Below are the qualities of an independent and responsible lady.

1. SHE IS ALWAYS PUNCTUAL:
I have met a numba of chics dat are not broke but one tin day all have in common is punctuality. If u have an appointment with dem by 5pm, day will be der by 5pm, worst case 5:15pm or so becos of traffic. And if she is held up in traffic, she will call u to tell u how bad d traffic and also ask u to give her some time. And if it seems like a dead-end, she will call and ask for a reschedule. Why? She knows d value of time and wdnt like to keep u waiting for long.

But for her counter-parts, baba u go wait tire. Day have no value for time cos day are simply on d collecting side of life.

2. SHE LIKES TO GIVE:
When u are dating dis kind of girl, trust me, you will always get sth from her. U wd most likely get a gift on valentine's day, christmas day and on ur birthday. Dis type of chic just feels she has to get u something even if u dont ask. Even if its an 800 naira Bodman perfume or a 200 naira boxers, d most important tin be say she will get u sth. And its not abt d size of d gift but always abt her attitude of giving.

3. SHE HARDLY OR NEVER ASKS:
She hardly asks for airtime, she hardly asks for cash, she wont ask u for her scl fees, or iphone, etc, except she is really stranded and has totally run out of options.

Wot she usually asks for is for ur attention, ur love and care. She mite ask for se.x sha...dat one day. But one tin is sure, she no be sucking blood, and has no plans to turn you into a walking ATM machine.

Why? Cos she doesnt see a man as a solution to all her financial problems. She enjoys d idea of having and spending her own money. She mite not be rich or from a rich family sha but she just like being self-sufficient.

4. SHE CAN HOLD AN INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION:
If u engage her in a thought-provoking conversation, u wd most likely enjoy d ride cos girls like dis usually have sth upstairs. U can reason with her cos she is far beta dan her counterparts who cant talk abt anytin beyond facebook, iphone, bbm, fashion, celebrities and men and dia troubles.

I've neva met a lady in dis category dat was also a sucking blood. And I have neva met a sucking blood dat can hold an intelligent conversation. 15 mins with dem, u feel empty and bored to death.

5. SHE IS CHASING SOMETHING:
This kinda chic is either chasing her studies or working on her career or business or chasing a dream. Day are hardly idle. Even while waiting for dia dream job, day like to engage in sth productive. Day dont like being idle, no mata how small d pay may be. If she cant any job, she mite decide to learn sth just to get herself busy.

6. SHE HARDLY BRAGS:
I have met a numba of independent ladies and I've realized dat dis chics hardly brag. Day hardly form. Some mite put up a stern look just to scare guys away but when u get to know dem, u see dat day are really nice and humble. But broke girls, kai! Na dem form pass, na dem brag pass! Smh.

7. SHE CALLS WITH HER OWN AIRTIME.
She can afford to buy 200 naira airtime to call you. If she is bouyant she will call u everyday. Some will even buy glo or etisalat special packages so day can have more airtime to call u, how sweet

Sucking bloods dont call. Dem no day eva get airtime. Dem go flash u till Jesus comes. Pathetic:@

8. SHE IS NOT ALWAYS AS HOT AS HER COUNTER-PARTS:
She doesnt always show cleavages. She doesnt always wear skimpy and revealing clothes. She mite wear a tight dress or sth revealing once a while, but its neva her trade mark.

And dis is one reason bobos like to fall for d sucking bloods. Becos we are always moved by wot we see, we are naturally attracted to d sucking bloods dat always dress hot, show cleavages and wicked hips, etc, and afta na still us go day complain.

If a lady has at least 6 of dis qualities and more, she is definitely a good wife material.

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I wasnt trying to defend d ladies. I just wanted to let some guys know how to spot a lady dat is not a sucking blood.

Ladies learn from dis so u can earn some respect.

Haha. Counter thread. But 90 percent of ladies are broke. Right?

Booked

i've been waiting for this

IceSplash:
i've been waiting for this

Why?

