when he cum, he should continue banging, the dickkk won't fall,it will pick up from there, he should also not touch his diccck or diccck cap,when he cum, doing so will cause the dickkkk to fall instantly...... goodluck Hope it helps sha Happy married life dear 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by chucky234(m): 5:59pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
sexyseun:Badt girl, my NL crush. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 6:01pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
U see? Disadvantage of not doing it before marriage. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Judie7654(f): 6:01pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
I am going to be sincere with you. Firstly, i think you've had many sexual escapades and you're kinda unconsciously measuring it with someone else. If you haven't and just love sex,then you should do something. Do you know what marriage is at all?. You had time to post this on Nairaland?. Then the problem isn't serious yet. Don't you have access to the Internet, or are you part of the major community that have phones just for social media. In talking to him about it,you have to be careful not to hurt his ego. I think you should do lots of research, talk to a doctor and probably pray... Yes,you heard me right,pray. I'm kinda one of those who believes we should pray about everything we need help for. May God give you the appropriate wisdom, strengthen and make your marriage wonderful. besides, i didnt mean to be harsh,i understand perfectly the importance of good intimacy in marriage. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 6:04pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
pumacy:put ur picture let me see how we can help.*abi guys* |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by bukatyne(f): 6:04pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
koboko69: This would work for a husband not willing. If she follows This advice, it would her husband cum quicker. During dunging, he should withdraw for a second and continue again... it will break the flow. Goodluck @ OP |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by esiri4jesu(m): 6:05pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
With time you guys will certainly understand each other better most especially with the way you are going about it. Before he enters you, he should relax and do more of the fore play when he enters you he should not start digging immediately. He should purse for about two to three minutes, this will relax him. He should be involve in exercises and the kigal ( I think l am correct with the spelling) exercise too. Lastly, the bitter kola stuff is recommended. Do have a wonderful marriage life. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by ak4God(m): 6:07pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Yungas: Tramadol have so many side effects.It CAN CAUSE ADDICTION, OVERDOSE, OR DEATH 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 6:07pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Judie7654:hmm! sabi woman,your hubby go like u. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 6:12pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
sexyseun:chisos! u can have me,those one are married 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by deavicky(m): 6:12pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
pumacy:this is why I'm on the opinion that u test b4 u marry. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by koboko69: 6:15pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
bukatyne: i do not agree with u. from all indications the guy is willing, yes, but from what i can deduce, he hasnt been a sex person before now. the way a man feels after his first sex is quite different from how a woman feels. the explosive sweet feeling, wil make him want more of sex,cos he is new to the game, the feelings is too strong to control. but we frequent sex, and encouragement from his wife, he gets better. The reason for the seduction this is if he gets bored after a couple of shots. trust me, telling him, he is not satisfying her will kill his ego, and do more damage. no man likes the feeling of a woman telling u that. i feel with frequent sex and games like what i said earlier should help in a way. like hail him, when he lasts a little longer than usual..during like the 3 hrs match, and telling him u wish he could do more, boosting his morale, but deep down u know u are configuring him to what u want till you get there. trust me all men likes to hear a woman hail their sexual performance |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by makooma: 6:18pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Try different styles of sex then u may be lucky to find one or two styles ok |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 6:20pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
one man's meat is another man's poison, me that girls and my ashewo complain that I don't cum quickly, sometimes it takes me 45 to 50minute to cum. ah am I normal sha. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by chucky234(m): 6:21pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
sexyseun:Stop lying, who says men with high libido are jobless men, sure you did that research in Mars. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by deavicky(m): 6:25pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
pumacy:u ve seen it now. You knew u like sex and u did not consider it before u married him. now it's becoming an issue. I prey u manage the situation very well if not things like this end up being a problem. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Nobody: 6:27pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
pumacy:Ok then... Maybe he is not doing enough exercise. Tell him to jog long distances twice in a day ,six times a week on a routine basis.In the morning and evenings.Also he should engage in kick boxing and regular boxing and also little press ups once in a while.I am tellng you if he does this he will be a super hero in the bedroom.Exercise always boost someone's sexual appetite. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by PLEXPLEX(m): 6:28pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
pre-intimacy SHOULD BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY I.E TO MAKE U KINDA BE ON THE SAME PAGE AFTER WHICH U SHOULD TAKE HIM WITH U ON TOP & MAKE SURE EVERY THRUSH BRUSHES UR CLITORIS.....I AM SURE THE STORY LL B DIFFERENT TRUST ME |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by audiigee(m): 6:31pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Does he last long in the second round? If the answer is yes,the he should get anti-anxiety medication that will produce the require amout of sarotin which helps blood flow to the organ and reduces tension. In two weeks u can come and give your testimony. fruits like Banana and water melon will help increase blood flow and make him stock more. |
Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by joe4christ(m): 6:35pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
pumacy: What your hubby is suffering from is more of psychological, tell him i say he should quench every form of anxiety and he shouldn't put all his mind into it when banging, he should be slowly driving for a start, he can only increase the velocity with time as he get more accustom to it (A Pro) Tell him also, i say he should stop staring at your pretty face whenever he's doing it cos that would make him loose control... If he continually practice this steps, i can guarantee him lasting an hour non-stop with time... Happy married life! |
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