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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:15pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
tpiah11: You are funny. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by hopeforcharles(m): 7:15pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
aisha2:Look aisha u were so hard on that woman, by the way, was she lying? Is it not what some of you girls do? U better stop attacking people like that, 9 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:16pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
aisha2: Aisha, you're a functioning illiterate. 9 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:16pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Redoil: heard this sooo many times from France, Italy, Australia, Germany, USA, Canada and London. Nigerian Women leverage the recognition of the female gender in developed countries to harass their Nigerian husbands anyhow.. this frustration have led many impatient men to murder. Many Nigerians living abroad avoid Nigerian women in relationships.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by manny4life(m): 7:16pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
tpiah11: You miss the whole point of his post, he is not exonerating murders but simply stating why most women are the cause of their own demise. Just because you make 80k as a nurse (which isn't really accurate) doesn't mean you should disrespect your husband. That man hustled his way, filed papers for you that cost thousands, did a whole lot for you, the least you can do is respect him even if he drives taxi and you're Mrs. Alakija 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah11: 7:16pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Nonso23: but you in particular are designed to be a murderer? who designed you like that? satan? btw, judging senselessly (as is your wont) is the epitome of laziness, surely you are aware of this. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:16pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by SirShymexx: 7:16pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
coogar: Nah, it's not even a UK thing - it's a yank thing. The funniest about it is that: these guys are basically hood nyggahs, with no prior acting skills, nor knowledge of filming/productions. I believe one of them just wrote a story about his experience, got his buddies together with a camera, and decided to make a web series last August. Low budget series. However, they ended up making a YouTube classic. When I saw it two weeks ago, each of the episodes had less than 20,000views - but right now, every single episode is on at least 500,000 views, with interviews everywhere. Major media companies are also trying to buy the rights to the series right now. They have been on major radio stations doing interviews since last week yano. Power of the internet and ability to create something out of nothing. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:16pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
abbey621:lols. Yeaayea, it happens in Nigeria too. Right now, I am not talking 'bout the Nigerians/Africans abroad, I mean people living there "generally". Nigerian woman go to that extent mainly because, the average Nigerian man isn't psyched to be controlled by a woman. Control here in definition, comes as low as taking opinions of his wife into consideration. You're very on point at individual personality - people have different ways of reacting to issues. I actually have this thought that for a man/woman to kill his/her partner...there is more to it than meets the eye. In the long-run, there is no justification for murder. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:16pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Nonso23:Or shamelessly take credit for another man's sweat. *disgusting 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:17pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
ladygogo: Lobatan. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 7:17pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: OK Why should you be compensated for giving up your career for your own child...... Why count the cost for yourself if u indeed see d kid as an extension of yourself If you take a career break now to surf in aspen Will you demand someone take d tab for all the sacrifices u made while not working... Except u see it as his.. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:17pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by AreaFada2: 7:19pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
andromida:. I do not exonerate men who kill their spouses. But as a woman, you should know how some women can pretend to get what they want: go to the West. In the belief things are rosy there. Even if you warn them things are not rosy. How can you tell the heart of anybody? You can only go on what a lady tells you. Some young women open their legs for very old or dirty guys to get money, iPhone, you name it. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah11: 7:19pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
manny4life: he made a lot of assumptions which he was trying to present as fact. It is not nigerian culture (although i cant speak for all cultures) to murder wives in the manner you people are discussing. These wives are people's children too, if your own wife or girlfriend did not murder you for your many shortcomings, then it is not acceptable for you to justify cold blooded murder. Unless you are one of the many who engage in these things back in nigeria, most under the excuse of rituals. this is one of the reasons why most people prefer to do thorough background checks before marriage, back home. You do not know what passes for normal in some. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by SirShymexx: 7:20pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
soulglo: Lol. Like I always told you - stop discussing things out of ya depth when it comes to issues with technicalities, especially the law in the west. Stick to issues about babies and STIs - I like you when you do that. At least, you do sound like you can be a good mother sometimes. 5 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:20pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Because it is OUR, not mine, not his, OUR child / children. We share the happiness and we divide the work and sacrifice. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:20pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by obowunmi(m): 7:21pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
aisha2: Mutter is known to have mental health issues. I suspect she is in an abusive relationship. 7 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah11: 7:21pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Nonso23: and a sociopath as well. 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by misreal(m): 7:22pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
mutter:I jealous the lucky man that will marry you.. 5 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by anyanwustanley11(m): 7:22pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
someone advice help a guy depressed tirés oh |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by centjamie(m): 7:22pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
mutter:omg! You just nailed it.this coming from a woman is simply awesome.your husband is blessed. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Horlawoomey(m): 7:22pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
coogar: She probably thought Nairaland is a one way traffic, I am even more irritated than you do. 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:22pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by misreal(m): 7:22pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
mutter:I jealous the lucky man that will marry you.. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:23pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
aisha2: I have always said it , this Mutter is a nutter. Nothing , and I repeat , NOTHING! can justify murder , for heaven sakes there are a lot of options for the man , killing a person isn't one of the options. Another thing I find wrong is bringing a woman to the US to slave for you , a man who is financially responsible for his family will get all the respect he deserves 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by ladygogo: 7:23pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
coogar: Yimu and have you been faithful to ChidinmaÉ. I will be waiting for the invite to you and Sheniqua`s wedding . Abi na Latiqua. hehehehe. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah11: 7:23pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
anyanwustanley11: abeg get lost if you have nothing worthwhile to say. probably one of the sociopaths in question. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by manny4life(m): 7:23pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
tpiah11: He never said it is a Nigerian culture, murder isn't a culture. I agree that these wives are people's children, but the point is that something led to the murder. Until such issues are addressed, these murders will continue. I did not see his post as a justification of murder (IMO). 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Ilekeh(f): 7:23pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
It's always nurses And the murder usually occurs in Houston. If you're a nurse and you live in Houston and your husband no like you at all, carry your loads and waka. 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 7:24pm On Feb 03, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: That's the point You don't see the child as yours but a fuzzy joint property 2 Likes |
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