ladygogo:

clown! abegi! you dont expect the chidinma you left in Ituku 25 years to still be the same person. Heck, the Coogar of 25 years ago isnt the same Coogar. Besides, most of the couples in this article have a wider age difference , are you telling me the men started dating them when they were in diapers!

Anyway, when the time comes I trust you wont go back to the village to pick up some random girl. hehehehe.

SirShymexx:
@Coogar
I've got a webseries for you that's like The Wire - it's about Flatbush in Brooklyn. Acting isn't that professional, but the script is cray. Once you watch the first and 2nd episodes, you won't stop till you watch the whole series.
Also, you should be able to relate easily cos it's somewhat like what goes on in London bits as well.

carefreewannabe:


Is it what you read into my posts? Re-read, please.

Now tell me what a man gives up when he has kids.

Nonso23:


That is not manipulation at all. It is self preservation.
The problem with these men is their lack of education. If they knew just a little bit more maybe they will be free and their wives brooding over their failed mission.
But I disagree. They are not weak, they only handled the situation the best way they could. Prison life, wife gone, no kids responsibility, free food and shelter in prison. Possibility of parole even. Very extreme but rational too.
It takes balls to carry out this agenda. Weakness is the last word to describe it.

Sophyrocks:


Have women here not gone through worse in Nigeria? Did these women go on shooting spree like their male counterparts abroad? Please you are clearly justifying murder by constantly pointing at the women. I wonder what the views here would be if it were women doing the killing. No matter what a woman does to you, no matter how acidic her mouth is to you, you dnt commit MURDER madam!! You dnt!! stop with the justification!!

mutter:
When you have nothing to live for, then you have everything to die for!

The fact that it keeps happening shows that the men are not all suddenly going mad.

A man that had worked so hard brought his much younger wife here to Germany, when they come to church the wife was so rude to the man, perhaps because she was better educated. I quickly grabbed hold of her and drew her aside. I warned her that her husband was respected in this community and if she ever tried it again where I was I would shred her to bits. Foolish girl!

These greedy bitches accept a man they do not love and are ashamed of just to get out of Nigeria and then they want to ruin the man.
Do you know that these men have worked so hard for so many years! Received all kinds of insults from society and then you bring this young girl and she gives you the final insult to let you know you are = 0.
How many of them come here with nothing and soon the man is out of his own home on the streets and having to pay maintenance.
When the study in America, they are able to do so because the man brought them there.
Nursing is not even a good paying job, like any menial job you can gather money if you work enough hours. While they are at work they cannot perform as wife`s so of what use is the work if it does not benefit the family?

No matter how educated or how much money they have a woman must humble herself and treat her husband with the utmost respect in all situations. That is not just good for the man but also for the children. The children are raised in an environment where the learn respect and manners.
That is what you get when a man that has struggled for years gets dragged into the mud in his own home. A man that has struggled and faced discrimination and abuse outside. Treat him like a king at home so that he can feel like the man he is, that will give him the strength to keep struggling.
Instead these women get rude, function like they don`t have a family, neglect the welfare of their husbands and homes and go running after the dollars.

soulglo:


Please be my guest and make a table then post here. Please feel free to post examples of women who earned more than their spouses and still collected spousal support. I'm waiting. I don't have time for sentiments. I'm going with facts. Please for my sake when you are going on one of your legendary emotional rants use italics. Then when you switch back use regular font. That way I can bypass the bullshit and get to the one sentence that really has any bearing on what you quoted

pickabeau1:


Implicit in your post is that by having a child for a man
You did It for him hence your quest to be compensated for all you in giving him a child

Kachisbarbie:


I personally have this view about Westerners. I feel, a whole lot of them have mental problems innately. They only wait for the "right time" to strike.

Whatever the woman did, can never be enough reason to murder her. Our Nigerian women- go through a whole lot in marriages...they don't go killing sprees.

coogar:

what's it called?
are you sure it's not the one channel 4 did last year? top boy?

Kachisbarbie:


I personally have this view about Westerners. I feel, a whole lot of them have mental problems innately. They only wait for the "right time" to strike.

Whatever the woman did, can never be enough reason to murder her. Our Nigerian women- go through a whole lot in marriages...they don't go killing sprees.

raumdeuter:


I am proposing you dont give up job or career you decline

It looks the man has no choice

Would you cohabit and not marry NO

Would you marry and not have kids NO

Would you have kids and get a babysitter so you dont lose millions? NO

The only thing you want is for the man to pay for choices you made willingly not under duress

Prenups are known to be bendable by the law and why not a case where no one stay at home and everyone makes up to their potential?

