cloudyskyglind:

don't fight abeg as much as you want access to my bank account i still don't want to see you fight. Pass them on to me, let me show them that

See this one wey no get mind

pinkycute:
Lolzzzzzzz... Your question looks twisted @Cloudyskyglind, well, it's distance relationship and I tink he's not too sure of my love to him, that's why he's overprotective and he's scared to lose me aswel

Oic have you given him reasons to doubt your love? why is he scared of losing you? Did you tell him you were contemplating leaving him

Maybe you're right @Richard, but don't you think that's awkward in away "though he do possess everything written above by the Op. but he's insecurity towards me sometimes ( drive me crazy )

Richard6:

I think he loves u thats why he is scared of losing u

Tashaamania:

See this one wey no get mind

Don't undermine my abilities, young lady

If he doesn't have sex with you means he only sees you as a friend and nothing more. He doesn't like you nor is he sexual attracted to you.

pinkycute:
Maybe you're right @Richard, but don't you think that's awkward in away "though he do possess everything written above by the Op. but he's insecurity towards me sometimes ( drive me crazy )

D most important thing is that there is love there, he cant go away due to insecurity, so dont be scared. Just try as much as you can to let him know that he is safe with you.

pinkycute:
Maybe you're right @Richard, but don't you think that's awkward in away "though he do possess everything written above by the Op. but he's insecurity towards me sometimes ( drive me crazy )

babe what do you expect from the dude.
So him being afraid to loose you because your type to him probably is rare to find is now driving you crazy.
Humans are insatiable indeed.

I've never give him any reason to doubt my love for him, am honest and trustful but he's kind of scared because he feel am beautiful and for sure dudes will flaunt around



Alright @Cloudyskyglind!!... Enough of questioning and answering... OK,

cloudyskyglind:

Oic have you given him reasons to doubt your love? why is he scared of losing you? Did you tell him you were contemplating leaving him

cloudyskyglind:

Don't undermine my abilities, young lady

Haha okay

sexymoma:
I guess

I do not think he is a pretender.. I think it is more like he lost interest in you or found someone else. That does not mean he never liked you or saw you as a future wife.

I have once done most of this for a lady and still left her. Because reality dawned at me that she might not actually be the one. The more I knew her the more I saw Serious flaws, that I knew deep down I couldn't manage or leave with. I had to call it off, for both our good.

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Battery1:

D inventor was richard6...i go talk am and he no go do anytin to me.

ahbeg help me tell ham nw
how e fit do sumthn?....he be mob nie

pinkycute:
I've never give him any reason to doubt my love for him, am honest and trustful but he's kind of scared because he feel am beautiful and for sure dudes will flaunt around



Alright @Cloudyskyglind!!... Enough of questioning and answering... OK,

okay but do you think you are beautiful? And, are dudes 'flaunting' around you? If yes, maybe that's why he's insecured.

this'll be my last question i promise

Matthewbriggs:


I do not think he is a pretender.. I think it more like he lost interest in you or found someone else. That does not mean he never like you or saw you as a future wife.

I have once done most of this for a lady and still left her. Because reality dawned at me that she might not actually be the one. The more I knew her the more I saw Serious flaws, that I know deep down I couldn't manage or leave with. I had to call it off for both our good.

This is what people fail to realize when in a relationship.
You know you can't take some type of shii but you still took the plunge only to come to NL when things has gone south.

A guy can posses al des, nd stil dump u like an old doll...

Tashaamania:

Haha okay

If you don't speak out, your mouth will smell so it's better you say that thing that's inside your mouth.

Matthewbriggs:


I do not think he is a pretender.. I think it is more like he lost interest in you or found someone else. That does not mean he never liked you or saw you as a future wife.

I have once done most of this for a lady and still left her. Because reality dawned at me that she might not actually be the one. The more I knew her the more I saw Serious flaws, that I knew deep down I couldn't manage or leave with. I had to call it off, for both our good.

