ronald4lif:
I ll just be stopping by to read comments, I have non problem to talk about but will be glad to learn from others issues

tosyne2much:
Sister Mizmycoli, I don't even know what to ask

There are loads of ten things to ask...just think

jhidey08:
i'm glad u r.


Lemme giv u an overview of d kinda person i am first. I m a very jovial person, so i find it very easy to mix with people, including gals. I treat dem wit utmost respect, 13months ago i Neva liked d concept of 'boyfriend and girlfriend', i believed dere was no difference between being an ordinary friend wit a gal and 'toasting' her, i was probably wrong or being shallow. I jst kept everybody as my friend. Until dis fateful day when i was discussing wit ma friends and dey accused me of two things- probably being a homosexual or afraid of talking to d gals i lyk. Fortunately and unforrunately for me, i met dis young beautiful 100 gal 3days after our discussion, i took it upon maself to prove dem wrong by going close to her and making her my girlfriend. Dat's d moment i signed emotional trouble bill for maself. My ba3 'll go off nw, i'll continue later in d day.

Adaobi12:
I always have this fear, that I might end up with the wrong man. this little voice keeps telling me, if you are not careful, you will make a mistake in the choice of life partner.

Hi there

I once had to deal with such demon of wrong, very wrong and inciting thoughts.

Because of a dream I had and the interpretation someone gave me, I began to court thoughts in those lines too.

However, I discovered that the more I focused on the creator's love for me, the more those thoughts let me be.

For example, there are times when I begin to get the feeling that some really bad people or things are after me.

What I just do is speak;

No matter how powerful you are, no matter how powerful they are.
They are not more powerful than the spirit of Christ that lives in me.
I honestly don't care what you have done against my day, against my future.
WHAT MATTERS
Is what Abba is saying about me, what he has done once and for all for me.

Despite my past hurts, failures and mistakes, He calls me holy, he says I'm beautiful.
I am the daughter of the king.
I'm not afraid, I'm not dismayed.
Ha! Things have no option but work in my favor.
I swim in all that is good and lovely.................................................

This is not an all situation fix.
There is a spirit in you that is greater than all negativity.
Access that spirit, ask for help when you feel so helpless against those strongholds and vain imaginations.

Stop agreeing with that thought.
Counter every negative word you hear with positivity.
Your mind is the battle field.

The only power your enemies have over you is the one you've given them.

I do not have any rational proof to back up my claims, but I am very sure of this.
There is POWER IN POSITIVE CONFESSION.

MizMyColi:


Hi there

I once had to deal with such demon of wrong, very wrong and inciting thoughts.

Because of a dream I had and the interpretation someone gave me, I began to court thoughts in those lines too.

However, I discovered that the more I focused on the creator's love for me, the more those thoughts let me be.

For example, there are times when I begin to get the feeling that some really bad people or things are after me.

What I just do is speak;


This is not an all situation fix.
There is a spirit in you that is greater than all negativity.
Access that spirit, ask for help when you feel so helpless against those strongholds and vain imaginations.

Stop agreeing with that thought.
Counter every negative word you hear with positivity.
Your mind is the battle field.

The only power your enemies have over you is the one you've given them.

I do not have any rational proof to back up my claims, but I am very sure of this.
There is POWER IN POSITIVE CONFESSION.

cloudyskyglind:

My question to you is this: has it ever occurred to you that most life situations needs more - if you like, hands-on approach in solving them? Some people go through stuff in life that has completely altered the way they think . I'm a Christian and i believe even born again Christians should seek for professional help when needed. Now this is not me attacking you but rather deviating slightly from your approach. In summary, some people need psychological help.

mhyra:
Help me!! I dont know how to 'stay' in relationships. I've had two, and i dismissed them for reasons dat make no sense to me

Hi there

Mind sharing the circumstances that led to the beginning and end of these relationships?

prettythicksme:
#playboy team i guess

TheRealAdonye:
I've camped here o!

__And you couldn't help reserve a seat here for me.

@mzmycoli: *peeping from the window.* I ll be here soon with my questions.

tolutweety:


__And you couldn't help reserve a seat here for me.

@mzmycoli: *peeping from the window.* I ll be here soon with my questions.

Same here

InZA:
Just here to:
#EnjoyTheBrillianceOfTheOp
#LearnNewWords e.g "mettle"
#Otherthings.

MizMyColi:
@Jhidey08
First mistake you made was engaging a girl in a romantic chit-chat because you wanted to prove your mettle to yourself and your friends.

That's one recipe and equally a cute way to court emotional disaster.

But don't be discouraged. Please continue with your story.

Holla when your phone's charged up.
Btw, what's your month and date of birth?

sweetbaby22:


jhidey08 did you really fall in love with this lady or you just made her your girlfriend to prove that you can talk to a lady? I think you caused the emotional trouble bill for yourself. Be free with urself and love freely, you will be happy.

jhidey08:
so i approached dis gal through one of her friends and wot i expected wasnt wot i met. I felt since she ws a jambito she would d easy to get- dat ws foolish of me, she resisted being my friend d first tym i spoke wit her on fone and dat ws hw i started picking interest in her. Yo cut d long story short i fell in luv wit dis gal and she accepted to b a friend afta much pestering frm me. D gal i knw while chatting Is different frm d one i call on fone and d one i talk one on one with. She's alwys a diff person in doze medium of communication. Afta abt 6months of our k-legged friendship i tld her wot i felt for her and she ws lyk 'nothing can eva happen btw us', as a gentle guy i accepted wot she said and promised maself neva to disturb her again, my friends tld me dat i av to fight for wot i want and gud things dont come easily, i pushed again bt discovered she ws nt jst into me. Lyk 3 weeks ago i met anoda jambito (i'm in 400lv nw) who ws forming hard to get for d first 40mins dat i met her bt later became friendly afta much scoping and started showing sum funny signs dat same nyt.

190:
Person wen never even marry na she una dey ask marital questions