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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by nike4love: 6:57pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
This write up makes no sence,i dnt knw why we nigerians like to disgrace our nation b4 the whole world.of all the nations of the world naija is among the least that commits homicide nd suicide.u most nt look 4 reasons to paint naija black before the world,america itself has more criminals than any other nation but u wil never hear it frm her citizen.it time for nigerians to wise up nd stop been f..lish.every country has its ups nd downs. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by coogar: 6:58pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
ladygogo: she's still the same - we still talk regularly and as soon as i can afford the list her parents sent to me, i am heading off to ituku to complete the marriage rites. chidinma's perseverance wows me. any women that can stay steadfastly by me all these years in the midst of back-breaking temptations deserve my engagement ring. i don't want chidinma to join witchcraft cos i dumped her.
i will surprise you. i am sending you a personal invite for the trado-wedding. some of us are too honest to ditch our childhood girlfriends. ![]() SirShymexx: what's it called? are you sure it's not the one channel 4 did last year? top boy? |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 6:58pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Implicit in your post is that by having a child for a man You did It for him hence your quest to be compensated for all you in giving him a child 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by soulglo: 7:00pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Nonso23: Yes, as rational as Boko haram. Who does not have reasons for doing what they do. Armed robbers have their reasons too. The man who breaks into a home and rapes the madam of the house at gun point had his reasons too. Get real Abeg. It takes strength to overcome issues you are dealing with. A weakling picks up a weapon and kills others. In fact I have more respect for the ones who kill themselves. These idiots cannoy but they will get patted on the back inspite of the fact they have taken lives. Exactly the way they got patted on the back simply because they existed. Keep patting them on the back. All the way to the electric chair. 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:01pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: I personally have this view about Westerners. I feel, a whole lot of them have mental problems innately. They only wait for the "right time" to strike. Whatever the woman did, can never be enough reason to murder her. Our Nigerian women- go through a whole lot in marriages...they don't go on killing sprees. 6 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by InvertedHammer: 7:02pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
/ A good number of those women come from poor families. When they make $80k/yr, for their mind they are "Folorunsho Alakija" or Oprah Winfrey. Bedside nursing sucks and could be depressing. But most immigrants are more interested in the dollar signs until they finally get to do the work. It sucks more if one's background is not in healthcare. They tend to forget that it is not necessarily how much you make, but how much you keep at the end of the month.. \ 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by dammytosh: 7:02pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
mutter: God Bless Your Mother. This is not you talking but years of good training and thank you for accepting the training. No man Should Kill A Lady For Any Reason. Let Her Go. There Are a lot of Better and Right Thinking Ladies like mutter 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by SirShymexx: 7:05pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
soulglo: Lol. Apart from being logical being a myth in ya world - it also seems you've added acute glaucoma to it. That's double whammy of being incapacitated. Italics and emotional rants? - hysterical. When did I start posting in italics - apart from the few time I referenced articles (which I seldom do btw)? Emotional rants? - you must be confusing yaself with me - you need to go find ya tampons, it seems it's that time of the month again. ![]() On spousal support: I know you have reading and comprehension problems, but go back to my previous post on where I cited a ratio of over 1000:1. That's inconsequential since the overwhelming majority of men earn more than women. When the ratio is that big, it becomes negligible. 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:05pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I never said, I did it for him and I never said I should be compensated for giving him a child. I should be compensated for giving up on my career since somebody has to. And since he is not ready to make this sacrifice, he has to make another one. Fair enough. He hasn't given up on anything and therefore the divorce does not affect him. I have given up on my career and will have to start all over, possibly not having the chance to catch up again. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by abbey621(m): 7:06pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: I have to disagree with you, is it not in Nigeria where we see several cases of Women hiring assassins to kill their husband, is it not the same Nigeria where women patronize witchcraft just to control their husband or preserve their marriage? The cases pointed out by the OP is far and few, it represents a minority when we look at the number of married Nigerian couples living abroad. Individual personality matters a lot in these cases, a combination of a weak/violent man mixed with a stress filled situation. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by SirShymexx: 7:07pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
coogar: It's not "Top Boy". Top boy is a UK thing, with Asher D and Kano. It's called: money and violence. Just youtube it. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:07pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: Truly, ive found out whites are very emotional beings with a different sort of mentality towards life. A lot of disorders are found amongst them. That could account for the mental issues they face. And Yes, there is absolutely No Excuse for one to take the life another. i wonder the many men in nigeria that would have been killed by their wives going by the logic of 'murderers' in this thread. You can see that the males commenting since the thread started are capable of such hence the justification. Have you ever wondered why its only nigerian men that are doing the killing? 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:08pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
raumdeuter: Where did I say that I wouldn't give up on marriage? I have no intention to get married at all. I don't want him to pay for the choices I made, but be fair with regards to the choices WE made. Prenups are known to be bendable by the law and why not a case where no one stay at home and everyone makes up to their potential? I have already explained it. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:08pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah11: 7:09pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
InvertedHammer: you are really saying nothing (or else typing without sense, because every single thing you claimed here, is commonly applicable to all immigrants, regardless of field of work. would you turn up your nose at $80,000? ![]() are you from a rich family? If yes, why are you hustling overseas? ![]() which job is not depressing at some point? It all depends on the type of interaction or work dynamics which goes there. as per your last point, overseas is credit based economy, unlike nigeria which is cash based economy ie cash and carry, which has its pros but also leads to higher rates of insecurity, armed robbery, corruption, fraud, and other social ills. Surely you are aware of all these? But in your rush to exonerate murderers, you just had to type your two cents? ![]() anyway, lord have mercy. 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by coogar: 7:09pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
SirShymexx: i'll look it up, bro..... i have run out of TV series to watch. any known actor there? adewale agbaje? john boyega? ![]() |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:10pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Divorce is such a lucrative job when you are not the one who is working. I wonder why not more men stay at home, take care of the kids, divorce and get rich. ![]() ![]() ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by adconline(m): 7:11pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
aisha2:That's not entirely true.. There are more male home builders and breadwinners in Naija than abroad. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Movesz(m): 7:11pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
andromida: in the us divorce is more expensive than marriage. The problem is that there is too much freedom in the us....all in the name of fundalmental human right. So i dnt blam the men or the girls.. That the is american style.. The wild wild west. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by ladygogo: 7:11pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Yes na. These women will continue to show them pepper.There is a cab driver here that left his dutiful Jamaican wife(which was suprising to me because you know how jamo women are) to go marry some runs girl in Naija. While studying Nursing she was planning how she was going to leave her husband with her friend, not knowing the said friend was screwing her husband. Of course, the friend told her husband about her plans, and her husband hooked her down with pregnancy. She now has three kids, devastated, screws younger men, and are now going through a divorce. Like I always tell my Sister, it serves both parties right. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by anyanwustanley11(m): 7:11pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
please i need America connection visa |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah11: 7:12pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: most of your fellows who are killing their wives, are they not staying home? 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah11: 7:12pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
anyanwustanley11: dating section. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:12pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:13pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
tpiah11: I don't know, I don't have this kind of people in my environment, you might know better. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:13pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Nonso23: Of course not, making fast money is not a Nigerian trait, it's Asian. ![]() |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by justwise(m): 7:14pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
mutter: Some serious truth. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah11: 7:14pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: God forbid bad thing. I generally dont even contribute to this type of thread because i know miscreants and sociopaths will be the majority here. but sometimes you have to do such or else craze will be accepted as normal. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by soulglo: 7:14pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
SirShymexx: YAWN. You have actually said nothing 9 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:14pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Matthewbriggs(m): 7:15pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Nonso23: beautiful response 2 Likes |
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