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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by soonest(f): 10:40am On Feb 04, 2015 |
miredia:Just asking o, if i temporarily disrespect you as a result of your temporal lack of provision should i be murdered? See it takes 2 to tango in these their crime of passion |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Amhappy(f): 11:00am On Feb 04, 2015 |
Fatal attraction comes to mind. No wonder most of the crimes shown on it are committed by humans in black skin and i do wonder if white skin doesnt kill their partners. There is no justification for a premeditated cool blood murder of any other human being whether you are provoked or not. Dont these men provoke their wives? So why where they not killed first. Wives in Nigeria provoke their husbands and vice versa yet we dont see a killing spree. Abeg all this argumentative essay should park well. When this evil befall your sisters or daughters in future please dont even call for the man's arrest,shake his hand,bless him and let him go. This shows no regard or santity for human life. Thou shall not kill says the Lord. He who take a life must answer for it. Why take what you cannot give? 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by damiso(f): 11:00am On Feb 04, 2015 |
armyofone: I don't necessarily agree with the dont go to church part Knowing God intimately (not necessarily church going sha) is actually a way by which you can curb that urge for revenge or payback .Na we go church pass but these days (myself inclusive sometimes I am asking for more grace)but I struggle to actually see in us the fruits of the faith that we actually profess. I however agree that there is alot of pent up stress and frustrations which if not properly handled could lead to psychotic breakdowns like this. Going through a divorce is an upheaval in anyone's life and if proper mental or psychological help is not sought some people just go bonkers . something small and they tip over the edge. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 11:10am On Feb 04, 2015 |
Foolish women, they must have seen some abusive signs, but as a typical mgbeke slaves they are, they will go around as if everything is perfect. sisters and brothers in christ will sing the endure anthem for you. The moment a nicca raises his hand on you or threatens you, dial the fvcking police and kick their black arssee out in the cold. Animals thinking they have the right to take another ones life. The worst slavery one will undergo is being in a free country and still treated like a slave. Na for women body dem dey show themselves. Yet they queue up at embassy to go to these organized countries while leaving the boko haram, ritualist country for who? Yeye animals! Let them rot in jail! As for the other ones wey the law dey pepper for body, pls carry your load back to the jungle where you reign as alpha fvcking king of baboons. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 11:33am On Feb 04, 2015 |
Chillisauce: Buhahhahahahahaha. Dem dey this forum dey beat chest. Let them try their barbaric antics! The almighty U.S will put them in their place. Shior!! Na only to come nairaland come whine for us dem sabi. Too much talk no action!! U.S LAWS ARE THIS U.S LAWS ARE THAT, U.S LAWS ARE UNFAIR, BLA BLA BLA!! Obama dey hear all those one? Leave that place and stop ranting! 6 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 11:41am On Feb 04, 2015 |
babyosisi:When you were begging jennykadry to let your brother marry her sister-in-law, were you having this in mind? We're all hypocritical. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by charles316: 12:10pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
aisha2: You are incorrigible. It`s a pity that education cant make people like you better than the animals in the zoo. Stop bullying your fellow women here. You dont argue like a lawyer. You need to some problem solving skills and logical approach to issues. I see the reason lawyers like you are badly paid. Not worth the hype. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Moana(f): 12:13pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
SirShymexx: i too dont blame you you have been around too many immature females and you have based this on your "research on them". Women never asked to be treated like men, they simply want to be treated with the same dignity and respect they give to others. We embrace our femiminity, thats who we are. Don't worry one day when you have grown up mentally to associate yourself with such women you will be able to understand what i mean. I'm not a relationship expert cos I deal with everything based on my own unique way.like i said you still have a long way to go. When you eventually mature and start dating mature women, you will have something to say about real relationships. However, whenever there's a problem in a relationship/marriage that doesn't involve the man cheating or being a deadbeat - 8 out of 10 times it's always the woman's fault. But they're so manipulative that they'll turn it against you like the biblical Eve messed Adam's life up. Maybe you missed the part in the bible where God told Adam not to eat from the tree. There was nowhere in the bible that it was mentioned that Adam lost his will to say no to Eve. After all was Eve not his helper and he the Head? So you are telling me that if your friend tells you not to sleep with a particular and then someone else convinces you to do so and you become HIV positive you will blame your actions on the person who convinced you engage in sex? This is why you maybe have not come across many grown up women, because they want a man who can stand by his word, a man who is not easily influenced by trivial things. No one wants someone who calls himself a man but at the same time just goes anywhere the wind blows him to. Too many lives have been destroyed by women out here You want to talk about destroying life and humanity? How many wars have been started and fought by women? And how many have been started and fought by men? Like i said women want a man who can take responsiblity for his actions instead of blaming it on everyone else but himself. and I'm not even going to lie, if not puss.y, kids, and the natural sexual urge, dealing with women is basically pointless cos the overwhelming majority of them have absolutely nothing to contribute to your life - apart from illogical tripe induced by emotional impulses. save yourself the stress and become gay and adopt. Better yet you and your gay lover can just get a woman to be your surrogate mother, since dealing with women is too much stress. P.S: I know you're a woman - but I just like saying it as it's. The truth is bitter but you can't run from it and too many lives are getting destroyed daily cos of this madness.the truth really is that you still have a long way to go and when you finally reach a point where you can attract a grown, independent woman you will be able to understand what amazing beings they are. Ask your father, he might be able to tell you a thing or 2 about what you are missing out on. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 12:18pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Most don't even know the history of some of these countries. How much they have sacrificed to get their countries to this. Then, one yeye alpha baboon immigrant will think they can take the laws in their hands. You treat your partner like a slave but turn to cry when given a taste of your medicine. 6 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by adusim: 12:21pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
