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Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 10:07pm On Feb 03, 2015
chimerase2:
Yes but suprisely she was a virgin
reallyand how are you guys now?
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by cyprianlah(m): 10:09pm On Feb 03, 2015
I will marry her if it leads to marriage
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by Chidonc(m): 10:13pm On Feb 03, 2015
bobolizim:
ummm...hv seen two of my guys dt did dt...dey ended up looking for that girl cos of sex and not cos of love...they said who will want such girl...nd even now dey ended up dumping the girl do u now whycos she wanna turn them into sex addict...they both dated same girl and dey said d girl can kill one with sex

Dat case is different, not all girls u ave sex wit on first date are like dat
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 10:15pm On Feb 03, 2015
cyprianlah:
I will marry her if it leads to marriage
really??and you wont be like ds girl's no worth?
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by Allureoftheseas(m): 10:18pm On Feb 03, 2015
bobolizim:
really?and are you guys still together now??

yap we still together. relationship is a year old now and we keep loving each other. already in ma heart to av her as my future wife nd she also wants d same. u knw life is beautiful wen u find a one in a million star babe. she is just so different,
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 10:21pm On Feb 03, 2015
Chidonc:


Dat case is different, not all girls u ave sex wit on first date are like dat
ummm...
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 10:25pm On Feb 03, 2015
Allureoftheseas:


yap we still together. relationship is a year old now and we keep loving each other. already in ma heart to av her as my future wife nd she also wants d same. u knw life is beautiful wen u find a one in a million star babe. she is just so different,
ummm soubd romantic...
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Feb 03, 2015
ronald4lif:


I don't think having sex on a first date makes a woman cheap or one without dignity, she may never have sex with you or refuse sex advances for a year but still be having it with others at the slightest giving opportunity.

Also, I don't see why a woman who enjoys sex, have it for the first date is labelled cheap but the guy who does same is seen as a smart guy. Anything that one loves and it makes them happy they should go for it. If the girl is cheap then the guy too is.
I like you ronald. Always making sense.
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 10:44pm On Feb 03, 2015
softysparky:

I like you ronald. Always making sense.
umm
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 10:51pm On Feb 03, 2015
but in normal stuff,is it really good or does it make one great having sex first day??to me no matter how,i cant love such person cos i will b luking fr her cos of sex not love nd wat the proof that she can do dt wit oder guys if she can do dt with d first day we met?
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by Oahray: 10:58pm On Feb 03, 2015
I can't even get to that point at first meeting, no matter crazy I am about her.

I wonder why it's almost always only the lady that gets the bad label in matters of sexuality. It's not fair.
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by ronald4lif(m): 11:25pm On Feb 03, 2015
softysparky:

I like you ronald. Always making sense.

Daalu rinne ezigbo smiley
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 11:28pm On Feb 03, 2015
Oahray:
I can't even get to that point at first meeting, no matter crazy I am about her.

I wonder why it's almost always only the lady that gets the bad label in matters oef sexuality. It's not fair.
lol...cos d one that get pregnant is d lady nor the guy
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Feb 03, 2015
That says more about your self worth than hers. Why can't you believe that you must be everything she wants. Because if she was loose she'd phuck and forget you.



bobolizim:
but in normal stuff,is it really good or does it make one great having sex first day??to me no matter how,i cant love such person cos i will b luking fr her cos of sex not love nd wat the proof that she can do dt wit oder guys if she can do dt with d first day we met?
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 11:31pm On Feb 03, 2015
and i wonder why ladies aint replying on this thread...
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 11:34pm On Feb 03, 2015
Dimples192:
That says more about your self worth than hers. Why can't you believe that you must be everything she wants. Because if she was loose she'd phuck and forget you.



umm..sound gud but i dont really get the last line
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by Odunharry(m): 11:34pm On Feb 03, 2015
bobolizim:
share your experience if it has happened to you before having sex with somone on first date and are you guys still together?