IceSplash:
i've been waiting for this

Now that it has arrived nko?

I smelled this counter from afar. But seriously this thread should be title "7 ways to identify a responsible lady".
I've dated a gal who never ask anything from me and easily gives but then not rich at all. A poor student. Its just in her.

ammyluv2002:
Why?

counter threads make nairaland more interesting

Everyday on nairaland, ladies this...ladies that. Haba! Give it a rest for just one day. It's becoming such a cliché
*yawns*

Thank God! I'm not a broke girl , halleluya! i don't beg, i don't ask...lmao!

Interesting, they ain't much tho,cuz ppl do take advantage of their generosity...

Nneka123:
Thank God! I'm not a broke girl , halleluya! i don't beg, i don't ask...lmao!

Can your bf or ex's say same thing?

A counter thread! Hmm.
Nice points but that last one no too follow.

Juliaann:
Can your bf or ex's say same thing?

yes

xpac01:
I smelled this counter from afar. But seriously this thread should be title "7 ways to identify a responsible lady".
I've dated a gal who never ask anything from me and easily gives but then not rich at all. A poor student. Its just in her.

what led to d break up. ..full gist plz

Naija girls making themselves broke since the day of pontius pilate, just to be milking guys....

But the truth is that even wor wor girls that should be giving are the ones taking.

There are some cute girls that give as well too.

Juliaann:
Can your bf or ex's say same thing?

She's not saying the truth. I just bought her recharge card.

afolag:

what led to d break up. ..full gist plz

Lol. Twz natural. She moved to kaduna after graduation and i don't do long distance romance, we agreed, she opened up to a new boo , i came down to enugu but still single.
Stopped talking with her much, but am still missing every bit of her much.

Am looking for such a lady. I no get luck at all, na broke and fine girlz plenty 4my hand.

Nneka123:
Thank God! I'm not a broke girl , halleluya! i don't beg, i don't ask...lmao!

Sharap!

My GF posses all these......she aint rich or that comfortable just self dependent, she calls for 20-30minutes despite whatsapp (when she is free and wants to talk).....infact am competing with her not to spend more than me in our relationship

smackimorn:


Sharap!

see his ugly face

I love this. But sadly you'll never meet a Nigerian gorl with these qualities, one will rather meet the ones that asks 'what do you do for a living?'

U sure say this ur list na for naija babes

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emperorchedda:
I love this. But sadly you'll never meet a Nigerian gorl with these qualities, one will rather meet the ones that asks 'what do you do for a living?'

Sori sir, I've met at least 6 naija babes with most and all of dis qualities. D one dat shocked me most was the one dat paid for our drinks even doe I asked for the date. She paid when I went to d loo, and by d time I called d barman she told me not to boda. I was dumbfounded.

Am always lucky to meet such ladies sha, doe d rate is like 1 out of 10. I have a feeling I wd marry a lady like dis cos am always lucky to meet dem.

well said
the ones that fault these one can know from their comments

i can give the world to such ladies
but go see the other types they think all guys are bad because the guys that gave them hard earned money took away their dignity and left on high speed now guys are all same and off it


i like a girl who is an independent lady


they challenge me and i fall fo........


thats enough signor

obongproff:


Sori sir, I've met at least 6 naija babes with most and all of dis qualities. D one dat shocked me most was the one dat paid for our drinks even doe I asked for the date. She paid when I went to d loo, and by d time I called d barman she told me not to boda. I was dumbfounded.

Am always lucky to meet such ladies sha, doe d rate is like 1 out of 10. I have a feeling I wd marry a lady like dis cos am always lucky to meet dem.

you just gave the same statistics with me and yet you say I'm wrong

oloworulz:
Am looking for such a lady. I no get luck at all, na broke and fine girlz plenty 4my hand.

lol this one strong ooo.

Goshhhhhhh i do spend for him but he dont like talking my money.If i buy him anything he will pay back!Guys like this are rare oo i neva see his type jare.

Oya, obongproff, God bress you for this thread