kika23:
Stuck in the 'friend zone' with that special someone who you wish could see you in a more romantic light? Here's a simple insight into getting that someone of your interest, interested.

STEPS:

1. Be Patient: The individual who has been your friend, is not going to overnight fall magically in love with you no matter what advances you make. Don't assume because you are good friends, she will believe you are a good lover to her by just upfront telling her, you have to subtly reveal it to her. Remember you first have to stack the odds in your favor first before going for the kill, but we'll come to that later.

2. Carry on being a good friend: Don't just stop all friendly things with her and become this new flirty guy. You'll creep her out and lose her friendship.

3. Be Bold: This is probably the reason why you got stuck in the friend zone anyway. Let her know how amazing you think she is (but don't overkill it), live in the moment, when you are out, compliment her on her physical features, for example "you always look great, but tonight, your figure in that dress...... simply flawless"

4. Flirt More: Start flirting a little more. Learn the art of kino, touch her more especially when flirting. But don't just flirt with her, flirt with other women, especially in her presence (don't overkill though), let her see that other women desire you. By doing this, you are leveling the playing field. Allow her to think you are interested in other women, it displays confidence, she'll respect you.

5. Go for the Kill: By now you are ready to ask her out on a date. The best way to do this, ask her out at an even where you are likely to be a very important figure in the room, for example your birthday party. Take her outside to somewhere quiet, where the two of you can be alone, pull her in close, look her dead in the eye and say, "would you like to go out sometime?" She'll know its not on a friendship term.

6. Get physically early: You need to get out that friend zone, and the best way is to get intimate. When you go out, hold her hand, put your hand around her and read her body language. If she's not pulling away, she's comfortable with you.

7. The kiss, if you get a chance before the end of the date, take it, if not, at the end of the date, hug her with your hands slightly above her waist: With your fingers gently pressed into the arch of her back, she will naturally come closer, kiss her cheek, slowly kiss her neck, look into her eyes and go for the lips.

kika23:
Oh really? The round table discussion's with you, her and her boyfriend? Or?

Missmossy: Nice tips but i really feel we don't need to sweat over turning a friend into a lover though...guys or ladies aint scarce commodities

WoodcrestMayor: What do u say?

kika23:

Missmossy:
Nice tips but i really feel we don't need to sweat over turning a friend into a lover though...guys or ladies aint scarce commodities

DrAmanda:
Hmm

kika23:

Stuck in the 'friend zone' with that special someone who you wish could see you in a more romantic light? Here's a simple insight into getting that someone of your interest, interested.

STEPS:

1. Be Patient: The individual who has been your friend, is not going to overnight fall magically in love with you no matter what advances you make. Don't assume because you are good friends, she will believe you are a good lover to her by just upfront telling her, you have to subtly reveal it to her. Remember you first have to stack the odds in your favor first before going for the kill, but we'll come to that later.

2. Carry on being a good friend: Don't just stop all friendly things with her and become this new flirty guy. You'll creep her out and lose her friendship.

3. Be Bold: This is probably the reason why you got stuck in the friend zone anyway. Let her know how amazing you think she is (but don't overkill it), live in the moment, when you are out, compliment her on her physical features, for example "you always look great, but tonight, your figure in that dress...... simply flawless"

4. Flirt More: Start flirting a little more. Learn the art of kino, touch her more especially when flirting. But don't just flirt with her, flirt with other women, especially in her presence (don't overkill though), let her see that other women desire you. By doing this, you are leveling the playing field. Allow her to think you are interested in other women, it displays confidence, she'll respect you.

5. Go for the Kill: By now you are ready to ask her out on a date. The best way to do this, ask her out at an even where you are likely to be a very important figure in the room, for example your birthday party. Take her outside to somewhere quiet, where the two of you can be alone, pull her in close, look her dead in the eye and say, "would you like to go out sometime?" She'll know its not on a friendship term.

6. Get physically early: You need to get out that friend zone, and the best way is to get intimate. When you go out, hold her hand, put your hand around her and read her body language. If she's not pulling away, she's comfortable with you.

7. The kiss, if you get a chance before the end of the date, take it, if not, at the end of the date, hug her with your hands slightly above her waist: With your fingers gently pressed into the arch of her back, she will naturally come closer, kiss her cheek, slowly kiss her neck, look into her eyes and go for the lips.

diamondcrownltd:


senoir choir leader and daughter of a pastor telling the world her lifestyle

AgapeCharis:
Wow! Nice tips



kika23, I can't wait for our first date

kika23:


Lool!! Abi? This year though

AgapeCharis:
lol....abi o

Which state do you live?

kika23:


Just let me know where you are.....I'll be there!!

BreezyRita:
Kika23 of Nairaland! Expert on friend zoning things
Nice tips, add lots of spending to it too. That does the trick for most Nigerian babes.

Those saying 'once friend zoned, forever friendzoned, believe me, you can get out....
Get out and become lovers.!

AgapeCharis:
why is something telling me that the bolded is a specific message to a particular person?

Hehehehe
Its for you
Howdy ?

BreezyRita:


Hehehehe
Its for you
Howdy ?

BreezyRita:
Kika23 of Nairaland! Expert on friend zoning things
Nice tips, add lots of spending to it too. That does the trick for most Nigerian babes.

Those saying 'once friend zoned, forever friendzoned, believe me, you can get out....
Get out and become lovers.!

BreezyRita:
Kika23 of Nairaland! Expert on friend zoning things
Nice tips, add lots of spending to it too. That does the trick for most Nigerian babes.

Those saying 'once friend zoned, forever friendzoned, believe me, you can get out....
Get out and become lovers.!

AgapeCharis:
Meehn....I'm enjoying this hollywood movie


I live in the center of excellence

kika23:


Looool!! Yesoo

Most people don't believe it's possible to be "un-friendzoned". Atimes it may be that something needs to open one's eyes inorder to realize that the person that's been zoned is "the one"... It may take time, but it'd happen.

kika23:


Where in particular?

AgapeCharis:
You're in Lagos?

cassyrooy:
Lord! Let her realise i was created for her.




*TheManWhoCan'tBeMoved*

kika23:

Nope!! I'm close to you

AgapeCharis:
lol
Where in particular??

kika23:

I'm not saying

AgapeCharis:
Take still ugly tongue inside joor.

U'r not saying?? Charm just got another mile farther

kika23:


Hahaha.... Very funny..... Leave him outta this ooo