...can you marry such lady or guylooking forward to seeing people's response...
Yet to experience that but what is the crime in having s*x on the first date?what difference does it really make?
If u meet someone and u both feel like,no problem and to the ladies,having sex on first date dsnt mean the relationship wont last or he will run away.Atleast we have seen countless relationship that the partners didnt have sex on first date yet it didnt last and vice versa.
Guys and girls dont please people to displease urself.
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by Nobody: 11:35pm On Feb 03, 2015
bobolizim:
umm..sound gud but i dont really get the last line
* if she was loose she would not want to be with you aft the act.*
Ps I'm a lady
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 11:39pm On Feb 03, 2015
Odunharry:

Yet to experience that but what is the crime in having s*x on the first date?what difference does it really make?
If u meet someone and u both feel like,no problem and to the ladies,having sex on first date dsnt mean the relationship wont last or he will run away.Atleast we have seen countless relationship that the partners didnt have sex on first date yet it didnt last and vice versa.
Guys and girls dont please people to displease urself.

ummm...u sound great but not all relationship are meant to last originally nd cos a relationship last doesnt mean dere is love there...wat f one is in dt kind of relationship cos of sex??u no i can date dt person cos i derive pleasure nd nt love .....
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 11:42pm On Feb 03, 2015
Dimples192:

* if she was loose she would not want to be with you aft the act.*
Ps I'm a lady
really?seems like hv seen ur moliker somewhere,are u a uite?umm..bk to topic...still thinking,can dr b a relationship without sex??hugs??kiss
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by Odunharry(m): 11:47pm On Feb 03, 2015
bobolizim:
ummm...u sound great but not all relationship are meant to last originally nd cos a relationship last doesnt mean dere is love there...wat f one is in dt kind of relationship cos of sex??u no i can date dt person cos i derive pleasure nd nt love .....
how can one go into a relationship with someone they dnt love?
Though we know people go into relatnship for different reason ranging from sex,material gain,love etc...People are different and go into relationship for different reason but i dont think i can go into a relationship with someone i dnt love.
Back to the question it doesnt matter if we have sex on first date or not,once the girl suit me and i know she is the kind of girl i will want to marry,then i will marry her.first date sex or not
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 11:51pm On Feb 03, 2015
Odunharry:

how can one go into a relationship with someone they dnt love?
Though we know people go into relatnship for different reason ranging from sex,material gain,love etc...People are different and go into relationship for different reason but i dont think i can go into a relationship with someone i dnt love.
Back to the question it doesnt matter if we have sex on first date or not,once the girl suit me and i know she is the kind of girl i will want to marry,then i will marry her.first date sex or not
really??did u just say people go to relationship cos of love??most r just infatuated tho might change to love later....nd can u advise a lady to hv sex wit a date first date?
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by Oahray: 11:59pm On Feb 03, 2015
bobolizim:
lol...cos d one that get pregnant is d lady nor the guy
girls do not get themselves pregnant. Guys chase them to the ends of the earth and then call them loose for agreeing?

The double-standard sucks.
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 12:02am On Feb 04, 2015
Oahray:
girls do not get themselves pregnant. Guys chase them to the ends of the earth and then call them loose for agreeing?

The double-standard sucks.
ummm..yea u r right ooo...guys r somhw
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by Odunharry(m): 12:03am On Feb 04, 2015
bobolizim:
really??did u just say people go to relationship cos of love??most r just infatuated tho might change to love later....nd can u advise a lady to hv sex wit a date first date?
I wont but It up to her to do or not
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 12:06am On Feb 04, 2015
Odunharry:

I wont but It up to her to do or not
you wont...like dt oders i didnt c it
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by Nobody: 12:11am On Feb 04, 2015
ronald4lif:


Daalu rinne ezigbo smiley
E ka mu anya nna?
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by Oahray: 12:11am On Feb 04, 2015
bobolizim:
ummm..yea u r right ooo...guys r somhw
yeah, girls too are guilty of double standards in their own way.

@topic, if I can sleep with a girl at first meeting, I have no moral right whatsoever to call her loose. If she suddenly is no longer good enough for me for that sole reason, neither am I good enough for the angel that I perceive is good enough for me.
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 12:20am On Feb 04, 2015
Oahray:
yeah, girls too are guilty of double standards in their own way.

@topic, if I can sleep with a girl at first meeting, I have no moral right whatsoever to call her loose. If she suddenly is no longer good enough for me for that sole reason, neither am I good enough for the angel that I perceive is good enough for me.
ummm...sound like u r mature nd positive
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by ronald4lif(m): 1:52am On Feb 04, 2015
softysparky:

E ka mu anya nna?

Ego oyibo nwa anorom chimchim, mana ka chi foo sie

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Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by bobolizim(m): 8:18am On Feb 04, 2015
ronald4lif:


Ego oyibo nwa anorom chimchim, mana ka chi foo sie
choi...wating be ds??!!!
Re: Readers Respond:can You Marry Somone You Have Sex With On First Meeting??? by ronald4lif(m): 10:03am On Feb 04, 2015
bobolizim:
choi...wating be ds??!!!

Lol! It's just an Igbo salutations, nothing to worry about bro smiley

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