Hmmm

sexymoma:
My ex did all these... at the end nko

it's simply means you not meant to be!!!

If u lyk lick his leg if heis nt meant 4 u he can nava marry u

cloudyskyglind:

If you don't speak out, your mouth will smell so it's better you say that thing that's inside your mouth.

nothing

Lolzzzzz... What will I say Well I think am beautiful in my own world and dudes do flaunt around ( for sure ) because am not dat ugly but that doesn't give him enough reasons to doubt my love for him "because I barely go outing with my crushes or admirers



Well, I think, it's because of the distance "though and we hoping to meet someday...


So" @Cloudyskyglind, thanks for exposing me "Alright, and I hope you're OK now #lolzzzzzz

cloudyskyglind:

okay but do you think you are beautiful? And, are dudes 'flaunting' around you? If yes, maybe that's why he's insecured.

this'll be my last question i promise

Very true.

Battery1:

What is "smwan" pls?

someone

pinkycute:
Lolzzzzz... What will I say Well I think am beautiful in my own world and dudes do flaunt around ( for sure ) because am not dat ugly but that doesn't give him enough reasons to doubt my love for him "because I barely go outing with my crushes or admirers



Well, I think, it's because of the distance "though and we hoping to meet someday...


So" @Cloudyskyglind, thanks for exposing me "Alright, and I hope you're OK now #lolzzzzzz

I think u are beautiful, i can see dat...

boma95:


someone

I asked let me kno if am ur Mr right.

sexymoma:
My ex did all these... at the end nko

Then Check yourself out, you need spiritual guidance.

Thanks

Battery1:

I think u are beautiful, i can see dat...

pinkycute:
Lolzzzzz... What will I say Well I think am beautiful in my own world and dudes do flaunt around ( for sure ) because am not dat ugly but that doesn't give him enough reasons to doubt my love for him "because I barely go outing with my crushes or admirers



Well, I think, it's because of the distance "though and we hoping to meet someday...


So" @Cloudyskyglind, thanks for exposing me "Alright, and I hope you're OK now #lolzzzzzz

I have a solution for you; tell him that all the men in your town or city are gay

Well, you know, distance relationships are not always devoid of traits like lack of trust. So hang in there and all will be well. Meanwhile it's not a crime to know beyond the pretty profile pictures

Dats jst d definition of my fiance there . Rilli Love him

I go with you

Richard6:
Everybody always claims to be in a relationship but the truth is..some people are confused where their own will lead them to, what does the future hold for both of them. The girl sometimes out of fear, keeps her relationship open because she doesnt trust if her boy friend will actually end up marrying her especially when she loves him. So long your boy friend is not a pretender, I think these hints below may really help you a bit or to an extent if your boy friend has really come to stay or hit-and-run type.

1. SEX IS NOT A PRIORITY:
If your boy friend meets you as a virgin and never disturbs or pressures you over having sex with you or giving him your virginity, it means he has really come to stay. Initially, you told him you wont have sex till marriage even when you didnt mean it but just to try him yet his love for you never for one day changes, instead he encourages you..i think its an evidence that he loves you as a wife. If he meets you when you are no longer a virgin and can stay with you in same room for 2 or 3 days without being all about sex if you are the type that visits and stays for some days or doesnt demand sex whenever you come if you are the type that visits on a daily bases, I think its enough to believe that he wants not just sex but your company also.

2. HE SPENDS MORE ON YOUR EDUCATION:
He may not really be a rich guy but when it comes to your education, he will have money and spend it on it even when he doesnt spend much on you like that often. He sees you worthy to invest on to secure your future because he also sees it as his own future. Even as a rich guy, you notice he spends more on your education than other things about you. This is because he wants you not just to look good only but also to be somebody tomorrow and for him no to have any reason not to marry you.

3. HE SEEMS VERY JEALOUS:
His jealousness is not that he doesnt trust you. He trusts you, he just doesnt want others to tell you what he tells you or others to feel what he feels for you. He doesnt want to have this imagination that someone will be sleeping with or touching his wife. He sees you as his wife already even when you are not and you know someone feels hurts when someone sleeps with his wife.

