Hello nairalanders. I have had issue bothering me, i feel so ashamed, i can't tell my friends or family this issue. So i decided to come here to ask for your advice, i know i made a huge mistake, i can't even go out, i can't even face these two guys.

One is my boyfriend who i love so much, we have been having sex for a while, and all time he was using condoms, but recently he stopped, for some reasons known to him. I felt safe, because i know he was the only one i was having sex with, and he wasn't getting it else where. But then we started drifting apart, and he traveled to Ghana for school. we don't call each other or talk much, but he came back some time ending of January last month, and we sorted things out and had sex again, but the problem is that i started seeing one of his friends who i was also having sex with during that time. but i had sex with his friend a day before i had sex with him, then as of last week i notice that i was pregnant, and i don't know who is responsble!!! my boyfriend or his friend! please help me guys! what should i do? i can't even tell anyone, pls guys, I'm ashamed of myself , I'm calling everyone from north, south, east and west...pls come and help me, should i tell them both? your sincere comments pls,

hmm

are you kidding or Jst bored... 2 guyz
Dont even knw wot 2 say

choi! you be keeper! why have unprotected sex in the first place? , I mean how could you have sex with two guys? this is serious what should we do for you now? um tell them you are pregnant for both of them. court closed! case solved!

Hmm

If you tell both of them they will surely deny it

What do u want us to do now?

@mperoakeem pls say sometin

@nneka123 just try and imagine me in your shoes, it wasn't planned, i never knew i will be pregnant

ronald4lif:
Are you ready to mother a child and even if yes who becomes the father? Get rid of the pregnancy asap

That's the thing, am still in skul. i can't get rid of it, I'm scared, i dn't knw what to do

You need to have sex wit 1more guy 4u to confirm who is the real dad.......tank me lata

You never knew you'll get pregnant and yet you had unprotected sex



What should we do for you now? Help you rewind time?

.lmao,some nls be like hmm,,ur stories are 4 d gods n ancestors ,deir own aim is frontpage

I tot they say a woman always knws who d father of her child is no matter how many guys she has slept wit? Well calculating frm the time range, d new guy is d father. And hey, u better don't think of havn an abortion!!!! Unless u want God to shut ur womb entirely

micbreezy7:
You need to have sex wit 1more guy 4u to confirm who is the real dad.......tank me lata

lool go away

Damn it! This girl is snitchy.

For ur mind u tink u smart abi?
Shame

Cutehector4u:
I tot they say a woman always knws who d father of her child is no matter how many guys she has slept wit? Well calculating frm the time range, d new guy is d father. And hey, u better don't think of havn an abortion!!!! Unless u want God to shut ur womb entirely

am not thinkin of abortion, my boyfriend was the last person i had sex with, even if he was the one, if i tell him, he will tell his friend, and i had sex with his best friend too, i just don't know what to do

Wait till d baby comot na! When you dey do am without protection you know abi, d tin dey sweet. You come add another guy put on top.

Or you thought they had low sperm count.

Congratulation the babe is nw Ur's

mzcamii:
@mperoakeem pls say sometin

@nneka123 just try and imagine me in your shoes, it wasn't planned, i never knew i will be pregnant

please o, i don't want to be in your shoes. Because i'll never do such a silly mistake of having sex with more than one guy at the same time . All you have to do is have a conference meeting with both of them, calculate the days you have had sex with them, this will help you. Goodluck

mzcamii:
am not thinkin of abortion, my boyfriend was the last person i had sex with, even if he was the one, if i tell him, he will tell his friend, and i had sex with his best friend too, i just don't know what to do

see wat u'd do. Dnt tell ur boyfrnd, tel his frnd u r pregnant! See his reaction. Of course he won't tel ur boyfrnd because he knws he has been bleepin u behind his bak. Den after u tel him, tel ur boyfrnd! And hey, confess to ur boyfrnd d truth!

mzcamii:
am not thinkin of abortion, my boyfriend was the last person i had sex with, even if he was the one, if i tell him, he will tell his friend, and i had sex with his best friend too, i just don't know what to do

pregnancy for 3

Op, dnt wrri nA twins u go boRn, 1 fr ur guy nd 1 fr his friend , make i keep my bashiN shA,bt y hvin s..ex wit two best friendz, abi u won cuz kasala btwin dEm

mzcamii:
am not thinkin of abortion, my boyfriend was the last person i had sex with, even if he was the one, if i tell him, he will tell his friend, and i had sex with his best friend too, i just don't know what to do

his Bestie didn't know he was dating u ni see life oo
girl u no try o
may God help u

Nneka123:
please o, i don't want to be in your shoes. Because i'll never do such a silly mistake of having sex with more than one guy at the same time . All you have to do is have a conference meeting with both of them, calculate the days you have had sex with them, this will help you. Goodluck

lool she neva wished for dat to happen. Buh she was too careless anyways. No blame game here, what has hapend has happend. D deed has been done already.

There is smth called DNA test.



If it happened elsewhere, one of them might still want you but not in Nigeria. Our guys are not that nice.

Nneka123:
calculate the days you have had sex with them, this will help you. Goodluck

Make she hire statisticians abi

How about STDs?
If you've got just pregnancy you are safe then...

Cutehector4u:
I tot they say a woman always knws who d father of her child is no matter how many guys she has slept wit?

my broda na women of before before dey know, most ladies of nowadays r free agents and they care untill dem land wahala like dis one so

Beamborla:
There is smth called DNA test.



If it happened elsewhere, one of them might still want you but not in Nigeria. Our guys are not that nice.

dna test is very very very expensive. She can't afford such