A 24-year old boy looking out through a train's window shouted, Dad, look, "the trees are going behind; they are moving very fast" his Dad simply stared at him with so much joy and smiled! A young couple seated nearby looked at the 24-year old and thought to themselves, he's so grown up but so childish, he must have a mental disorder for his father not to be bothered. Suddenly the young man exclaimed again; Dad, look, "the clouds are running with us" the couple could not resist and said to the old man, why don't you take your son
to a good doctor may be a psychiatrist? The old man smiled and said I just did. We are just coming from a doctor but not a psychiatrist ; we are just coming from the hospital. My son was blind from birth. He just got his sight today for the very first time, his behavior may seem stupid to you, it's more than a miracle to me. The young couple just sat down there, lost for words with a mixture of tears and shame in their eyes.. Everybody on earth has a story; don't judge people so fast or jump into conclusion about their private affairs; you don't know where they are coming from or what they have to deal with. The truth behind their story might surprise you. Take it easy with others, even if you have a perfect life..

Nice.

What is with nlers and attempting to shift the responsibility for your waywardness and bad decisions on others?

I will be back with the story of the man and the donkey!

And some ijapa folktales to boot!

Stop trying to make others feel guilty for your wrong and evil thinking!

carefreewannabe:
Nice.

Thanks,alot of times we judge people at face value without getting to know the real story,every1 carries a burden,some are good at hiding it,yle odas aint so lucky.

Oh shut up

tpiah99:
What is with nlers and attempting to shift the responsibility for your waywardness and bad decisions on others?

I will be back with the story of the man and the donkey!

And some ijapa folktales to boot!

Stop trying to make others feel guilty for your wrong and evil thinking!

hello Tpiah,i wish i knew what you are talkin abt,hv we met b4?

tpiah99:
What is with nlers and attempting to shift the responsibility for your waywardness and bad decisions on others?

I will be back with the story of the man and the donkey!

And some ijapa folktales to boot!

Stop trying to make others feel guilty for your wrong and evil thinking!

The brain of 24yrs old blind......

kaya09:

Thanks,alot of times we judge people at face value without getting to know the real story,every1 carries a burden,some are good at hiding it,yle odas aint so lucky.

You are right and I must confess that I am guilty too.

It would be better at times to perceive more and judge less.

One of my teachers at school told me that to understand something, we must NOT judge it. I have never forgotten her words.

Those who are first to judge others and call them names suddenly start feeling salty when their medicine is given to them even in smaller quantities than they gave those whom they first judged. Mtchew.

beautiful writeup. Read it before but always good to read it again. I was a chronic judger before but now.. I am getting better.


Like my leader will say, "na cloth dey cover body". You don't know who or what that person has gone through, why talk


In life we learn everyday, it can only get better.

okotv:
beautiful writeup. Read it before but always good to read it again. I was a chronic judger before but now.. I am getting better.


Like my leader will say, "na cloth dey cover body". You don't know who or what that person has gone through, why talk


In life we learn everyday, it can only get better.

Finally, where have you been?

carefreewannabe:


You are right and I must confess that I am guilty too.

It would be better at times to perceive more and judge less.

One of my teachers at school told me that to understand something, we must NOT judge it. I have never forgotten her words.

We are all guilty one way or the other,our aim should be to let our compassionate side show more often.

Anyone who doesn't want to be judged should drop the 'better than others' and 'holier than others' attitude. Because that is what makes posters point out your own wrong doings. Nobody will be interested in pointing out your own faults if you don't begin by riding a moral high horse into the arena.

kaya09:

We are all guilty one way or the other,our aim should be to let our compassionate side show more often.

Amen.

cococandy:
Those who are first to judge others and call them names suddenly start feeling salty when their medicine is given to them even in smaller quantities than they gave those whom they first judged. Mtchew.

My dear you sound angry, allow the breeze that brought a maize plant down to strengthen it.

carefreewannabe:


Finally, where have you been?

hmmm...busy and still is.

My examination is next month. Reading is all I plan to do till then. Not fully back. Just decided to hop in cause of a friend.

okotv:
hmmm...busy and still is.

My examination is next month. Reading is all I plan to do till then. Not fully back. Just decided to hop in cause of a friend.

I wish you lots of motivation.

kaya09:

My dear you sound angry, allow the breeze that brought a maize plant down to strengthen it.

Lol I'm actually with you on this matter.
Judgmental folks rub me the wrong way too.

Not angry. Just pissed.

I'm assuming you don't know what made me post those comments so no need to bother you about it.
Those who it concerns will get the message.

carefreewannabe:


I wish you lots of motivation.

thank you e-sister. I miss Nairaland too.

cococandy:


Lol I'm actually with you on this matter.
Judgmental folks rub me the wrong way too.

Not angry. Just pissed.

I'm assuming you don't know what made me post those comments so no need to bother you about it.
Those who it concerns will get the message.

Yea i wonder why,whats making you pissed? If you offend, ask for a pardon; if offended forgive. I have been angry at alot of things in my life too for a long tym,and i judged people,i am happy i have learned to see life from another angle.

kaya09:

Yea i wonder why,whats making you pissed? If you offend, ask for a pardon; if offended forgive. I have been angry at alot of things in my life too for a long tym,and i judged people,i am happy i have learned to see life from another angle.

-Oh I already said that. Judgmental people who don't like to be judged too. Isn't it annoying?

-I'm big on forgiveness too if the offender is sorry because I honestly don't like people who can't repent but feel they should be tolerated in their continuos annoying habits. so I guess that makes both if us.

-I'm happy for you too.

So did you have an epiphany? How did you begin to see things from a different angle?

I learnt to put myself in others' shoes and that works for me most of the time. except sometimes when I become selfish(like the basic human ) and overstep or hurt another person.
Then of course I don't fail to apologize even if I have to roll in the mud to get that forgiveness.

cococandy:


-Oh I already said that. Judgmental people who don't like to be judged too. Isn't it annoying?

-I'm big on forgiveness too if the offender is sorry because I honestly don't like people who can't repent but feel they should be tolerated in their continuos annoying habits. so I guess that makes both if us.

-I'm happy for you too.

So did you have an epiphany? How did you begin to see things from a different angle?

I learnt to put myself in others' shoes and that works for me most of the time. except sometimes when I become selfish(like the basic human ) and overstep or hurt another person.
Then of course I don't fail to apologize even if I have to roll in the mud to get that forgiveness.

I wouldnt really call it an epiphany,or some sort of major occurence in my life that made me decide to swing the other way,i guess its the little things in life,being bad and insensitive to others is fun i have to admit that much,but when the adrenaline dies down,or the alchohol wears off,and then you get to sleep at night,and that moment before you fall asleep,the wrong actions just come flooding to me,most times its like an avalanche that threatens to overwhelm me. I just got tired of being bad,i realized its so easy to be evil and judgemental,the real difficult one is kindness and forgiveness.

Touching

kaya09:

I wouldnt really call it an epiphany,or some sort of major occurence in my life that made me decide to swing the other way,i guess its the little things in life,being bad and insensitive to others is fun i have to admit that much,but when the adrenaline dies down,or the alchohol wears off,and then you get to sleep at night,and that moment before you fall asleep,the wrong actions just come flooding to me,most times its like an avalanche that threatens to overwhelm me. I just got tired of being bad,i realized its so easy to be evil and judgemental,the real difficult one is kindness and forgiveness.