there is this girl named Anita that I was dating for two months, in may 2014. immediately she found out I was ibo, she said she hates my tribe with passion, that all we care about is money..money & said it was over. I begged her, that I 'm not like that, besides I was born in Edo state to Ibo parents. eventually she left

l began working hard, got employed at Hi tech construction company, worked there for six months and I finally hammered... got a new apartment, new car & I became the talk of the town.. *not proud*

One Saturday morning, I went to buy airtime, I saw Anita's parent crying and begging their landlord, I went closer , saw some boys throwing out their properties, I asked the landlord why, he said they can't pay their two years rent which was 160k, I rushed home signed a check gave it to the landlord, they returned back their loads and everybody was looking at me. since that day, Anita parents have been calling me their son, and Anita won't let me be. its either she's the one calling, knocking at the door begging me. I was like okay fine, I forgive you. But, she wants us to be together AGAIN...

All I want from you nairalanders is your Advice.. cos I am planning on getting married this year. I need the right woman. THANKS

"hammered" ..
You work as a carpenter in that company abi



Anita is back because you have hammered.



Chai

What?!...Brother, Don't dare marry that Anita
She's a gold digger and a diamond miner.
So she left you because you're Igbo and she's trying to come back now cause you have money.
By the way, How can you date someone for 2 months without the person knowing your tribe

A word is enough for the wise. If you like marry her and come here in 2 years time to seek for our help.

if you still love her forgive her

You can forgive her nwanne but d question of whether you should marry her considering that she hates your entire tribe is one you need to ask yourself. Remember that she isn't just going to be married to you but to into the tribe as well. I suggest if you still love her to start out as friends with her and take your time to understudy the real intent of her recent change of heart towards you. Never promise her marriage bro until u r sure she is truly changed. In all sha just use your head and look hard before you make any leaps.

she broke up with you cos you are an ibo man ----- Not in love

she's back because u helped her------- gratitude

she will divorce when she pay you back probably with her body --------- certainly


think twice dude. it's better not to marry than to be stuck in marriage

Smh!

Your grammar can give someone headache

Na Nigeria film.
Well, you have just proven to her that you are not the type of person she thought you were. On her part she lack trust because you told her you were not that kind of person still,she never gave you time with her because you were an Ibo and what she understands about the Ibos.

glimpse33:
there is this girl named Anita that I was dating for two months, in may 2014. immediately she found out I was ibo, she said she hates my tribe with passion, that all we care about is money..money & said it was over. I begged her, that I 'm not like that, besides I was born in Edo state to Ibo parents. eventually she left

Speechless

l began working hard, got employed at Hi tech construction company, worked there for six months and I finally hammered... got a new apartment, new car & I became the talk of the town.. *not proud*

Why do I have a feeling that you just lied here

One Saturday morning, I went to buy airtime, I saw Anita's parent crying and begging their landlord, I went closer , saw some boys throwing out their properties, I asked the landlord why, he said they can't pay their two years rent which was 160k, I rushed home signed a check gave it to the landlord, they returned back their loads and everybody was looking at me. since that day, Anita parents have been calling me their son, and Anita won't let me be. its either she's the one calling, knocking at the door begging me. I was like okay fine, I forgive you. But, she wants us to be together AGAIN...

So you're trying to tell me you paid their house rent free of charge with #163 hmmmmm I believe your story but this part be like extract from this life or superstory

All I want from you nairalanders is your Advice.. cos I am planning on getting married this year. I need the right woman. THANKS

I'll advice you move on with your life and forget about her she's a bloody tribalist

this gist no pure at all..

Bisjosh:
Smh!

Your grammar can give someone headache

like me am having severe headache all ready

You still love her and you wanted her back. Isn't that why you paid? Better not say no or else I'll be sending you my account number too ( at least you have hammered).
Anyway, is she someone you would want to spend the rest of your life with? After she left you, who has she been with and who is she with?
It may be her poor parents pressuring her to give in to you cos they know your history.
IT IS YOUR DECISION!

Odillz:
"hammered" ..




Anita is back because you have hammered.



Chai

Carpenter things

its left to u bro, bt u must prove to her that u dnt like money as she earlier accused ur tribe of loving money too much

What's your full name that it didn't occur to her you were ibo btw I doubt this is real. try harder and make the script lenghthier ,it cld make a nollywood movie you know

lol....what's d name of dis nollywood movie

thanks y'all for your contributions.. I don't have feelings for her anymore.. maybe I should just tell her how much I hate her.. sighs
besides am 26, I shouldn't be bothered of marriage..