InvertedHammer:
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A good number of those women come from poor families.

When they make $80k/yr, for their mind they are "Folorunsho Alakija" or Oprah Winfrey.

Bedside nursing sucks and could be depressing. But most immigrants are more interested in the dollar signs until they finally get to do
the work. It sucks more if one's background is not in healthcare.

They tend to forget that it is not necessarily how much you make, but how much you keep at the end of the month..

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SirShymexx:


It's not "Top Boy". Top boy is a UK thing, with Asher D and Kano.

It's called: money and violence. Just youtube it.

aisha2:
What happens here is what happens abroad.

Woman works with man to build a life, marries him poor, invests her money her youth her energy. Man hits it big, she suddenly isn't good enough, he throws her out and marries younger lover, she has nothing, old and tired she watches a younger woman enjoy the fruits of her labor and dies in misery and heart break.

Abroad, man hustles for years, makes enough money goes home picks a young " submissive" bride. They go abroad she sees the system goes crazy, kicks him out she doesn't need him, she earns a lot more, gets younger man, he is out in the cold, everything he works for gone with the wind, he is starting all over at 60 while pne young man is enjoying all he worked for all his life.

Its the same situation only difference is we hardly see headlines of " increase in rates of wives murdering their husband's " down here while the second one has loads of reports with people applauding and defending it

andromida:


But why did the men marry such women? and if the women are so evil why not divorce them?

Seeing as a woman can break a man he should do his due diligence to marry a woman who is good for him and become the kind of man who can command respect from his wife so that the children can learn how to respect themselves and others.

Sophyrocks:


Some random girl they know nothing about o. Thinking she is some naive girl who knows nothing. Forgeting that these same girls will act like romans in rome. Some men can be very f00lish and Naive. The belief that they can control these women is the cause. when things dnt go their way, they get frustrated and start shooting. I dnt even know why these men wait until they are sooooo old to marry sef.

carefreewannabe:
Divorce is such a lucrative job when you are not the one who is working. I wonder why not more men stay at home, take care of the kids, divorce and get rich.

anyanwustanley11:
please i need America connection visa

tpiah11:


most of your fellows who are killing their wives, are they not staying home?

Nonso23:

We aren't designed to be innately lazy

mutter:
When you have nothing to live for, then you have everything to die for!

The fact that it keeps happening shows that the men are not all suddenly going mad.

A man that had worked so hard brought his much younger wife here to Germany, when they come to church the wife was so rude to the man, perhaps because she was better educated. I quickly grabbed hold of her and drew her aside. I warned her that her husband was respected in this community and if she ever tried it again where I was I would shred her to bits. Foolish girl!

These greedy bitches accept a man they do not love and are ashamed of just to get out of Nigeria and then they want to ruin the man.
Do you know that these men have worked so hard for so many years! Received all kinds of insults from society and then you bring this young girl and she gives you the final insult to let you know you are = 0.
How many of them come here with nothing and soon the man is out of his own home on the streets and having to pay maintenance.
When the study in America, they are able to do so because the man brought them there.
Nursing is not even a good paying job, like any menial job you can gather money if you work enough hours. While they are at work they cannot perform as wife`s so of what use is the work if it does not benefit the family?

No matter how educated or how much money they have a woman must humble herself and treat her husband with the utmost respect in all situations. That is not just good for the man but also for the children. The children are raised in an environment where the learn respect and manners.
That is what you get when a man that has struggled for years gets dragged into the mud in his own home. A man that has struggled and faced discrimination and abuse outside. Treat him like a king at home so that he can feel like the man he is, that will give him the strength to keep struggling.
Instead these women get rude, function like they don`t have a family, neglect the welfare of their husbands and homes and go running after the dollars.

carefreewannabe:


I don't know, I don't have this kind of people in my environment, you might know better.

SirShymexx:


Lol. Apart from being logical being a myth in ya world - it also seems you've added acute glaucoma to it. That's double whammy of being incapacitated. Italics and emotional rants? - hysterical. When did I start posting in italics - apart from the few time I referenced articles (which I seldom do btw)? Emotional rants? - you must be confusing yaself with me - you need to go find ya tampons, it seems it's that time of the month again.

On spousal support: I know you have reading and comprehension problems, but go back to my previous post on where I cited a ratio of over 1000:1. That's inconsequential since the overwhelming majority of men earn more than women. When the ratio is that big, it becomes negligible.

Nonso23:

We aren't designed to be innately lazy