4. HE TRIES TO KNOW MORE ABOUT YOUR FAMILY:
He always asks about your family, he tries to know how many brothers and sisters you have, what they do, how many are married and how many are single. What your parents do..its not as if he wants to know how rich or poor your family is, he is only trying to have the picture of the kind of family he wants or wishes to marry from.

5. HE HIDES NOTHING FROM YOU:
The reason why he hides nothing from you is because he believes that whatever he hides from you that you will definitely know when he marries you, so what does he gain in hiding something you will stil know tomorrow. He tells you what he likes and finds out what you like too. He tells you his life styles, his bad habits, things he can never do without and so on. He also tells you what he does for a living, sometimes he waits for you to ask in other to know if you would ask because he cant just start telling you unless you ask to avoid seeing him as someone who brags.

6. HE TRIES TO CHANGE CERTAIN THINGS ABOUT YOU:
Nobody has ever met someone and liked or loved everything about the person. He will always try to change the ones he feels he can change even though they say you should not try to change someone but in this case, he wants to be happy with his marriage. When he changes the ones he can change about you, he will start learning on how to adjust, live and cope with the ones he cant change. Its because of this trying to change certain things about you that sometimes your relationship with him seems to exprience ups and downs but at the end, peace, understanding and joy will come into existence.

7. HE SEEMS NOT TO SPEND MUCH ON YOU:
To you, you will think he doesnt spend much on you. We all know that there are guys that when they see a girl and wish to sleep with her, they will spend so much on her to get her to the extent that you will say..wow!..what a cheerful person. In his mind, he spends because he has a mission and once the mission is accomplished, he leaves or stops spending, some girls will understand or have exprienced this. There is no guy that will be dating a girl he wants to marry and just be spending on her like a fool, any guy who does that has a mission. When a guy who loves and wishes to marry you is dating you, he will be moderate on spending. This is because he will like to find out if all you want is his money or love and he cant find the answer by spending extravagantly on you. He will keep it slow, moderate and steady. He also believes that the more he saves now, the better he takes care of you tomorrow as his wife which is more important.

8. HE TRIES TO KNOW ALL ABOUT YOU:
Knowing all about you ranges from knowing what you like most, what you like doing most, what you like eating most, your favourite colour, your favourite food, your weak point, what gets you angry, what makes you happy, how you see and understand things, how you handle things when angered, how many children you like to have as a wife and so on. He is not being too inquisitive, he is only trying to know if he can cope with your type or not because marrying someone is not like dating somene. If he has no plan for future with you, he wont care t know some of these things.

9. HE ADORES HOW YOU ARE:
He adores how you are presently and will also adore how you will be in future especially when you tell him that your mum used to be slim and now she is fat..meaning that you may be fat too and he stil doesnt see it as anything. He tries to make your relationship attain that peak comfort level in which both of you will know and appreciate everything about each other.

10. HE LETS YOU KNOW WHEN YOU OFFEND HIM:
He wont bear grudges for you or keep records of what you do to him. When you offend him, he will let you know by reacting to it and make you understand that he doesnt like what you did. Its not like he is hot-tempered, he just wants you to understand and for you to try not to repeat it. Someone who doesnt have any intention of marrying you will say whats his business with what you do when you offend him afterall, is he going to marry you but someone who wishes to marry you will try to prevent such from happening next time and the only way to do that is by letting you know when you offend him. A hit and run type never feels offended, he will always be saying..its just a matter of time.

These are just few I know, maybe you can add yours or say your own opinion...its allowed.

These thins are normal in any "normal" relationship

A man will want to spend life with a woman who is

1. Understanding
2. Respects her man's feelings
3. Neat nd well cultured
4. Good in bed (if she is nt a virgin)
5. Knows how to care for the stomach
6. Can cook (willing to learn if she doesnt)