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Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by Nobody: 10:20pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Pls this is really a serious matter but the fact is, I have fear of getting married, this issue of long term commitment really pisses me off. I know it may sound weird but I tend to run away fem places Where marriage is being discussed. I develop nausea and excessive sweating sometimes. One big problem is that am the first and only son of my parents and I don't know how my mom would react when I tell her. pls I need advice |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by Nobody: 10:27pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Here comes another attention seeker 2 Likes |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by delishpot: 10:30pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by Nobody: 10:33pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
ALKARULEZZ:bro am Serious |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by Chazzyboy: 10:34pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
danyel09:u choose to be single forever? |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by Nobody: 10:39pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
danyel09:Legend of the Attention_Seeker 1 Like |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by Nobody: 10:44pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
Chazzyboy:a baby mama will do, but d marriage tin doea not want to click |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by Mubbyleey(m): 10:46pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
ChaII sOmE NaIja GuYs GeT pRoBleMs ShaAa... PLs alWays KiPP Ya ProB tO yA SeF |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by ronald4lif(m): 10:46pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
I don't know how old or mature you are and I am not in anyway trying to berate your age or maturity. But I think with time you will overcome your fears and worries over marital union. By the time you approach a certain age, maturity and some great sense of responsibility you will start seeing things differently. Just like every woman, most men equally want to have a child of their own, someone to look after them when they aged and inherit the family name after they must have left the world. And more importantly, having children from a broken home, in this case baby mama or an unrecognised marital institution, is hardly the best option, hence men get married. Like I pointed out at first, when you get to these stages of life your mentality towards marriage is likely to change. Just give it some time |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by Nobody: 10:47pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
ALKARULEZZ:its a pity u not mature, I'll jxt ignore u ret@rD |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by Nobody: 10:49pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
ronald4lif:tanx bro, I hope it works |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by ronald4lif(m): 10:57pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
danyel09: You are welcome bro. Hopefully it will. But I also have to admit marriage is beginning to get scary every day. With the rates of divorce and seeing young children from a divorce home who are the major victims of their parents split, and many other issues marriage scares a lot of people. It appears marriage now has deviated from what it use to be, like love and two people who really want to be together than to a union of individual parochial interest. Once this interest are not mets, there's trouble and most cases separation and divorce comes in. One can only pray they meet the right person made for them |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by passionate88: 10:57pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
danyel09:Then go for it.. Baby mama is not that frowned upon in Nigeria |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by Nobody: 11:09pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
danyel09:only retards resort to insults |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by asdfjklhaha(f): 11:32pm On Feb 01, 2015 |
danyel09:Wat u need is maturity, wit time u wuld get there there's no need rushing. |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by Sanchez01: 7:24am On Feb 02, 2015 |
danyel09:It's a pity you're going through this but it's somewhat expected for someone who is defined by the bolded. It seems you're still strongly tied to your mum and that explains why you're more concerned about how she'll react. Give it some time, read books on relationships and commitments and take a personal step to be the man you're short oof |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by Nobody: 11:17am On Feb 02, 2015 |
Sanchez01:Truely I don't know how to thank u guyz enough, uv bin really helpful Now I know nairaland still got some sensible people 1 Like |
Re: Help !!!!! I Have Gamophobia by Sanchez01: 12:34pm On Feb 02, 2015 |
danyel09:Lolz... Nairaland is not that bad. You're welcome |
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