A friend of mine want on a date with a guy for the first, after the dinner together he took her to his apartment and ask her to kiss him but she refuse because she think is not right to kiss or have sex with him for the first date, he even want her to sleep over in his place she still refuse. Please is it right to kiss or have sex for the first time of you meeting the person and knowing about the person.

It all depends on the mood.

If u like...

To me bad

Even if her lips is so plump, I will hold myself

if the date was alright & okay,its no big deal to do it(but not more than 3,4 sec) or else its u and the guy on the bed.bt if the date was bullshit just shake hands and depart..

as the spirit leads..

first date...second date...third date...what difference does it make

Save ur pride, u can do it on the second visit

after the dinner together he took her to his apartment

it was because ur "so-called" friend sheepishly followed dise said guy to his apartment that led to this:

and ask her to kiss him

One a general note, is it right for a lady to follow a guy to his apartment on the first day?

But for me sha, I will attempt a non-ambitious kiss on a first date but definitely not on an invitation to ma crib

I guess tz ok 4 some people, but 2 me, its nt o. it makes me tink u r rushing.

y did she follow him home in d 1st place if not to kiss/sleep over or do other things...

Its not right and that guy is just plain silly for trying that stunt with that chick.

Optional2:
A friend of mine want on a date with a guy for the first, after the dinner together he took her to his apartment and ask her to kiss him but she refuse because she think is not right to kiss or have sex with him for the first date, he even want her to sleep over in his place she still refuse. Please is it right to kiss or have sex for the first time of you meeting the person and knowing about the person.

Even shaking hands is not allowed.

K9blunt:
Its not right and that guy is just plain silly for trying that stunt with that chick.

The guy is not silly, he's just sharp.
She gave him the greenlight by following him to his apartment.

demelza:
The guy is not silly, he's just sharp.
She gave him the greenlight by following him to his apartment.

Oh! Didnt read that part well then, she asked for it then.

Tallesty1:
Even shaking hands is not allowed.

hmmm ok oooo but y cant u shake hands

Optional2:
A friend of mine want on a date with a guy for the first, after the dinner together he took her to his apartment and ask her to kiss him but she refuse because she think is not right to kiss or have sex with him for the first date, he even want her to sleep over in his place she still refuse. Please is it right to kiss or have sex for the first time of you meeting the person and knowing about the person.

Send me a pm

That's my course as a lecturer
Let me lecture u; forget public opinion its deceptive

A kiss on the first date is not bad. I actually see it as a sign that we are getting somewhere, that you like me, and i like you too.

Nneka123:
A kiss on the first date is not bad. I actually see it as a sign that we are getting somewhere, that you like me, and i like you too.

Miss Nneka123 dis naija not America were teens go 4 a date nd end up in bed. I guess our culture in Nigeria dont permit kissing sumone u dnt no after ur first date wit him or her @least b patient nd wait 4 d 3rd or 4th date. Pls dnt advice ur frnds on dat ooooo.

Optional2:
Miss Nneka123 dis naija not America were teens go 4 a date nd end up in bed. I guess our culture in Nigeria dont permit kissing sumone u dnt no after ur first date wit him or her @least b patient nd wait 4 d 3rd or 4th date. Pls dnt advice ur frnds on dat ooooo.

so u know all this and u created a thread for it

Ezemarcel:
so u know all this and u created a thread for it

so shouldnt i create a thread to no wat others think abt it. Remember i said my frnd. Beside we need 2 share sum experince we had in life nd advice each other on how 2 go abt it.

Kiss as the thing hungry u reach,life is too short to dey ask this kin question

PussySandie:
If u like...

iyalaya virgin

why will the guy ask for a kiss?even to the extent of asking her to sleep over,he has just exposed what he actually want from the relationship