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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:12am On Feb 04, 2015 |
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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by mainman7(m): 7:27am On Feb 04, 2015 |
Indeed, this is the height of cowardice, igbos are the most senseless cowards ever known to Man. Immediately, I saw the title, I knew 99.99% of them would be igbos. They have the highest wife killing rate in the world; It is official! A truely strong and matured man would never hit let alone kill his wife. Being a true Yoruba man, instead of displaying his ability to kill by killing a weaker sex, Benjamin Adekunle joined the army and got the title of killing and slaughtering the largest Number of opponent soldiers in the civil war. We still hold the title, ask to verify how Col Obasanjo (OBJ's Son) and other Yoruba Soldiers are slaughtering Bokoharams in large numbers. I'm so proud to be Yoruba! |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:43am On Feb 04, 2015 |
For those who spent all yesterday on my case una well done. My stand is simple, if God let you pass through some bad situations its so you can use your experience to help others going through the same thing. I too have shared my personal life and my bad dating experiences here off course anyone can use it against me but I put it out there things personal to me I don't share. Anyway the day I come here and start telling girls to endure bad relationships and manage that the man will change after marriage then everyone reserves the right to call me out. You go through a bad patch yet you have zero empathy for those in the same shoes constantly blaming those in the same situation, constantly turning the tables against people in the same shoes you walked. I can't understand It. Anyway each to their own. I understand the thousand mentions and insults sha because what the poster preaches suits our thoughts hence we will conveniently not see anything wrong and attack anyone who calls it out 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:44am On Feb 04, 2015 |
aisha2: My dear, man(male or female) is an animal!! I guess you are a mother, you will be amazed the extent you'll go for your kids in circumstances of life & death when man is pushed to certain limits, the beast in them will come out, history is replete with numerous stories the lady who beat the maid to the extent of damaging her eyes & pouring hot water on her(the story was shared on NL). That was the beast in her at work Your siblings that are listed above have probably tamed the beast in them to a great extent but when faced with certain dire situation, trust me the beast will arise 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:45am On Feb 04, 2015 |
ILIDEFI: I just had to answer you, I am not a moslem low inconsequential shot 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by cococandy(f): 7:52am On Feb 04, 2015 |
Yea women are supposed to be a bane of support for each other especially in this patriarchal world. One would think we would be more sympathetic to another woman who got killed by her husband instead of making it her fault. Knowing full well that we would probably have done the same thing she did if we were in her shoes. Aren't we our own worst enemies? A married woman who's just coming back from an illegal shenanigan with her lover will be among the first to slutt-shame another woman caught in the same act screaming how she's a disgrace to womanhood. If only we stopped to think before throwing others (who are just as human and flawed as us) under the bus all in the bid to appear virtuous maybe there would be more support when we need it. Not condemning others when they are in bad situations and expecting support when we are in the same situation. The world doesn't work that way. 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by cococandy(f): 7:54am On Feb 04, 2015 |
mainman7:oga what's up na? What did Igbo people do to you? 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by EyesWideOpen(m): 7:59am On Feb 04, 2015 |
coogar: The truth is always too bitter a pill to swallow. I believe you got my point not withstanding what balderdash you've chosen to spew thereafter, my deed is done here. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:59am On Feb 04, 2015 |
cococandy: I refuse to believe that myth. Men just say it to knock our heads together with that statement. We differ and that is expected we react differently. I don't think she is throwing others under the bus I just think she doesn't empathise with others in the shoes she once walked. How many of you ladies came around and understood my point and defended me yet some differed so if you could understand despite the thousand others calling me names how then are we enemies to ourselves? Sometimes we agree sometimes we differ based on experiences and convictions but we are not enemies. Women support each other in the worst situations 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by cococandy(f): 8:00am On Feb 04, 2015 |
aisha2:oh well. Still on the learning tracks anyway. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by miredia(m): 8:01am On Feb 04, 2015 |
satura:Replace the "confident" with "rude". 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by mutter(f): 8:07am On Feb 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Thank you Many women remain in an abused marriage so long because they are afraid and ashamed to speak up. Not just because they are ashamed of the experiences they made but because people write them off as screwed up , weak and so on. Initially you might get a little bit of sympathy but those that sympathize with you quickly turn round and throw it at you. We are all human and all guilty of the same, things like this make us aware of our short comings and give us reason to think again. Aisha is a wonderful lady and has done so much here, helping so many people in need. She is passionate about what she does and caring for the less privileged. She wrote what she did not to hurt me but she was expressing her hurt for the victims, I respect that ! I hold her in high esteem and I hope you all do so too. 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by soonest(f): 8:08am On Feb 04, 2015 |
