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7 Reasons People Break Up by Truepee(m): 11:01am On Feb 05, 2015 |
1.Infidelity . . Mutual love and trust are the foundation for a meaningful relationship in a mainstream monogamous society. When a partner indulges in an extramarital affair, the action strikes at the very heart of a relationship which is often unable to cope with the emotional and practical consequences and heads towards breakup. The strongest proof of how infidelity is the most common cause of a breakup lies in the rising divorce rates in modern society. . 2.Sex While sexual intercourse is not a necessary part of a relationship, physical intimacy certainly is. It is only when two people enjoy and desire intimacy with each other that they make a couple in the romantic sense and are different from close friends of opposite sexes. In fact for serious and long term relationships like marriage, the quality of sexual satisfaction can be a reliable indicator as to its health – while happy couples may differ on how often and how much they are doing it, a common characteristic of relationships on the verge of breakup is complete lack of sexual or even physical intimacy. Then again sex is not simply a physical act of release – there are a whole lot of other aspects to it like emotions, senses, hormones, perceptions and so on. Thus it is no wonder that different things satisfy different individuals. When taken to an extreme, diverging sexual likes and dislikes, sexual fetishes and sexual dysfunction induce sexual incompatibility and eventually lead to a breakup. . 3.Money Together with sex and infidelity, money issues rank among the most common reasons for conflict in a committed relationship like marriage. Money may be used to dominate a relationship or satisfy a hungry ego. Too little of it can be a source of anxiety especially when there are mortgages to be paid off or kids to be educated. . 4.Intellectual compatibility While a sexual and emotional disconnect are the most common reasons for straying in a relationship, an equally valid reason could be lack of intellectual compatibility between the partners. Intellectual compatibility is an important force of attraction which enables a couple to be interested in roughly the same things and take pleasure in similar kinds of mental preoccupations. . 6.Personality problems Sometimes making a relationship work is not about a joint effort at all – it may just happen that one of the partners has personality issues which makes it simply impossible to have a relationship. For instance while narcissist and sex addicts find it impossible to remain faithful to a single partner, those suffering from sociopathic and borderline personality disorder may be extremely difficult to live and have a relationship with. Such personality disorders make unfaithful and unsupportive partners since people suffering from them are incapable of making an emotional connection with a primary partner. Unfortunately it is not always possible to spot personality disorders in the early stages of dating – by the time one feels something is off, he/she is already in the thick of a troubled relationship and the only way to safeguard one's emotional health is to get out of it. . 6.Lack of purpose And then there are couples who simply drift into a relationship and justify it perhaps by saying something like "it seemed the next logical thing to do". Two people may have been merely dating each other and after a while moved in together. Or they may have been in an exclusive relationship for some time and then started looking at wedding rings. Marriage or any committed relationship for that matter is a complex thing with its specific responsibilities and privileges and unless both partners feel that they are completely ready for those, it is likely to end in a breakup. . . 7.Abuse This is a far more serious cause of breakup and is often an extension of the above point – in most cases the abusive partner has a deep-rooted personality problem which leads him/her inflict abuse in some form or other – emotional, verbal, physical or sexual. Substance abuse is another variation whereupon drug use or alcohol addiction wreaks havoc in a relationship to the extent that the non-addicted partner has no other option but to leave for the sake of his/her well-being. http://vickyadegoke..in/2015/02/10-reasons-people-break-up.html . . Read also - Why do men lie?See Some reasons!!! - http://vickyadegoke..in/2015/01/why-do-men-liesee-some-reasons_26.html . Does he love me? - Signs that he loves you - http://vickyadegoke..in/2015/01/does-he-love-me-signs-that-he-loves-you.html . |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by falconey(m): 11:10am On Feb 05, 2015 |
None of them is the reason why I break up |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by Princecalm(m): 11:12am On Feb 05, 2015 |
falconey:what was the reason you called it quit. |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by Truepee(m): 11:15am On Feb 05, 2015 |
falconey:then i guess it's teen love ![]() |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by Baba419(m): 11:16am On Feb 05, 2015 |
8. Spiritual reasons 9 am just tired |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by falconey(m): 11:57am On Feb 05, 2015 |
Princecalm:I got bored |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by Nobody: 12:01pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
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Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by Princecalm(m): 1:04pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
falconey:so the love just vanished like that. |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by Nobody: 1:20pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
I broke up becos I didnt have the patience to stay with a stubborn chic and I hav a big ego. None of d above. |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by Truepee(m): 1:53pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
obongproff:Yeah all of all this is attached to the stated fact ... Like falconey said,i just got bored, if they had purpose in that relationship,she wouldn't have called it quit.... |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by jworos(m): 1:55pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Money....money... money. |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by Truepee(m): 1:55pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
obongproff:You broke Broke up becos your relationship doesn't have purpose,....''Lack of Purpose'' ![]() |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by Truepee(m): 1:58pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
falconey:This situation can be attributed to personality problem in The case he doesn't fit into the style you want him,like he Don't like love texting,always calling etc wheareas you love it... Money can also cause it ,He don't Buy u sharwama,ice cream Like you see other do to thier Boos.... |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by Truepee(m): 2:00pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
jworos:Go and hustle Joor |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by jworos(m): 2:05pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Truepee:n who tell u say i no dey hustle?? |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by Truepee(m): 2:12pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
jworos:Just Try satisfy her.... You are working for her ah tin you know...So don't get tired |
Re: 7 Reasons People Break Up by Nobody: 2:33pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Truepee: So u nid a purpose to stay with a stubborn chic abi? U nid a purpose to stay with someone dat doesnt respect ur feelings abi? U nid purpose to stay in a relationship with consistent quarrels abi? I guess a lady also nids purpose to stay in an abusive relationship abi? Good theory! Baba forget it. Some tins were not meant to be. Period! |
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