andromida: My dear, shut up if you have nothing meaningful to contribute. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 12:34pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Chillisauce: Let keep rottening in jail. They only know how to destroy but not to build. Reasons why the whites will always be ahead. 6 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 12:41pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Everything is all about money to these folks. See them shouting my money, my money. Some of them the wives dont even know their bank or property details in and out of the country. when they die sudden death, the bank takes all, extended family takes the rest. Fish brains, they only think of the immediate, not the future. Butcher your wife and end up picking soap in jail. Children end up in welfare. Penny wise, pound foolish and you think these are the people answering "head of the family". With these kind of reasoning. Twah!!! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by bukatyne(f): 12:50pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Fhemmmy: LOL Please don't |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 12:55pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Amhappy: In Nigeria, the woman is on her own so she endure the abuse and all that, she has no voice... |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 12:57pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
bukatyne: Thanks jare my wonderful sister, we will get better but we just have to be open to change |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 12:58pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Chillisauce: Heheheheehe. No be because of money them run go U.S? Exactly what is said earlier na. a man killing his wife is acting on his emotions and these ones wey dey brag here go talk say na only woman dey emotional, na only woman dey take irrational decisions. Infact i now understand why they rant so much in this section. The laws for that side dey frustrate them die!! I trust the prisoners for that side. Dem go use their rods devour their anus tire. Hehehe. Now im convinced we have a lot of miscreants and potential murderers in this forum. A lot of mentable unstable peeps. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 12:59pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Now is that the norm? nope BUT is it too much to ask for the woman to be treated right and if things fall apart, she walk away with half of what you jointly posses? |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 1:00pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
RaptorX: Thank you sir...... |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by bukatyne(f): 1:02pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
2sExy1: @bold DidN'T your uncle have any serious relationship when he was abroad? 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 1:04pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
miredia: Money is not the only issue..... woman wants security, she wanna know that tomorrow will be well and I see no crime in that, from what I have been reading from my male counterparts here, they are saying, while I am single, my money is my money and now that I am married, my money is still my money and chairman, that is totally wrong, it is joint money..... you as the man go and make the money and she manages it..... BUT if she is not prudent enough, then tell her why and you manage it. . 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 1:08pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
miredia: I guess since you have been married, she never invested her time (that is her life), emotion and hope? She just woke up in the morning sit, eat the food that you cook, make up all day and leave your kids to suffer. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 1:13pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Fhemmmy: Ok So you build your auto empire then u marry a chic and things don't work out after a while So Your ex is entitled to half of what u had built pre marriage because what she was your ex What happened to her own skills Are both parties not equal anymore Why should one party use marriage as a means of enrichment 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by sukkot: 1:14pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Fhemmmy:well you gotta be unbalanced to do some sick shytt like that |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by sukkot: 1:15pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 1:17pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: na majority of the squatters sef shout pass shi shi, dem no even get my money, my money! which money! |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 1:21pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Chairman, I think we all have wrong impression of how this things are done, they look at your income and debt and expenses and check that of the woman but alimony is awarded but on child support, my brother, no matter how much it will take care of my kids to be provided for. I am fine with it... 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by sukkot: 1:23pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
SirShymexx:yeah i hear ya. you do know that in life there is only one woman or man ( in the case of women ) you will ever truly love deeply and purely. and this happens around the ages of like 17 - 21. around that time in your life when you have zero responsibility. no bills, no worries. just unhinged pure unadulterated infinity love. thats that woman or man whom you will secretly be thinking about forever. the secret is never to let that one go. however in our youthful exuberance like 90 percent of us let that one go. i think that is the situation with the one you said you didnt mind sharing your space with. yeah when you get to the age of 90 you will still secretly be nursing the ' what if ' . there is one man or woman that everybody secretly thinks about. the love was so pure and uncorrupted. you do know in life we are only accorded only one of that kind of pure unadulterated love. everything after that is conditional- love lmao. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by bukatyne(f): 1:24pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Who owns the child in standard Nigerian culture? 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 1:26pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Fhemmmy: Which impression Why should a woman be compensated for her time with a man Are the sexes not equal again They want to be independent yet kept at the same time Does it make sens Alimony is from an era when women had no choice but to be subservient to men in marriages so if they were thrown out they had nothing Now they re empowered yet marriage is an office to them |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 1:27pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
bukatyne: Madam Make your point rather than asking roundabout questions |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by rman: 1:30pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Stop trying to convince Fhemmy. Women want equality with men, but they always approach all issues with men from a position of weakness. They wait for the men to approach,they prefer older men, richer men, stronger men. They also want to profit by dating or marrying men. Even the biological role of mothers that they all crave, men must be made to pay. I still do not understand the twisted logic! Make your own damn money and do not see your relationship/marriage as a get away ticket away from poverty and everyone will be happy. You can imagine some listing sex and taking care of the baby as things they should be compensated for in marriage. So these things do not bring joy anymore the moment the male figure is out of it? 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 1:39pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
rman: This man you fuuny sha. LMAO @being joyful? spending all your life taking care the kids that when they turn 18yrs, will find their way. Continue being joyful, when you spend all you career peak and tomorrow, sent packing by one of your joys (husband) who practically takes everything in divorce, because you were so joyful in taking care of the kids that you forgot that joy will be your paycheck later in the yr. You go fear reasoning na! Things bringing joy indeed. When dem pursue you for house, we go know how far the joy go last. 4 Likes |
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