aisha2:Na today u know mutter? I don't take her seriously one bit. What about a man that will come to Nigeria to marry a naive small girl, training her in nursing so that she can be his money back and he can sit at home and lazy about. They expect her to be the kind of wife his ancestors had and also be the breadwinner in the family. Abeg it's all for business gain never for love, the man wants the woman as a money bag and the woman sees him as passport to usa. 5 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by cococandy(f): 8:11am On Feb 04, 2015 |
mutter:and even though I don't agree with your opinions like half of the time, I must say I admire your restraint. I wish I can take half the insult sometimes without whooping the assss of the offending party. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by miredia(m): 8:20am On Feb 04, 2015 |
neoapocalypse:If I am temporarily unable to provide, should I be disrespected? Judging from your logic, it would mean YES! |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 8:22am On Feb 04, 2015 |
mutter: I agree with you that victims are afraid of being shamed hence their hesitance to leave I hold her in high esteem also and know she was trying to jolt you into empathy but I knew her statement will be used by others for nefarious purposes. The same point you made was made by countless females here yet you were the only nailed on for 'justifying' murder Keep it up 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by waternogeteneny: 8:23am On Feb 04, 2015 |
DAT ARTICLE STINKZ OF BIGOTRY AND TRIBALISM... AMERICA HAS A VERY HIGH MURDER RATE AND EQUALLY HIGH RATE OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. THE LIE IN DAT ARTICLE IS FOCUSING ON TRIBE . HERE ARE SOUTHWEST MEN KILLING THEIR WIFES IN AMERICA DAT THE WRITER DID NOT INCLUDE. SOUTHWEST NIGERIAN AMERICANS HAVE THE HIGHEST RATE OF WIFE KILLING IN AMERICA. http://www.tampabay.com/news/publicsafety/crime/tampa-pharmacist-tried-cpr-after-killing-wife-deputies-say/1103168 Ask him to tell u thhe yoruba menbutchering their wifes here. That is just a lie. https://www.nairaland.com/1851829/kola-kills-wife-titilayo-kola http://oyedeleafolabi..co.uk/2014/10/graphic-guy-slits-girlfriends-throat.html http://www.punchng.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art200711142103835 http://africanoutlookonline.com/new/?option=com_content&view=article&id=609:560 http://www.vanguardngr.com/2011/04/jealous-hubby-pounds-wife-to-death/ http://digitalizednigeria.com/2011/01/31/man-plots-mothers-death-%E2%80%9C-i-only-told-them-to-collect-her-dollars%E2%80%9D/ http://234next.com/csp/cms/sites/Next/Home/5560264-146/story.csp http://234next.com/csp/cms/sites/Next/Home/5560264-146/story.csp |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by miredia(m): 8:26am On Feb 04, 2015 |
Fhemmmy:I Hv closely observed money is the revolving factor for an unruly behavior or respect among the Nigerian stock. I'd rather she keeps her money abeg. I'll even pay her salary equivalent if that will zip her lips. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by adconline(m): 8:35am On Feb 04, 2015 |
Why isn't anybody talking about prenutial agreement? Most Naija men are shallow and delusional when picking life partners.. They just want a woman who can cook and keep home happy. Most Naija women are more strategic and futuristic..more likely to pick someone who's ahead financially, career wise, more goal-driven.. Most Women look for a leg-up in life thru marriage while most men look for peace of mind thru marriage 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by miredia(m): 8:40am On Feb 04, 2015 |
raumdeuter:Stories like this deplete trust... You start getting overly wary. Wow!! |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:40am On Feb 04, 2015 |
miredia: You have said it all , "temporarily" , no woman would fault a man who is down but fighting to get up , we all have highs and lows in our career but when a man's sole career is to sit back and wait for a woman to bring the bacon home then he doesn't deserve a meal , even physically challenged individuals are providing for their families. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by miredia(m): 8:42am On Feb 04, 2015 |
Fhemmmy:What is she loosing exactly? |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 8:45am On Feb 04, 2015 |
cococandy:U wasted your data replying that azshole? 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by miredia(m): 8:47am On Feb 04, 2015 |
neoapocalypse:I don't quite know anyone around me who does that... Comfortably sitting at home feasting on a woman's peanuts. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by miredia(m): 8:51am On Feb 04, 2015 |
soulglo: 2 Likes
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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by miredia(m): 8:56am On Feb 04, 2015 |
Timbuktou:It can make you loose your mind trust me. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fellonigerians: 9:00am On Feb 04, 2015 |
Very sad trend... I dont think it has anything to do with the profession, stress, or the woman being the breadwinner... |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by MightyFortress: 9:15am On Feb 04, 2015 |
Na wa oh... |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by edwife(f): 10:00am On Feb 04, 2015 |
Wow,very disappointed SMH 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 10:16am On Feb 04, 2015 |
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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 10:23am On Feb 04, 2015 |
Fhemmmy: Thank you Sir! |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Idowuogbo(f): 10:38am On Feb 04, 2015 |
edwife:You see your people? Smh x2 1 Like |
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