MizMyColi:
[size=15pt]And They Believe This Poorly Cooked Story. Smh.[/size]

okbye

glimpse33:
thanks y'all for your contributions.. I don't have feelings for her anymore.. maybe I should just tell her how much I hate her.. sighs
besides am 26, I shouldn't be bothered of marriage..

good, cos if i hear u wanna get married to her, i wud find her and i wud kill her.......lolzz ....girls like dat dnt deserve guys like u

glimpse33:
there is this girl named Anita that I was dating for two months, in may 2014. immediately she found out I was ibo, she said she hates my tribe with passion, that all we care about is money..money & said it was over. I begged her, that I 'm not like that, besides I was born in Edo state to Ibo parents. eventually she left

l began working hard, got employed at Hi tech construction company, worked there for six months and I finally hammered... got a new apartment, new car & I became the talk of the town.. *not proud*

One Saturday morning, I went to buy airtime, I saw Anita's parent crying and begging their landlord, I went closer , saw some boys throwing out their properties, I asked the landlord why, he said they can't pay their two years rent which was 160k, I rushed home signed a check gave it to the landlord, they returned back their loads and everybody was looking at me. since that day, Anita parents have been calling me their son, and Anita won't let me be. its either she's the one calling, knocking at the door begging me. I was like okay fine, I forgive you. But, she wants us to be together AGAIN...

All I want from you nairalanders is your Advice.. cos I am planning on getting married this year. I need the right woman. THANKS

What kind of question is this? Use your head my friend

I dnt like Ibo tribe too, their mother's are wicked, they control their sons a lot, even @ 40,50 years old men, their mum still live their lives for them, tribalism

glimpse33:
there is this girl named Anita that I was dating for two months, in may 2014. immediately she found out I was ibo, she said she hates my tribe with passion, that all we care about is money..money & said it was over. I begged her, that I 'm not like that, besides I was born in Edo state to Ibo parents. eventually she left

l began working hard, got employed at Hi tech construction company, worked there for six months and I finally hammered... got a new apartment, new car & I became the talk of the town.. *not proud*

One Saturday morning, I went to buy airtime, I saw Anita's parent crying and begging their landlord, I went closer , saw some boys throwing out their properties, I asked the landlord why, he said they can't pay their two years rent which was 160k, I rushed home signed a check gave it to the landlord, they returned back their loads and everybody was looking at me. since that day, Anita parents have been calling me their son, and Anita won't let me be. its either she's the one calling, knocking at the door begging me. I was like okay fine, I forgive you. But, she wants us to be together AGAIN...

All I want from you nairalanders is your Advice.. cos I am planning on getting married this year. I need the right woman. THANKS

kindly do us all a favour.

throw this story into a trash can, even Hollywood can't even accept it. Lies!!!!!

Couldn't read the tale past the point where the girl 'found out' her bf's tribe after two months. Mtscheeew!

You think we are _morons here abi?

glimpse33:
there is this girl named Anita that I was dating for two months, in may 2014. immediately she found out I was ibo, she said she hates my tribe with passion, that all we care about is money..money & said it was over. I begged her, that I 'm not like that, besides I was born in Edo state to Ibo parents. eventually she left

l began working hard, got employed at Hi tech construction company, worked there for six months and I finally hammered... got a new apartment, new car & I became the talk of the town.. *not proud*

One Saturday morning, I went to buy airtime, I saw Anita's parent crying and begging their landlord, I went closer , saw some boys throwing out their properties, I asked the landlord why, he said they can't pay their two years rent which was 160k, I rushed home signed a check gave it to the landlord, they returned back their loads and everybody was looking at me. since that day, Anita parents have been calling me their son, and Anita won't let me be. its either she's the one calling, knocking at the door begging me. I was like okay fine, I forgive you. But, she wants us to be together AGAIN...

All I want from you nairalanders is your Advice.. cos I am planning on getting married this year. I need the right woman. THANKS

You did a good one but your a disappointment. We Igbo are proud of our culture and maybe you are not a pure bred cos you have this Edo complex

That aside ...never you disown your tribe or origin because of ordinary Toto.. don't you know Igbo women are the prettiest in Nigeria so dump this Anita ...you gave them money and so be it

Tell her parents you are not their son

Anita said Igbo love money ..yes we live and love money

She and her parents hate money so look at where it landed them

Never you date a girl that is not Igbo

We are not to be yoked with non Igbo

You may manage south south girls but Igbo preferably

DiamonJ:
I dnt like Ibo tribe too, their mother's are wicked, they control their sons a lot, even @ 40,50 years old men, their mum still live their lives for them, tribalism

So why bothered ..Igbo sons respect their mother's unlike other tribes their mum divorced and cheat on their fathers and so doing lost respect from your siblings

Igbo don't need you
We don't even know you

Why want us
We don't want you
We want to be on our own
That's why we wanted and still want Biafra

Can't you guys just get this simple analogy

Money Over Bitches. #TEAMMOB

@OP,

If anyone believes this, he can also believe that you are the Pope.

And if by any chance this your Nollywood story is true, and you are actually coming on NL to ask for what to do, then i doubt you have the intelligence to be employed in any sensible capacity by a standard construction company. Unless you're employed as a labourer though.....in which case you still wont hammer within 6 months.

Hahaha cool story bro..

Anita must have heard that funny but very true story about the Ibo guy at the altar with his bride to be, when he received a call.

Next thing, "Nna container has landed pastor we continue tomoro"

Nice one bro. At least the landlord accepted your check