1.Infidelity
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Mutual love and trust are the foundation for a meaningful relationship
in a mainstream monogamous society. When a partner indulges in an
extramarital affair, the action strikes at the very heart of a
relationship which is often unable to cope with the emotional and
practical consequences and heads towards breakup. The strongest proof
of how infidelity is the most common cause of a breakup lies in the
rising divorce rates in modern society.
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2.Sex
While sexual intercourse is not a necessary part of a relationship,
physical intimacy certainly is. It is only when two people enjoy and
desire intimacy with each other that they make a couple in the
romantic sense and are different from close friends of opposite sexes.
In fact for serious and long term relationships like marriage, the
quality of sexual satisfaction can be a reliable indicator as to its
health – while happy couples may differ on how often and how much they
are doing it, a common characteristic of relationships on the verge of
breakup is complete lack of sexual or even physical intimacy. Then
again sex is not simply a physical act of release – there are a whole
lot of other aspects to it like emotions, senses, hormones,
perceptions and so on. Thus it is no wonder that different things
satisfy different individuals. When taken to an extreme, diverging
sexual likes and dislikes, sexual fetishes and sexual dysfunction
induce sexual incompatibility and eventually lead to a breakup.
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3.Money
Together with sex and infidelity, money issues rank among the most
common reasons for conflict in a committed relationship like marriage.
Money may be used to dominate a relationship or satisfy a hungry ego.
Too little of it can be a source of anxiety especially when there are
mortgages to be paid off or kids to be educated.
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4.Intellectual compatibility
While a sexual and emotional disconnect are the most common reasons
for straying in a relationship, an equally valid reason could be lack
of intellectual compatibility between the partners. Intellectual
compatibility is an important force of attraction which enables a
couple to be interested in roughly the same things and take pleasure
in similar kinds of mental preoccupations.
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6.Personality problems
Sometimes making a relationship work is not about a joint effort at
all – it may just happen that one of the partners has personality
issues which makes it simply impossible to have a relationship. For
instance while narcissist and sex addicts find it impossible to remain
faithful to a single partner, those suffering from sociopathic and
borderline personality disorder may be extremely difficult to live and
have a relationship with. Such personality disorders make unfaithful
and unsupportive partners since people suffering from them are
incapable of making an emotional connection with a primary partner.
Unfortunately it is not always possible to spot personality disorders
in the early stages of dating – by the time one feels something is
off, he/she is already in the thick of a troubled relationship and the
only way to safeguard one's emotional health is to get out of it.
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6.Lack of purpose
And then there are couples who simply drift into a relationship and
justify it perhaps by saying something like "it seemed the next
logical thing to do". Two people may have been merely dating each
other and after a while moved in together. Or they may have been in an
exclusive relationship for some time and then started looking at
wedding rings. Marriage or any committed relationship for that matter
is a complex thing with its specific responsibilities and privileges
and unless both partners feel that they are completely ready for
those, it is likely to end in a breakup.
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7.Abuse
This is a far more serious cause of breakup and is often an extension
of the above point – in most cases the abusive partner has a
deep-rooted personality problem which leads him/her inflict abuse in
some form or other – emotional, verbal, physical or sexual. Substance
abuse is another variation whereupon drug use or alcohol addiction
wreaks havoc in a relationship to the extent that the non-addicted
partner has no other option but to leave for the sake of his/her
well-being. http://vickyadegoke..in/2015/02/10-reasons-people-break-up.html
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None of them is the reason why I break up

falconey:
None of them is the reason why I break up

what was the reason you called it quit.

falconey:
None of them is the reason why I break up

then i guess it's teen love First To break up .. Na hin ghet swags pass

8. Spiritual reasons

9 am just tired

Princecalm:
what was the reason you called it quit.

I got bored

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falconey:
I got bored

so the love just vanished like that.

I broke up becos I didnt have the patience to stay with a stubborn chic and I hav a big ego.

None of d above.

obongproff:
I broke up becos I didnt have the patience to stay with a stubborn chic and I hav a big ego.

None of d above.

Yeah all of all this is attached to the stated fact ... Like falconey said,i just got bored, if they had purpose in that relationship,she wouldn't have called it quit....

Money....money... money.

obongproff:
I broke up becos I didnt have the patience to stay with a stubborn chic and I hav a big ego.

None of d above.

You broke Broke up becos your relationship doesn't have purpose,....''Lack of Purpose'' :*:x Pls Try to be purposeful....

falconey:
I got bored

This situation can be attributed to personality problem in The case he doesn't fit into the style you want him,like he Don't like love texting,always calling etc wheareas you love it...
Money can also cause it ,He don't Buy u sharwama,ice cream Like you see other do to thier Boos....

jworos:
Money....money... money.

Go and hustle Joor

Truepee:
Go and hustle Joor

n who tell u say i no dey hustle??

jworos:
n who tell u say i no dey hustle??

Just Try satisfy her.... You are working for her ah tin you know...So don't get tired

Truepee:
You broke Broke up becos your relationship doesn't have purpose,....''Lack of Purpose'' :*:x Pls Try to be purposeful....

So u nid a purpose to stay with a stubborn chic abi? U nid a purpose to stay with someone dat doesnt respect ur feelings abi? U nid purpose to stay in a relationship with consistent quarrels abi? I guess a lady also nids purpose to stay in an abusive relationship abi? Good theory!

Baba forget it. Some tins were not meant to be. Period!